Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

ApolloStark

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Your entitled to your opinion breh but being in a relationship u want some form of communication period. You think playing the same game as a single breh talking on occassion is good that's you.
You chose her and she chose you so act like it. Nobody saying blowing up their phone either just some form of communication. If u go with I'll talk to her when I feel like then she go step out u got no one to blame but yourself cuz u dont even talk to your own girl. While it's TRUE she can still do it if u do communicate dont be the cause or reason to do it either living with that regret.

Nah, wasn't referring to communicating every day that makes sense...

But that whole "have a talk with her to cry because you're always texting first" is straight p*ssy behaviour. Seriously. He'd come across as insecure and needy
 

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just joined the single club after being locked down for 2 years.....

i felt like i was getting complacent in my career goals while with her. she broke it off but i was low key expecting it. still hurts :mjcry: . ill be good by the end of the week.
 

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Nah, wasn't referring to communicating every day that makes sense...

But that whole "have a talk with her to cry because you're always texting first" is straight p*ssy behaviour. Seriously. He'd come across as insecure and needy
Tbh if she never traveled then I wouldn't care:ehh:
But the fact is she traveled why do I have to reach out:hhh: best believe if I did that shyt to her I wouldn't hear the end of it from her:hhh:
 

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Nah, wasn't referring to communicating every day that makes sense...

But that whole "have a talk with her to cry because you're always texting first" is straight p*ssy behaviour. Seriously. He'd come across as insecure and needy


@Malik1time this is for u and the poster above


To be Frank it probably is too late in that sense but at same time if that what's she likes bout him that's her thing. Cuz females will see u like that which is true I won't deny it. Just some love it some dont.

And it is best to have that convo face to face and ya he'll come across that way too her but if he speaks up at least and decides to change his ways bout that way which he can she cant say shyt too him either. He can be like hey I tried to tell u I ain't gonna be the only one so if u dont take me serious and I stop I dont wanna hear shyt later. Then she gonna be all needy and whinning instead cuz he flipped the script on her cuz she didnt heed his warning. Ultimately it's his choice how he handles it and if he wants to change his way how he communicates with her.
He was already in that position so what's done is done but it can be changed and fixed tho. And if she dont like it wanna act up she wasn't worthwhile in the first place then imo.
 

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My girl went to D.C with her friend and her family for a family reunion:ehh:
I hit her up yesterday morning to see did she make it and she replied back:ehh: so anyway i decided to not hit her up for the whole day cuz i realize i always initiate contact:francis: and lo and behold she never called me..not even a text:hhh: eventually i hit her up late last night but she didn't reply and this morning she replied saying she was sleeping. Am i tripping for being annoyed with her:patrice: like why do i always have to start the convo:patrice:
I was thinking about checking her but am I reaching:patrice:
I mean if u want to do it
Id usually wait n give them a taste of their own medicine

It makes no sense for you to get mad first Tho
 

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No, you don't. That's what most dudes would do, you take my route and she's thinking "he's a busy guy, he's got other sh1t on" and to a b1tch that fukks with their mindset. Not saying this sh1t for the sake of it this is tried and tested

If you wanted to go conservative, instead of that tx on the DAY, just send it the night before. But everything else remains the same
lol its the same shyt. at the end of the day if the girl is actually interested none of this shyt will matter. if she isnt, she will flake.
but do what works for you i guess
 

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My girl went to D.C with her friend and her family for a family reunion:ehh:
I hit her up yesterday morning to see did she make it and she replied back:ehh: so anyway i decided to not hit her up for the whole day cuz i realize i always initiate contact:francis: and lo and behold she never called me..not even a text:hhh: eventually i hit her up late last night but she didn't reply and this morning she replied saying she was sleeping. Am i tripping for being annoyed with her:patrice: like why do i always have to start the convo:patrice:
I was thinking about checking her but am I reaching:patrice:

Prepare an exit plan breh. :francis:
 

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I just need to be more stone cold when I stop messing with a chick. 90% when I cut one off it's for good, but I let some weasel back and it never works. Once I decide something, I just need to stick with it.
 

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can anyone chime in here? we been dating for 1.5 years

she was over every night, texting first, everything seemed good. she went out friday night with friends.

i went to her place on saturday, we were making out then she stared crying in the middle of it and told me she cant love me like she used to and started crying for 20 minutes straight.

i played it cool but i was hurt and caught off guard. love is a cruel game. maybe i need to find a women my own age
 

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can anyone chime in here? we been dating for 1.5 years

she was over every night, texting first, everything seemed good. she went out friday night with friends.

i went to her place on saturday, we were making out then she stared crying in the middle of it and told me she cant love me like she used to and started crying for 20 minutes straight.

i played it cool but i was hurt and caught off guard. love is a cruel game. maybe i need to find a women my own age

you think she fukked around?:patrice:

and how old is she:jbhmm:
 

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Kicked it with the news anchor all weekend since I realized I enjoyed her company more than the young chick with the attitude. I started to appreciate no drama/Black girl attitude.

BUT the young chick, we had went out on Wednesday, she had left her heels and asked to come get them. I cleaned the crib just in case she tried to come in my spot. Had the other chicks hair in the sink and shyt.

She called and said she was outside since her son was with her and sleep in the backseat. I ended up getting in the car so we could talk about me not wanting anything serious right now.

Ended up going inside to my crib to really have a discussion. I put some cartoons on downstairs while her son slept on the sofa so we could go upstairs to talk.

One thing led to another and she told me to lay back on my bed. She started slobbing in me up something fierce :noah: We ended up fukking like crazy. Her son slept thru the whole thing but my neighbors are probably mad.

Havent had 2 women in one day since college :ohlawd:
 

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maybe but i dont think so

shes 20 im 28. seems like she wants to go out and party n shyt but im focused on my career and such as one can imagine, i sort of always knew this day was coming

oh..u been dating her since she was 18:patrice:

she gonna have a lot of up and downs..her hormones are probably all fukked up..

give her her space, but keep tabs..

she gotta get sent down to the minor league for awhile
 

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can anyone chime in here? we been dating for 1.5 years

she was over every night, texting first, everything seemed good. she went out friday night with friends.

i went to her place on saturday, we were making out then she stared crying in the middle of it and told me she cant love me like she used to and started crying for 20 minutes straight.

i played it cool but i was hurt and caught off guard. love is a cruel game. maybe i need to find a women my own age

honestly breh sounds like that night she went out she did something she shouldn't have.

usually when a woman tells you that they are filled with guilt because they prob cheated.
 
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