Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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i may fully tap out of the western game no benefits

You'd be smart to. As someone making money, the worst thing you could do is get tied up with someone here and have her draining your finances and keep you stuck here.

The audacity of what western women are asking men here to accept is unbelievable. We can't fat shame them, slut shame them, 'finance shame' them, etc. So we have to accept women who've possibly slept with 100 guys and can't say anything about it, they can be obese and we can't deny them our own money or we're trying to 'financially corner them.' I mean, really think about how audacious it is for a woman to say 'his money, my money, my money, my money'... and these women are not joking. Sure, there are women all over the world that will try to finesse a man, but the likelihood of you ending up broke is much higher here.

These women here also want to keep their 1000 guy friends around and go on trips with their single homegirls without you. Western women offer very, very little to a man and yet they have the power to destroy your life with the snap of a finger. Unless you've encountered some unbelievably rare gem of a woman that makes the same or more than you, is super faithful and family oriented, follows Jesus, etc., don't even consider dipping in the pool. The moment you get tethered to one of the women here, you could easily turn into one of those guys mad at guys leaving the country because you're stuck here with a woman that's draining you into a pile of nothingness.

I haven't been posting a lot in this thread as of late because I shifted my focus. Focusing on all these dating strategies and on the women here is a complete waste of time. I focused on my career skills and it's caused me to go from around 23,000 a year to around six figures in a little over 2 years. On the other hand, focusing on some tips and techniques to chase the women here will get you nothing but headaches when it's said and done. I'm really focused on stacking this money and getting out.
 

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I haven't been posting a lot in this thread as of late because I shifted my focus. Focusing on all these dating strategies and on the women here is a complete waste of time. I focused on my career skills and it's caused me to go from around 23,000 a year to around six figures in a little over 2 years. On the other hand, focusing on some tips and techniques to chase the women here will get you nothing but headaches when it's said and done. I'm really focused on stacking this money and getting out.

Six figures in two years?
 

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Six figures in two years?
Doing front end web development. The average person probably won't make as much progress in the same amount of time as I did because I pretty much spend the majority of my time outside of work going through programming courses and books, but if you're dedicated, you can move up fast.
 

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Doing front end web development. The average person probably won't make as much progress in the same amount of time as I did because I pretty much spend the majority of my time outside of work going through programming courses and books, but if you're dedicated, you can move up fast.

I just landed my first web development job, making the most money I ever made. Thanks for the inspo breh.
 

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I just landed my first web development job, making the most money I ever made. Thanks for the inspo breh.

Keep it up bro. Grind extra hard for at least the next 5 years. You can move up very quickly even if you don't have a ton of experience because they are really searching for competent developers.
 
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these females out here think they own you when it aint even a relationship :dahell:

she and i knew that a relationship would not work at all, we realize this a while back. so we just became a "friend/datin" thing no attachments and it was fine.

She cool but she is jealous of other females, she try to play it off like she isn't but all she does is talk shyt on anyone I'm talkin to or might be going out with and it's always a "you deserve better thing" with her. It would get annoying.

Fast-forward now she tells me we can't chill anymore. I say why. she was hesitant to say. But then she goes how she's seeing someone. So I say ok that makes sense and I didn't care, do u.

Then she gets mad because I blew it off. She wanted me basically to be her winter jacket. :dead:
 

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Do you need a degree for that? What are some good courses?


Doing front end web development. The average person probably won't make as much progress in the same amount of time as I did because I pretty much spend the majority of my time outside of work going through programming courses and books, but if you're dedicated, you can move up fast.
 

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Do you need a degree for that? What are some good courses?

Degree isn't needed. My degree is in a non computer science or technology related field. You will have to have a great work ethic though. I list a couple of courses in this thread:
Developer/Programming Information and Careers Thread

Starting off you probably want to focus on Javascript and pick up a framework like react or angular. Udemy will be your best friend for that.
 

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There's this cute biracial girl that I used to work with at another company. She's wenchin' now but I saw her on FB complaining about white people. We start Facebook chatting and I may take her out for drinks later this week. Not really to bring her back to the dark side but why not have fun? :myman:
 

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Would you know how I could get a job with no degree and no experience? What would make them hire me?



Degree isn't needed. My degree is in a non computer science or technology related field. You will have to have a great work ethic though. I list a couple of courses in this thread:
Developer/Programming Information and Careers Thread

Starting off you probably want to focus on Javascript and pick up a framework like react or angular. Udemy will be your best friend for that.
 

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do it breh trust me do it

i dunno how ima manage dealing with women in canada again


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Man, i've been dating this italian chick for a few months (on and off - my first interracial thing, so i'm iffy on it)... regardless, she does nothing but cater to me. It's not like she is trying to make come up or anything; she's a registered nurse. Own place, own car, own things.

We are on and off again because its the first time i've ever dated a white woman and truthfully, it makes me uneasy. The looks and stares, plus sometimes I think and wonder that she cannot relate to what I go through. Truthfully brehs, I don't know if I should carry on with her. She treats me like a king, literally. She is from Italy, has the accent and everything, she's a permanent resident. Banging body to boot; fat ass pretty feet and a just a beautiful face.

I don't know what I'm going to do.
 
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