Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women
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my perspective might be a bit warped because 1 i've never in my life wanted kids and 2 i've never in my life wanted marriage.
if a woman i was with told me she was pregnant i would suggest the abortion before she'd even mention it to me.
Women are sweet as sugar when they like you but more venomous than a cobra and frostier than an icicle when they lose their emotions for you. When a woman loses respect for you or her feelings for you, you won't begin to believe some of the things she can pull.
Another thing is, learn how to break up cordially. You will save yourself a ton of headache in the future. You may really dislike her at the time, but keep your emotions under control and let her go with a smile on your face. Vindictive and angry women are really not fun to deal with. Also, keeping your emotional state under control will make her wonder why your emotional state is so calm and collected.
Another thing is, learn how to break up cordially. You will save yourself a ton of headache in the future. You may really dislike her at the time, but keep your emotions under control and let her go with a smile on your face. Vindictive and angry women are really not fun to deal with. Also, keeping your emotional state under control will make her wonder why your emotional state is so calm and collected.
Women want to know that your world ends when you split. Don't give her that satisfaction. That's why it's good to let a girl know when your in a relationship know that you'll be fine on your own. "My girl won't leave me because she knows how happy it will make me."- Patrice O'Neal 
Also, know the signs of when your girl is breaking bad and don't hesitate to leave.
If you see things changing that you don't like, then speak in it once. If she refuses to acknowledge or correct her ways, then leave. See, women just don't get up and leave men. They have to emotionally disconnect first. If you leave her during the period she is emotionally disconnecting, she will be a nervous wreck. Don't wait until she is no longer attached to you to try to make an ultimatum. By then she'll probably have another dude lined up and don't even care. Strike when you see the changes. The most common changes are:
1. Her routine in how she calls/texts changes
2. She spends more time with other people
3. The way she speaks to you changes (stops saying I love you, no more pet names baby, etc.)
Check all of this stuff. And if she continues after she's been checked. Dump her immediately. If you stick around, she's most likely going to lose interest, lose respect, keep you around for a little bit and then discard you.
If your woman isn't thrilled to see you, hear from you, or spend time with you, clean cut that chick. Your time is a privilege that other women would love.
If you see things changing that you don't like, then speak in it once. If she refuses to acknowledge or correct her ways, then leave. See, women just don't get up and leave men. They have to emotionally disconnect first. If you leave her during the period she is emotionally disconnecting, she will be a nervous wreck. Don't wait until she is no longer attached to you to try to make an ultimatum. By then she'll probably have another dude lined up and don't even care. Strike when you see the changes. The most common changes are:
1. Her routine in how she calls/texts changes
2. She spends more time with other people
3. The way she speaks to you changes (stops saying I love you, no more pet names baby, etc.)
Check all of this stuff. And if she continues after she's been checked. Dump her immediately. If you stick around, she's most likely going to lose interest, lose respect, keep you around for a little bit and then discard you.
If your woman isn't thrilled to see you, hear from you, or spend time with you, clean cut that chick. Your time is a privilege that other women would love.
Exactly. when she starts getting distant or 'busy', that's when she's talking to another dude and seeing where it can go with him. When he's given her the signal that he'll take her on and she believes it's more than a one night stand is when she'll either say 'we need to talk,' or she'll just disappear for huge lengths of time.
Women are great at emotionally detaching you will feel it and ask is everything ok and she will lie and say nothing.
Ever wonder why when most guys dump there chick its a spur of the moment like after a fight or whatever and they always crawl back but when a woman does its over it's final the love has died.
She dumps you then a new guy friend pops up out of nowhere.
She talked to you every day for the length of your relationship then suddenly it stops. You wonder how can she go cold turkey.
She was mourning the end of the relationship while she was in the relationship with you.
If a chick ever tells you she needs space or a break it's done it's over, dump her.
Less texts, less phone calls, canceling dates, calling you reincar instead of baby like she used to, you go to her place and the picture of you two isn't up anymore.
Ever wonder why when most guys dump there chick its a spur of the moment like after a fight or whatever and they always crawl back but when a woman does its over it's final the love has died.
She dumps you then a new guy friend pops up out of nowhere.
She talked to you every day for the length of your relationship then suddenly it stops. You wonder how can she go cold turkey.
She was mourning the end of the relationship while she was in the relationship with you.
If a chick ever tells you she needs space or a break it's done it's over, dump her.
Less texts, less phone calls, canceling dates, calling you reincar instead of baby like she used to, you go to her place and the picture of you two isn't up anymore.
That's why I tell negroes man ya'll better stop trusting these chicks like that and never give no woman your heart 100% and ALWAYS prepare yourself mentally as much as you can if things go sour. You never know when things will go sour with a woman these days, nor will you know why. She just decided to get on something new.
My thing is, never blame yourself for it. You can't do anything to make a woman loyal. Either she chooses to be or she isn't. This is why you never make a woman your top priority as well. She might leave for no reason and if she's your top priority, your life is in shambles. Pretty much when a woman loses emotions for you, you can't reverse it by begging her or any of that. All you can do is move on. She might want to come back when she learns her new fella ain't what she expected or she sees you really shining, but you can't reward jumpships... Keep it pushing. If she wants to play for another team, don't reward her with another contract when she gets released.
