I've been at a uni for a year now and the school year is almost over.
I have had my fair share of women in one year here than I have ever during my life.
I say I went from getting a sexual encounter once a year to the 6 or 7 women I've been with this entire school year.
It feels like forever too. I look back at last semester and it feels like it happened two years ago.
This entire school year I've had my fair share of different type of women: black, white, fat, older than me, younger (legal age limit), chick graduating, chick who dropped out, chick from tinder, etc.
I know brehs gonna hit me with that "girls in college shyt is easy." I want it to be known 80 percent of these hook ups I had, both of us were completely sober during the encounters so there was no liquor courage in me to make these moves.
And it's hard to explain. We always ask how do you know if a girl likes you or she will be down to do something. Honestly, no advice works for that. You know a girl is down when you're in the moment socializing with her. You somehow realize it, get the gut feeling, while shes talking you're really thinking about if you should make the move or not, and then you finally make the move succeeding. Literally this has happened every time. Each time I do have one of these encounters with one of the females its soooo much easier to tell the vibe of the situation and to make a move with another chick the next time. That "caught up in the moment" shyt actually is true too. Like messaging her on facebook trying to get her to like you shyt is extremely difficult when she got like 40 other messages of dudes saying the same shyt. She just going to ignore it. shyt gets real when its just you two at the crib vibing listening to music socializing about shyt and next thing you know it both of you hooking up.
After this school year I have realized a bunch of shyt. I feel like I'm typing this shyt to remind myself for next year and in general when I encounter women. I feel like what I'm about to say should be in the bible dog. I mean it may not be clear to you readers now but if I write it down now I can come back to it one day and rephrase it in better words but here it goes.
-Sex is everything but at the same time its not
When I say this most likely you only talking to the chick because you want to smash. Brehs confuse their lust for love or like for the chick. 95% percent of the time its not true. A few times after smashing a couple of these girls I realized I didn't like those girls at all and I wish they would get the fukk out my crib instead of watching this movie with me lol. And I mean this shyt happens ASAP after you get done doing the business. This is where the sex is everything part comes into play. It's the only reason why you're with her at the moment. I'm not saying there no way you can like a girl for who she is but breh we know most of the time its just cause you want to fukk her. Which is why I same at the same time sex is not everything. After hooking up most likely you won't care about her anymore so why put up with a girl bull shyt or go through obstacles and levels just to smash? Sex isn't everything once you get it.
-women come and go
Stop the hoh for one moment. I'm pretty sure you seen a girl in your class, work, or somewhere random in the public where you imagine spending your life with. You probably played the entire scene out in your head both of you being in love chillen blasting favorite music together getting older having some wild movie montage. Ok back to the hoh movement lol, after hooking up so much you stop that shyt man. You realize that it's just your turn shyt might be true. Like for real, I don't talk to any of the women I smashed this year anymore. You know what I thought every time the hook ups stopped happening?
"oh man I should have put more effort into keeping her around I won't have a guaranteed sex anymore"
and what happens? I mind my business and what do you know I'm smashing a new chick. I never hear or see those other chicks ever again. And the coolest thing about this all is next year there will be a giant new crop of females next year on campus. Women come and go bro.
-There are a unlimited amount of hot women
Remember seeing a bad ass female thinking to yourself "damn I'll never see a bad chick like that ever again"? Or how bout if you're from a small town and you and the entire town put the prettiest girls there on the pedestal?
Well when you go to a university all you fukking see daily is dime pieces. shyt is like when you watch to much porn you get desensitized to certain shyt. When you see bad bytches all the time they just become ordinary like anyone else. So my message in this is don't be intimidated by her looks or put her on a higher level because that shyt don't mean nothing once you see them all the time. You'll start to realize other shyt about her and judge her about that like shes fukking crazy or she can't hold a conversation at all.
-shoot your shot
just go for it dog. What's the worse that can happen? shes gonna say no? And then what will happen? She stops talking to you? Like you do realize she was going to stop talking to you regardless unless you guys become close friends or start a relationship? Why else would that hot ass girl in your class the first semester still talk to you? You won't ever see her again so if that's the case might as well shoot your shot. Stop that if I play the good guy role and be around her all the time then the moment might happen. Most of the time women not making the first move. Making the first move is risky and no where normal or safe. First of all, women fear rejections themselves so most will certainly not try for it or at least make it obvious. Second of all, women don't like the play it safe and hopefully she just offers type of guys. They love the guys willing to go for it. So fukking do it! Unless she got kids or a man stay away from that mess.
- take care of yourselves
Don't get into anything serious if you don't want too. I feel like dudes in there 20's have a little streak of smashing a few chicks so they decide its time to settle down. Dude ends up doing that by marrying a chick or having a kid. 2 years in the marriage brehs get hit with that regret. I mean there a difference between actually finding your love and just believing its time for you to settle down because you had a short span of smashing females. Those dudes get married and end up missing the wild life. And hey man, once you have a kid you gotta give that life up. Kid comes first. So don't hang your boots up prematurely just because you started feeling like a king with the women because trust me once you settle down there will be a whole new crop of bad females out of nowhere down to party and do shyt. Meanwhile your ass gotta stay home and watch netflix with the wifey which might not work anyways
Focus on yourself brehs. Women always gurenteed out here. They are not going anywhere.
That hot ass chick from your town? She not going anywhere. The boys from your town gonna toss her around a bit. You come back toss her around and then dip out.
That chick you feel like you might never see her again or will ever have a chance to be with her? If she feeling you she will let you in whenever and if not she didn't want it and the only reason why it was happening that night was because she was drunk and you caught her off guard on some loser shyt. She not worth it some other chick will offer you some during your free time one day in the future
You putting up with bull shyt to hit? Nah fukk that man on to the next one
etc.
and lastly. MAKE SURE YOURE HEALTHY BROS. I eat like shyt, I don't work out and drink heavily. I also have a porn addiction. This combination of course is a killer to ones body and I won't lie there been a couple of times I could of been with a few more chicks but I just couldn't get it up. Health is everything. Stop the porn watching and hit the gym because you never know when that chick gonna come outta nowhere down for the cause so the best thing you can do is be ready 24/7.
My plan for the summer is to lose weight and stay away from the porn that way when I do come back next year I'm prepared for the women.
I hope this was a dope read brehs
We ended up fukking like crazy. Her son slept thru the whole thing but my neighbors are probably mad.
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