Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women
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Peter Pawger
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There's no such thing as an attractive female with male friends
She has either fukked them in the past, or they are waiting their turn
Peter Pawger
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Pretty much
Kenny West
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Alright I gave this speech to a homie of mine so I might as well drop it here.
Women love confidence. But the nikka I was giving the speech to couldn't get the difference between confidence and ego. Naturally he's of the lightskin "prettyboy (as he calls himself)" breed.
Confidence is important. It's one of those things as a man you should have not just because it's attractive but because it's a powerful tool. Confidence and ego are different versions of self esteem though. Lemme explain.
Say self esteem is a house. Now when you build your self esteem with ego, it's a glass house. Transparent. It's just as easy to build as it is to destroy. The greatest flaw though? It takes another person for it to ever change. If someone compliments you, it goes up. If a bytch hit you with a "ew he ugly
" then it's like someone tossed a brick and took 3 stories off that bytch. Ego's are detrimental because they have to constantly be maintained. Like the butterface broads on FB always thirsting for compliments to repair the damage of realizing she single for the 5th straight Valentines day.
It also takes a bunch out of a man. An egotistical man has to guard his. These the type of nikkas thats at the club and see a dime,. but scared to approach for fear of taking a L. Instead they just wait and end up taking the number of a gully fat chick who had the guts to approach. Men CHOOSE, women settle weak ass nikka.
Confidence is a brick house. The brick is humility, cement is experience. If you fukk a chick playing proper game, what insult can take that away from you? None. Humility is the most important factor. That's what makes the solid foundation for your house. Unlike the ego, you build your confidence up yourself, and when someone throws rocks at it, them shyts bounce right off.
For dudes this is especially important. My oldhead told me to "be a ugly nikka". For one looks ain't that important for a dude to get chicks. I'd like to think I look better than Rick Ross cause I'm not fat, but I'd bet my life that he's fukked more dimes than I've laid eyes on.
So be a ugly nikka instead. If you've ever seen one in the club, he's always approaching and usually getting rejected. Yet somehow he leaves that shyt with the most numbers. It's confidence. Any chick that rejects/clowns him does not hinder his next approach in the slightest. Dom Kennedy said once "The frogs jump on the lilypad with the most confidence"
Just look at all your experiences with objectiveness and humility. Egoists are the ones who make excuses like "She stuck up" or the classic "that nikka gay anyway". The point of experience being the cement is combined with humility it gives you the ability to keep growing without the approval of another person. You can look back at your wins with a "well this worked, I'll keep it in my aresenal" and your losses with a "well I won't use THAT again". That's when you learn game and such.
When you're first building your house it's tough. But stay humble. Your first victory will feel like lightning struck. But as you gain more experience and keep glass out your building materials you start to find a method to the madness. Soon it stops being luck.
So there you have it. Control that ego my nikkas.
Women love confidence. But the nikka I was giving the speech to couldn't get the difference between confidence and ego. Naturally he's of the lightskin "prettyboy (as he calls himself)" breed.
Confidence is important. It's one of those things as a man you should have not just because it's attractive but because it's a powerful tool. Confidence and ego are different versions of self esteem though. Lemme explain.
Say self esteem is a house. Now when you build your self esteem with ego, it's a glass house. Transparent. It's just as easy to build as it is to destroy. The greatest flaw though? It takes another person for it to ever change. If someone compliments you, it goes up. If a bytch hit you with a "ew he ugly
" then it's like someone tossed a brick and took 3 stories off that bytch. Ego's are detrimental because they have to constantly be maintained. Like the butterface broads on FB always thirsting for compliments to repair the damage of realizing she single for the 5th straight Valentines day.It also takes a bunch out of a man. An egotistical man has to guard his. These the type of nikkas thats at the club and see a dime,. but scared to approach for fear of taking a L. Instead they just wait and end up taking the number of a gully fat chick who had the guts to approach. Men CHOOSE, women settle weak ass nikka.
Confidence is a brick house. The brick is humility, cement is experience. If you fukk a chick playing proper game, what insult can take that away from you? None. Humility is the most important factor. That's what makes the solid foundation for your house. Unlike the ego, you build your confidence up yourself, and when someone throws rocks at it, them shyts bounce right off.
For dudes this is especially important. My oldhead told me to "be a ugly nikka". For one looks ain't that important for a dude to get chicks. I'd like to think I look better than Rick Ross cause I'm not fat, but I'd bet my life that he's fukked more dimes than I've laid eyes on.
So be a ugly nikka instead. If you've ever seen one in the club, he's always approaching and usually getting rejected. Yet somehow he leaves that shyt with the most numbers. It's confidence. Any chick that rejects/clowns him does not hinder his next approach in the slightest. Dom Kennedy said once "The frogs jump on the lilypad with the most confidence" Just look at all your experiences with objectiveness and humility. Egoists are the ones who make excuses like "She stuck up" or the classic "that nikka gay anyway". The point of experience being the cement is combined with humility it gives you the ability to keep growing without the approval of another person. You can look back at your wins with a "well this worked, I'll keep it in my aresenal" and your losses with a "well I won't use THAT again". That's when you learn game and such.
When you're first building your house it's tough. But stay humble. Your first victory will feel like lightning struck. But as you gain more experience and keep glass out your building materials you start to find a method to the madness. Soon it stops being luck.
So there you have it. Control that ego my nikkas.
Kenny West
Veteran
you letting nikkas debo you breh
My boss was hatin on my swagger. Making me do work n shyt.
But see I got mind control over that nikka. Soon as I finished I was posting again.
Rocket Scientist
Superstar
If more nikkas was like y'all in this thread, men wouldn't be losing as much as they are in the relationship game. That's our problem. nikkas would rather tear each other down to get at a female than to work together and build like this. If "each one taught one", p*ssy would plummet cause nikkas would know its lack of worth.
↓R↑LYB
I trained Sheng Long and Shonuff
I can't really cosign that despite how much I want to. Some nikkas don't wanna learn and have no hope. They cool taking Ls, I think subconsciously they thrive off of it
↓R↑LYB
I trained Sheng Long and Shonuff
Shortcut to sex talk (should only take 2 minutes max)
*Yall on the phone then you laugh outta nowhere
You:aw shyt thats wild
Her: What you laughin at?
You: My bad, on this movie I'm watching this couple had messed around for the first time and the dude was finished within like 60 seconds. So she kicked him out of her bed
Her:
You: If that happened to you, you would've did the same thing?
Her::Yes
You: Oh you the type that need an all-nighter just to be satisfied
Her: Lol No. There's nothing wrong with an all-nighter but it should last at least 20-30 min
You: Thats how I feel but some women dont seem to be able to handle it for 15 min straight and be needing a break
Her:After 15 min I'm just getting into it
You:
Worked so many times for me shyt should be illegal. Females seem to have no issues discussing bad sex 'too early'.
Just transition the convo into good sex. By the time yall through you should have a cheat sheet for yall first encounter
Too much work Breh, we whipping the meat out on bytches in the oh twelve
I can't really cosign that despite how much I want to. Some nikkas don't wanna learn and have no hope. They cool taking Ls, I think subconsciously they thrive off of it
those the dudes im talking about...
Rocket Scientist
Superstar
can you really be forced into something like that? were you really forced or did you decide to go along with it?I was forced into engagement
I'll explain later