Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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Yes you are right.There are good women but we are speaking from experience. I believe me and the other fellow male posters in this thread are good men who either have been thru stuff women put us thru or seen it. Even some married folk on here know this is the truth...and that their wife can do a 360 at any moment.:manny: older-younger same issues just different stages.

While every woman is different, the essence of every woman is the same. We aren't discussing who women are, but what women are. Every issue a dude has with his girl on the surface differs, when you strip it down, we all fighting the same biological battles.

and to add ... one problem with human beings is that we all seem to think that we are the exception / above average. BedroomI'z you say that there are good women out and while we will agree the fact is that they are few and far in between.

Let's assume that the human population follows a normal distribution.

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What youre looking at is a 50% change of getting a woman that is bellow the mean and about a 84% chance of finding an above average (decent) woman or worse.

That leaves us with less than a 1/6 chance in finding what one may call a "good" woman with 3% of that being ladies that are truly exceptional. And with the games that our darlings be playing nowadays...and dudes that got the game fukked up...that shyt is likely to be right skewed.

Perhaps the same goes for woman finding good men as well. But you would have to speak on that. What came first the chicken or the egg? What gender fukked up the relationship game first? Male or female?


And as Cholla said the main thing to take out is that females lack logic when thinking about shyt and are very impulsive. The 180 rule where they can completely switch on you...and 360 rule where they eventually come back is basically what sums them up. It uis also what this thread will prepare the weak and inexperienced for.
 

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as well like others mention all women follow the same handbook, i bet i could ask dudes what was the procedure when your girl dumped you or was cheating on you and the script, movie would be the exact same just diff actors.

its a shame but it's too true.

I remember discussing with the likes of Reincar my situation last year and hearing their situations and I couldnt help but :ohhh: because they allll follow the same modus operandi with a little tweak to fit the situation at hand
 

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and to add ... one problem with human beings is that we all seem to think that we are the exception / above average. BedroomI'z you say that there are good women out and while we will agree the fact is that they are few and far in between.

Let's assume that the human population follows a normal distribution.

325px-Standard_deviation_diagram.svg.png


What youre looking at is a 50% change of getting a woman that is bellow the mean and about a 84% chance of finding an above average (decent) woman or worse.

That leaves us with less than a 1/6 chance in finding what one may call a "good" woman with 3% of that being ladies that are truly exceptional. And with the games that our darlings be playing nowadays...and dudes that got the game fukked up...that shyt is likely to be right skewed.

Perhaps the same goes for woman finding good men as well. But you would have to speak on that. What came first the chicken or the egg? What gender fukked up the relationship game first? Male or female?


Everyone thinks they are the exception, he'll I did. The way I met my ex fiancé the "love" we shared I thought it was fantasy magical above all ish :childplease:, it's the Same nowadays when you try to speak the truth men will call you bitter, jaded, my wife or girl is not like that.

Everyone who gets married or in a serious relationships thinks that, then poof one day. It's just like cancer you can eat right, live a healthy lifestyle, but you can still get it as like 42 percent will get some form in their life.

Just like 50 percent of marriages end in divorce and the rates are rising, you can do everything right be a faithful loving husband choose the best compatible wife and still be raked through the coals
 

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learn how to listen without actually listening


ex:

girl: [insert some irrelevant babble]
you: *playing Madden 2012* :takedat:
girl: [insert more irrelevant sh*t]
you: "that's crazy" :dwillhuh:
girl: [says a statement that seeks affirmation from you]
you: word? :leon:
girl: i know right? :krs:
girl: [continues to go on & on about more irrelevant sh*t]
you: [rephrases the last few things she said into a question to make her think IGAF :jawalrus:]
girl: :krs: exactly!!!
girl: [talks for the next 20 minutes]

:lolbron:

its a skill brehs....

:dead: I can say Ive mastered this pretty well but I always leave some comment after those to make them feel like im actually thinking about whatever fukkery their talking about.
 

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Pretty much. It's those negroes talking about well you just got to trust your babygirl and deal with each woman on an individual basis... What they don't get is it's like a frog in a pot syndrome. It's not like a woman will fly out the gate with this behavior. You being a nice, sweet fella to the women may get her 'awwwwing you' and in a relationship. Things will be cool for a few months... everything seems oh so lovely.. and then all of a sudden she just starts becoming busy out of nowhere or she has this new 'male friend' that she hangs with.

This is why I tell these negroes to never think their game is exceptional. It's not. She was just fairly easy. If you got it easy, the next man can get it easy too. Also, that sweet, nonconfrontational stuff may seem to work for now, but you will end up getting peeled... you'll end up as the emotional fall-back blanket while some other guy is mashing her out. Guaranteed.

