Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

Snoopy Loops

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i might have tried to call her instead I know it's seen as old school by some people but I don't like to give easy outs and allow females to construct a lie. If she ain't got back after 3 texts you just gotta move on, right now you are looking desperate like you ain't got other shyt going on. Can't make them the center of your universe.

Also, I'm sure the night probably did go well but there's always an ex or a dude she dealing with and she could have gone back to them, I doubt it's anything u did.

I feel ya. I might try the call, but thats the final measure. Tbh, idgaf if she thinks im desperate, I got other prospects. Dat ass tho:wow:
 

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What was your experience in Japan?
Life changing
Love the culture
The scenery was beautiful
The women extremely underrated in many ways that it change my outlook on women period
Got more confirmation when I went back overseas to a different country which was italy.
Women overseas compared to American women is a different beast altogether in way u get treated and looks and style
Alot more things in can say but I dearly miss it.
Plan was to go back and live there but hey shyt happens but it what happened was for the best
 
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You say this is your first white woman so it doesn't sound like you out here just pawging haphazardly :hubie: Forget the looks and stares. The relationship is between you and her. Not, you, her and strangers on the street. If she treats you right that's all that matters at the end of the day. I wish I had known this when I was younger :snoop:

She may not be able to relate to what you go through as a black man but she may very well want to or try to understand. To test the water you can always try vent to her about things you've been through and see how she receives you. If she's like "America is fair, you need to stop asking for handouts:umad:" then hit her with the :pacspit::camby: But if's she's like "aww babe, I haven't experienced that but I hate that you had to deal with those things. How does it make you feel? Tell me more, I want to understand :lupe: " then you have a :banderas:

Life is too short to pass up happiness bro.

Dap + Rep. I needed those gems.
 

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Got a first date with a chick I met online.

She is so cooperative it feels weird, texts me first, answers every call, shes busy with work but cleared up time for a date.She has already deleted her online dating profile & we havent even met yet.

I guess Im used to females being flakey, playing phones games that u gotta beg & convince to meet up
 

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dry dikk season had me plowing through my facebook suggestion list and shooting my shoot at any fine chick who lives in my city.

shot my shot at a total of 17 since last week, got play from 4 of them. plus the 2 I met when I was out clubbin last Friday :mjgrin:

already have something set up with all 6 of them, just gotta meet in person and its checkmate! :wow:

my ghost town facebook profile didnt do me any favours though cause I got old pics in there, maybe my success rate would be higher if I was more active in that bytch :francis:
 

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You cold approached her?


yep, she was looking at cook books and shyt like. I noticed her first, from a distance. she looked my way and smiled and I did a head nod and KIM. I shopped around for a bit and after a while I saw her in the same section, just went up and asked her was she trying something new to cook. We hit it off from there, had starbucks and sat and talked. Got her number and been fukking with her ever since.

Honestly, she is not the type of woman i would date and she dresses in the classical italian style with the flowery dresses and bright red lipstick. Red hair, nice thighs and ass (a little wide, but not bad). Pretty feet. Her p*ssy taste great lol

Another issue though, is i'm kinda hung up on an ex and we are doing the whole 'friend' thing... which makes things confusing. And I also have another one on the roster that is trying to make her way up to a starting forward.

To be honest breh, this is the first time that I have women competing for me and i'm not even trying. No humble brag at all, seriously. I think it's just the new-found confidence that I developed. Hitting the gym, professionally investing and developing myself and coming off as confidant. It's weird.
 
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