Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

John Reena

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My girl went to D.C with her friend and her family for a family reunion:ehh:
I hit her up yesterday morning to see did she make it and she replied back:ehh: so anyway i decided to not hit her up for the whole day cuz i realize i always initiate contact:francis: and lo and behold she never called me..not even a text:hhh: eventually i hit her up late last night but she didn't reply and this morning she replied saying she was sleeping. Am i tripping for being annoyed with her:patrice: like why do i always have to start the convo:patrice:
I was thinking about checking her but am I reaching:patrice:

No need to dump her or check her.......just don’t answer her texts n calls like she did n let her see how it feel shiiid
 

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Just went through a situation this past weekend. Just some advice brehs...
Never get drunk outside of yourself.
Even if a chick disrespects you all you control is your response.
You loose the power behind being correct when you meet her at the same level she’s at. Always be above.
 

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Just went through a situation this past weekend. Just some advice brehs...
Never get drunk outside of yourself.
Even if a chick disrespects you all you control is your response.
You loose the power behind being correct when you meet her at the same level she’s at. Always be above.
What happened
 

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My brehs I met this good chick. From Detroit. She comes to see me every now and then and I come see her. We FaceTime every day and shyt is good (for long distance). She just broke up with her boyfriend of 4 years so I’m pretty much a rebound. Dope ass chick tho and she fukks with me hard.

Tell me what I need to hear my brehs

red flag. When a bytch goes through a logistical challenge to get new dikk that means there's something she's running from locally. She could be on a temporary "break" with her BF and wants to bounce around some new dikk without ruining her local reputation coz everyone in that area of Detroit knows her as "Deray's girl". Basically when she hooks back up with her BF she can be calm knowing that she fukked no one locally and her "good gril" reputation is till in fact.
Also the other scenario is that she is still in fact with her BF and she's having a "hot spicy" out of town affair to make her monotonous stale life more interesting.

Usually these type of chicks are mad cool and laid back coz you're just a walking dikk that they project their boredom on. They have no long term epxctations of you so they're cool with everything. Also part of her excitement is based on her doubting herselfound, she don't know how cute she is after 4 years with one guy or how much she's fallen off. you are the physical confirmation that she's still desirable and wanted in the sexual market place.
Can you tell us her age and her looks in detail and also if she makes more money than you.

Advice would be enjoy the p*ssy while it lasts and also use her for money and business contacts. Always ask her for favors coz as soon as "Deray" come calling she gone.
 

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Y'all ever notice about online dating is the pool of people changes a bit but there's been many instances I've seen the same people on there months later. Just an interesting observation. Like revolving doors.

Granted I've been using apps in my city the past year and took a brief break but I have seen several women I talked to, were interested in, etc that came back.

It makes me question the effectiveness of online dating.
 

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can anyone chime in here? we been dating for 1.5 years

she was over every night, texting first, everything seemed good. she went out friday night with friends.

i went to her place on saturday, we were making out then she stared crying in the middle of it and told me she cant love me like she used to and started crying for 20 minutes straight.

i played it cool but i was hurt and caught off guard. love is a cruel game. maybe i need to find a women my own age

Oh that's Post dikk Withdrawl Sydnrome. A lot of these girls will hoe around an innately feel cheap and nasty for fukking all these Alpha males but never getting cuffed. So when they meet a square like yourself (no offence breh) they go on relationship good girl(wifey material) overdrive. they text, watch movies, clean, just constantly around you, overwhelm with what they think a wifeable good girl does.

Then they either hook up with one of their ex's or fukk a random guy who reminds them of their alpha ex the moment they get bored.

When they come back to you, your foolish ignorance and naivety makes them feel extremely guilty. But the reason she is crying is because when she was dealing with "ass holes" it was always their fault(in her head). Now she has a good natured square and she's still fukked it up and it forces her to cencede to herself that she's just a fukked up lousy bytch and usually links it to some childhood trauma like "no wonder my father was never there" all this culminates as the 20min of crying water works you saw.

Her sluty baheavoir contrasted against your square ignorance is making introspect on issues she does not wanna face about herself.
As Corey Holcomb would say 'The Problem is YOUU bytch"
peace breh
 

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Oh that's Post dikk Withdrawl Sydnrome. A lot of these girls will hoe around an innately feel cheap and nasty for fukking all these Alpha males but never getting cuffed. So when they meet a square like yourself (no offence breh) they go on relationship good girl(wifey material) overdrive. they text, watch movies, clean, just constantly around you, overwhelm with what they think a wifeable good girl does.

Then they either hook up with one of their ex's or fukk a random guy who reminds them of their alpha ex the moment they get bored.

When they come back to you, your foolish ignorance and naivety makes them feel extremely guilty. But the reason she is crying is because when she was dealing with "ass holes" it was always their fault(in her head). Now she has a good natured square and she's still fukked it up and it forces her to cencede to herself that she's just a fukked up lousy bytch and usually links it to some childhood trauma like "no wonder my father was never there" all this culminates as the 20min of crying water works you saw.

Her sluty baheavoir contrasted against your square ignorance is making introspect on issues she does not wanna face about herself.
As Corey Holcomb would say 'The Problem is YOUU bytch"
peace breh
This the reaalest shyt youve posted.

I had a ex break down in tears mid stroke. Thinking back could havr been this because I by her own words was the only nikka thzt treated her right. Probs was formulating the exit plan
 

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This the reaalest shyt youve posted.

I had a ex break down in tears mid stroke. Thinking back could havr been this because I by her own words was the only nikka thzt treated her right. Probs was formulating the exit plan

It's always this. The only time a girl will cry during sex is if she was molested or raped in her adolescence or if she got side duck and is having Post Dikk Withdrawl Syndrome(the difference is that girls who were raped like degrading rough sex ALL the time). You live and you learn breh.
Peace.
 

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This the reaalest shyt youve posted.

I had a ex break down in tears mid stroke. Thinking back could havr been this because I by her own words was the only nikka thzt treated her right. Probs was formulating the exit plan

Only time I had an ex cry during sex was when were on and off. I think we were off for 2-3 weeks . We had sex and she cried how much she missed me.

Another time she cried IMMEDIATELY after us having sex. She wanted to be with me a lot so I don't think it's because it was someone else but at this point we were probably pursuing other people.
 

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Only time I had an ex cry during sex was when were on and off. I think we were off for 2-3 weeks . We had sex and she cried how much she missed me.

Another time she cried IMMEDIATELY after us having sex. She wanted to be with me a lot so I don't think it's because it was someone else but at this point we were probably pursuing other people.

similiar situation. we were off and on a lot. this was a time when we were "on"
 
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