It's these romance novel negroes that are going to disagree... until they experience exactly what we're talking about. This is why you NEVER give a woman your heart 100% because you never own her vagina or her heart. You can still follow all these rules we're telling you and she will still cheat. So what we are advocating is that you put YOURSELF in the best possible situation of enjoying her while she is there, but being prepared to not miss a beat if she decides to peel off, something of which is at an all time high these days. What in the world do I look like curled up in a ball, crying and feeling sad for myself while she's out there not feeling an ounce of remorse with a kool-aid smile while getting piped down by some negro she met at work? Mane naw, that ain't what's hot. You wanna smile, I'mma be smiling more when the next woman that comes through is even flyer. And don't think about coming back aboard my ship after you chose a different captain. These women can be colder than anti-freeze, so me knowing the situation, I know how to condition myself to respond appropriately. This is why you are kept. This is why you make a woman earn you... because for the most part, you as a man have to bring way more to the table than the woman. A woman always wants to choose up, so right off the rip, she's not looking for a fair exchange. How you want a man that's better than you and expect to get that with no qualms? That's like you handing me a 50 dollar bill and telling me you want my 100 dollar bill. Man get out of here. This is why you don't accept women into your life who don't have the proper attitude and who won't cook and clean for you. Don't you think she will deny you if you aren't fly enough, if you aren't a man and making her feel safe and all of that? She will cut you in an instant. You want a man flyer than you, then you gonna have to pay a price for that.
 

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This is what I like about this site. You can state the truth without some of these women trying to pop out the woodworks with the shaming tactics... talking about 'oh you need a hug,' 'oh you bitter', etc. Why in the world would realizing the truth and putting yourself in an advantageous position make a man bitter? In fact, most of us are extremely happy knowing how the game goes and knowing we don't have to deal with the nonsense that these brainwashed men have to deal with.

Who is more likely to be bitter, the man stuck on child support for a kid that isn't his or a man who got that paternity test and found out the child wasn't his and avoided 18 years of support for a kid that wasns't his own?

Who needs a hug more, the man that lets his woman stay with him for free, pays her college and food and finds out she's cheating with the no-good negro down the block or being the man that knows how to get what she has to offer without paying a cent?

Women always have little terms like bitter, jaded, etc., when you realize what's going on and you cut their gravy train short.
 

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This is what I like about this site. You can state the truth without some of these women trying to pop out the woodworks with the shaming tactics... talking about 'oh you need a hug,' 'oh you bitter', etc. Why in the world would realizing the truth and putting yourself in an advantageous position make a man bitter? In fact, most of us are extremely happy knowing how the game goes and knowing we don't have to deal with the nonsense that these brainwashed men have to deal with.

Who is more likely to be bitter, the man stuck on child support for a kid that isn't his or a man who got that paternity test and found out the child wasn't his and avoided 18 years of support for a kid that wasns't his own?

Who needs a hug more, the man that lets his woman stay with him for free, pays her college and food and finds out she's cheating with the no-good negro down the block or being the man that knows how to get what she has to offer without paying a cent?

Women always have little terms like bitter, jaded, etc., when you realize what's going on and you cut their gravy train short.

I agree, if I always cross at the intersection and one day I get hit and crushed, but still survive. How can I be called bitter and jaded if I take further precaution if now when I cross at the intersection i look both ways, if a car is bearing down to fast i still wait.

If I get bitten by a dog I know all dogs won't bite me but how can I be bitter and jaded if I don't want to pet your dog, or run when it chases after me. All dogs have teeth maybe not all will bite me but I've been bitten in the past so I take precautions.


The funny thing is that women are really tr bitter and jaded ones, I've had chicks tell me they won't date me
Because their last bf was Jamaican and he was a cheater.
 

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I agree, if I always cross at the intersection and one day I get hit and crushed, but still survive. How can I be called bitter and jaded if I take further precaution if now when I cross at the intersection i look both ways, if a car is bearing down to fast i still wait.

If I get bitten by a dog I know all dogs won't bite me but how can I be bitter and jaded if I don't want to pet your dog, or run when it chases after me. All dogs have teeth maybe not all will bite me but I've been bitten in the past so I take precautions.


The funny thing is that women are really tr bitter and jaded ones, I've had chicks tell me they won't date me
Because their last bf was Jamaican and he was a cheater.
it's all projection. notice who's the ones calling people bitter and jaded most often...
 

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Kevm speaking the truth, it's why you see most guys who were players who had the finest women in their youj settle down and marry a Average looking broad but with great qualities.

I always remember being like 13/14 and my older cousin every family BBQ he'd bring another girl, the type of girls you would see on a king magazine, yet dude got married to basically a plain Jane, and it didn't hit me till I became older, his wife is smart, respectful, righteous, she may not be a knockout but looks fade anyways.

I'm not saying settle for ugly or whatever, of course there has to be a attraction but being a dime won't cut it anymore for me.


As well it's the same when a dude buys a chick a boob job or she gets a higher paying job than the dude next, I look at it like the nfl, no matter how great You were no matter how many times you sacrificed, no matter your name or status they will cut you, replace you.

Breh, I shed a tear at that last paragraph. it was like the first time I seen the I Really Mean It video,powerful music :to:
 
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