@ bruhmayne post pre edit. That shyt is genius. It's like a nikka just added a rifle into his arsenal of knives.Alright I gave this speech to a homie of mine so I might as well drop it here.
Women love confidence. But the nikka I was giving the speech to couldn't get the difference between confidence and ego. Naturally he's of the lightskin "prettyboy (as he calls himself)" breed.
Confidence is important. It's one of those things as a man you should have not just because it's attractive but because it's a powerful tool. Confidence and ego are different versions of self esteem though. Lemme explain.
Say self esteem is a house. Now when you build your self esteem with ego, it's a glass house. Transparent. It's just as easy to build as it is to destroy. The greatest flaw though? It takes another person for it to ever change. If someone compliments you, it goes up. If a bytch hit you with a "ew he ugly" then it's like someone tossed a brick and took 3 stories off that bytch. Ego's are detrimental because they have to constantly be maintained. Like the butterface broads on FB always thirsting for compliments to repair the damage of realizing she single for the 5th straight Valentines day.
It also takes a bunch out of a man. An egotistical man has to guard his. These the type of nikkas thats at the club and see a dime,. but scared to approach for fear of taking a L. Instead they just wait and end up taking the number of a gully fat chick who had the guts to approach. Men CHOOSE, women settle weak ass nikka.
Confidence is a brick house. The brick is humility, cement is experience. If you fukk a chick playing proper game, what insult can take that away from you? None. Humility is the most important factor. That's what makes the solid foundation for your house. Unlike the ego, you build your confidence up yourself, and when someone throws rocks at it, them shyts bounce right off.
For dudes this is especially important. My oldhead told me to "be a ugly nikka". For one looks ain't that important for a dude to get chicks. I'd like to think I look better than Rick Ross cause I'm not fat, but I'd bet my life that he's fukked more dimes than I've laid eyes on.So be a ugly nikka instead. If you've ever seen one in the club, he's always approaching and usually getting rejected. Yet somehow he leaves that shyt with the most numbers. It's confidence. Any chick that rejects/clowns him does not hinder his next approach in the slightest. Dom Kennedy said once "The frogs jump on the lilypad with the most confidence"
Just look at all your experiences with objectiveness and humility. Egoists are the ones who make excuses like "She stuck up" or the classic "that nikka gay anyway". The point of experience being the cement is combined with humility it gives you the ability to keep growing without the approval of another person. You can look back at your wins with a "well this worked, I'll keep it in my aresenal" and your losses with a "well I won't use THAT again". That's when you learn game and such.
When you're first building your house it's tough. But stay humble. Your first victory will feel like lightning struck. But as you gain more experience and keep glass out your building materials you start to find a method to the madness. Soon it stops being luck.
So there you have it. Control that ego my nikkas.
My homie told me, the best way to keep yourself out of the friend zone is to establish sexual tension early. I.e. Sex talk. Some nikkas do this with finesse. (Bruhmayne post) and some just go bold and blind. Like this one chick mentioned her back and the first thing he did was comment about blowing it out.
But that shyt was too clever.
. Before this we decided once i finished law school and once she finished school ( she wanted to be a professor at a university (im pretty sure she is now as she was at the top of her class 
). So yeah me as a simp put aside my dreams at that time, dropped out of law school got a job (where i work now), bought the engagement ring went down on one knee 
and asked her to be my wife. wipes tear
, my list of invites was like 50, hers was like 150 
back in teh day when the chicks family paid for it out of ritual as a man you wouldn't care.
now most weddings its like half/half, chicks wanting a 30k wedding and ish
I remember for my wedding that thankfully never happaned, it was like 150 bucks a plate at this banquet hall
200 x 150 = 30k
the story of a simp
this was like 2007, my former friend the ones who party i met my ex fiance got engaged and married we were both in the wedding and right after then a few weeks later my gf at the time we were dating for like 3 years told me how she doesn't want to wait till she finishes school for marriage anymore
Was I ready ? nope
i was a pussified male who was scared of maybe I would lose her,, 6 months before the wedding date, i find out from my former friend the same one who introduced us, how my fiance had a abortion because she wasn';t ready for a kid at that moment, so yeah i dropped out of law school and this cyunt couldn't just put aside her career goals for little while instead killing my seed
I tried to forgive but i couldn't the trust was gone, went to counseling and all that, but she had no remorse a cold hearted russian, so I ended it, i finally grew balls and ended it.
anyways that was 4 years ago
Since then I've become a scholar in the game of relationships and how women think. I stay a step ahead and im no longer that weak emasculated man, yeah my heart got carved out stomped on and thrown in the garbage but it made me a man, it changed my whole thinking and process on life, my dealings with everyone. It's like i had tommy john surgery on my whole insides no homo as i came back stronger, wiser, faster
i don't know about you but i would have been happy as hell for that abortion. having kids typically will derail your life. worse yet the child becomes in most cases a monthly payment source for the woman that you get to see a few times a month.the story of a simp
this was like 2007, my former friend the ones who party i met my ex fiance got engaged and married we were both in the wedding and right after then a few weeks later my gf at the time we were dating for like 3 years told me how she doesn't want to wait till she finishes school for marriage anymore
Was I ready ? nope
i was a pussified male who was scared of maybe I would lose her,, 6 months before the wedding date, i find out from my former friend the same one who introduced us, how my fiance had a abortion because she wasn';t ready for a kid at that moment, so yeah i dropped out of law school and this cyunt couldn't just put aside her career goals for little while instead killing my seed
I tried to forgive but i couldn't the trust was gone, went to counseling and all that, but she had no remorse a cold hearted russian, so I ended it, i finally grew balls and ended it.
anyways that was 4 years ago
Since then I've become a scholar in the game of relationships and how women think. I stay a step ahead and im no longer that weak emasculated man, yeah my heart got carved out stomped on and thrown in the garbage but it made me a man, it changed my whole thinking and process on life, my dealings with everyone. It's like i had tommy john surgery on my whole insides no homo as i came back stronger, wiser, faster
