Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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Girls are mad wish washy. Good vibes one day, curve the next. shyt is just....smh worthy

that tell me there's someone else in the picture, low key there's always someone else in the picture that's why we gotta have our own roster too so if she flake it's on to the next
 

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I can see how people at work be getting caught up.

You work with someone day in day out. They come to work looking a certain way. You guys do HH together, go to social functions etc.

All of a sudden that person starts looking better and better.

Forbidden fruit I swear.

But still; don't mix business with pleasure.
 

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#facts

Man, i've been dating this italian chick for a few months (on and off - my first interracial thing, so i'm iffy on it)... regardless, she does nothing but cater to me. It's not like she is trying to make come up or anything; she's a registered nurse. Own place, own car, own things.

We are on and off again because its the first time i've ever dated a white woman and truthfully, it makes me uneasy. The looks and stares, plus sometimes I think and wonder that she cannot relate to what I go through. Truthfully brehs, I don't know if I should carry on with her. She treats me like a king, literally. She is from Italy, has the accent and everything, she's a permanent resident. Banging body to boot; fat ass pretty feet and a just a beautiful face.

I don't know what I'm going to do.

You say this is your first white woman so it doesn't sound like you out here just pawging haphazardly :hubie: Forget the looks and stares. The relationship is between you and her. Not, you, her and strangers on the street. If she treats you right that's all that matters at the end of the day. I wish I had known this when I was younger :snoop:

She may not be able to relate to what you go through as a black man but she may very well want to or try to understand. To test the water you can always try vent to her about things you've been through and see how she receives you. If she's like "America is fair, you need to stop asking for handouts:umad:" then hit her with the :pacspit::camby: But if's she's like "aww babe, I haven't experienced that but I hate that you had to deal with those things. How does it make you feel? Tell me more, I want to understand :lupe: " then you have a :banderas:

Life is too short to pass up happiness bro.
 

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LOL I kinda fukked up by kissing my female friend and feeling myself too much. She keeps inviting me to shyt now and I'm not into her. I also don't want to poison my social network I built by knowing her. :snoop:


I've been eying this one female colleague more and more and she can probably sense it. I see after our team outing that she pays attention to me slightly more. It could be friendliness but I do have more rapport with her now. She is totally my type... but I said I wouldn't pursue women at work any more lol.

BTW been listening to Corey Wayne more and he has a few gems that are congruent with a lot of things I believe and do already.
 

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You say this is your first white woman so it doesn't sound like you out here just pawging haphazardly :hubie: Forget the looks and stares. The relationship is between you and her. Not, you, her and strangers on the street. If she treats you right that's all that matters at the end of the day. I wish I had known this when I was younger :snoop:

She may not be able to relate to what you go through as a black man but she may very well want to or try to understand. To test the water you can always try vent to her about things you've been through and see how she receives you. If she's like "America is fair, you need to stop asking for handouts:umad:" then hit her with the :pacspit::camby: But if's she's like "aww babe, I haven't experienced that but I hate that you had to deal with those things. How does it make you feel? Tell me more, I want to understand :lupe: " then you have a :banderas:

Life is too short to pass up happiness bro.

And that's the realest shyt I read today. :wow:
 

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You say this is your first white woman so it doesn't sound like you out here just pawging haphazardly :hubie: Forget the looks and stares. The relationship is between you and her. Not, you, her and strangers on the street. If she treats you right that's all that matters at the end of the day. I wish I had known this when I was younger :snoop:

She may not be able to relate to what you go through as a black man but she may very well want to or try to understand. To test the water you can always try vent to her about things you've been through and see how she receives you. If she's like "America is fair, you need to stop asking for handouts:umad:" then hit her with the :pacspit::camby: But if's she's like "aww babe, I haven't experienced that but I hate that you had to deal with those things. How does it make you feel? Tell me more, I want to understand :lupe: " then you have a :banderas:

Life is too short to pass up happiness bro.


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thanks breh :to: I needed to hear that. I'm not a pawger by any means, it just so happens we got together.
 

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that tell me there's someone else in the picture, low key there's always someone else in the picture that's why we gotta have our own roster too so if she flake it's on to the next

Its the tinder era. Any half decent broad got a couple of options.

Situation at the hand tho: Met this broad on tinder for drinks on Sunday evening. Had a good time, made out at the end:ehh:. We texted afterwards that night, everything seemed good. Sent 3 texts since then and has been AWOL:leostare:. Standard rule is to drop the broad after 3 unreplied texts:camby:. Gonna be a pity, cuz the ass was phat :wow:. Open to suggestions tho:ld:. You ever confronted the curve head on?
 

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Ya I almost did myself didnt work out but man the women I met and messed with in japan changed my outlook period in females for life.
What was your experience in Japan?
 
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I can see how people at work be getting caught up.

You work with someone day in day out. They come to work looking a certain way. You guys do HH together, go to social functions etc.

All of a sudden that person starts looking better and better.

Forbidden fruit I swear.

But still; don't mix business with pleasure.

I learned the hard way :manny:

We dated for about a year and it was good at the start of course and we kept it lowkey. Most ppl didn't know we were together but when the relationship fell apart :banderas: .... shyt got crazy :whoa: and miserable. Never again.
 
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Its the tinder era. Any half decent broad got a couple of options.

Situation at the hand tho: Met this broad on tinder for drinks on Sunday evening. Had a good time, made out at the end:ehh:. We texted afterwards that night, everything seemed good. Sent 3 texts since then and has been AWOL:leostare:. Standard rule is to drop the broad after 3 unreplied texts:camby:. Gonna be a pity, cuz the ass was phat :wow:. Open to suggestions tho:ld:. You ever confronted the curve head on?

i might have tried to call her instead I know it's seen as old school by some people but I don't like to give easy outs and allow females to construct a lie. If she ain't got back after 3 texts you just gotta move on, right now you are looking desperate like you ain't got other shyt going on. Can't make them the center of your universe.

Also, I'm sure the night probably did go well but there's always an ex or a dude she dealing with and she could have gone back to them, I doubt it's anything u did.
 
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