My thing is, never blame yourself for it. You can't do anything to make a woman loyal. Either she chooses to be or she isn't. This is why you never make a woman your top priority as well. She might leave for no reason and if she's your top priority, your life is in shambles. Pretty much when a woman loses emotions for you, you can't reverse it by begging her or any of that. All you can do is move on. She might want to come back when she learns her new fella ain't what she expected or she sees you really shining, but you can't reward jumpships... Keep it pushing. If she wants to play for another team, don't reward her with another contract when she gets released.
naw that's cause pretty much all women have sideline males. she can dump a guy so quick because he's not her only option in fact she's got 5+ guys that can take his position the very next day so the transition is so much easier for them.
the typical male deals with one woman at a time. any given woman that's dealing with him more than likely is his only option at the time. he crawls back cause he doesn't have other or better options. if he had those you think he'd call her back, take her back, or entertain even the idea of it?
you know the average man has sex with 7 woman in his entire life? if he lives to be 70 then that's a one woman every ten year average. how many options could he have really had for that to be his average?
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When the baby rabies hit these females, they're willing to do anything to get that 18 year blank check from you..
Protect your seed..
When the baby rabies hit these females, they're willing to do anything to get that 18 year blank check from you..
Protect your seed..
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I honestly hate that these young guys gotta weed through all this
bullshyt to try to find a viable candidate for a potential life mate.
As a woman, I must admit that it is some good advice in this thread, for your particular generation.
I just hate yall keep thinking every woman is the same, and I hate to
break the news to you, but that's not true and that's the good thing.
But, by all means, do what you need to do to protect yourself while
you are young and playing.
bullshyt to try to find a viable candidate for a potential life mate.
As a woman, I must admit that it is some good advice in this thread, for your particular generation.
I just hate yall keep thinking every woman is the same, and I hate to
break the news to you, but that's not true and that's the good thing.
But, by all means, do what you need to do to protect yourself while
you are young and playing.
one thing that might seem a little contrarian.
let a chick bend over backwards for you from time to time. don't do everything for her all the time, make her put in work from time to time even if you could easily do the task yourself.
i got this one chick she would often call me when she'd be in a jam or needed a favor. and i committed many simp sins in that time. see what people need to realize is that tricking doesn't only mean money. you can also trick time and work on them. if you act out of character in order to please a woman, odds are there is either some simping and/or tricking in there somewhere.
anyway, it took me a while to realize that once i started to ask chicks to cook/bring me food, run errands for me, etc,instead of me doing shyt for them, they actually started to feel me more and catch feelings. i think the reason is that by doing that, you're changing the framing of the relationship. suddenly she's the one trying to get in your good graces and wanting to impress you. she's putting in work and sees it like an investment. it makes her vulnerable because if you drop her after she just did all that for you, now she's looking like a sucker/female simp. so naturally she will want to be more than just friends.
now i'm not saying to let it be a one-way street. but like someone else in the thread said (i can't remember who and the thread is too long for me to search through but who ever said it, props to you), whatever you do, let her do 2-3 times more.
it's kinda like how people used to make sacrifices and offerings to the gods. funny enough, they love the gods even more. had the gods refused all offerings, the people would have probably grown to resent them. so don't be that dude who always refuses for his love interest to do anything for him on some "your my queen, i don't want you to lift a finger" type shyt. she will resent you. play it right with the right balances and she will adore you like a god.
let a chick bend over backwards for you from time to time. don't do everything for her all the time, make her put in work from time to time even if you could easily do the task yourself.
i got this one chick she would often call me when she'd be in a jam or needed a favor. and i committed many simp sins in that time. see what people need to realize is that tricking doesn't only mean money. you can also trick time and work on them. if you act out of character in order to please a woman, odds are there is either some simping and/or tricking in there somewhere.
anyway, it took me a while to realize that once i started to ask chicks to cook/bring me food, run errands for me, etc,instead of me doing shyt for them, they actually started to feel me more and catch feelings. i think the reason is that by doing that, you're changing the framing of the relationship. suddenly she's the one trying to get in your good graces and wanting to impress you. she's putting in work and sees it like an investment. it makes her vulnerable because if you drop her after she just did all that for you, now she's looking like a sucker/female simp. so naturally she will want to be more than just friends.
now i'm not saying to let it be a one-way street. but like someone else in the thread said (i can't remember who and the thread is too long for me to search through but who ever said it, props to you), whatever you do, let her do 2-3 times more.
it's kinda like how people used to make sacrifices and offerings to the gods. funny enough, they love the gods even more. had the gods refused all offerings, the people would have probably grown to resent them. so don't be that dude who always refuses for his love interest to do anything for him on some "your my queen, i don't want you to lift a finger" type shyt. she will resent you. play it right with the right balances and she will adore you like a god.