Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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KeysT said:
It’s a long story so I’ll start from the beginning. Started dating this chick who is adamant about not wanting a relationship. This is attractive to me because I have commitment issues as well. I’m thinking “great this will be all fun” We get along well and enjoy each other’s company. This is where I probably messed up but I invited her out when I was with a group of friends. I generally felt she was too friendly around my friends and even tried to link arms with one of my guy friends because I didnt Want to. (Red flag) I told Her she should leave...she didn’t and we wound up sleeping together with her realizing the next day that she had fukked up. We agreed that in the future she wouldn’t touch my friends. Fast forward to this weekend. I invite Her out again while I was out with one homie. He was trying to make a point to her and reached out for her hands across the table. She put her hands in his. I immediately Removed her hands and put them on her lap and called him away from the table to tell him not to do that. Then I walke Up to her and told her “you aren’t the person I thought You were you should leave”. She left and I kept Drinking. I dont Think I overreactted especially with us having it clear she wouldn’t touch my friends. . Women always focus on your response to their behaviors and not their actual behavior. I dont See her apologizing
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Out of interest what ethnicity are you and this chick?
 
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AdvantageSouthpaw said:
Y'all ever notice about online dating is the pool of people changes a bit but there's been many instances I've seen the same people on there months later. Just an interesting observation. Like revolving doors.

Granted I've been using apps in my city the past year and took a brief break but I have seen several women I talked to, were interested in, etc that came back.

It makes me question the effectiveness of online dating.
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I've noticed they rotate profiles a lot especially on Bumble. And some women are serial daters. Or in some cases just looking to constantly chat and not meet anyone.

I've seen chicks who I've matched with and then unmatched once it was clear they were not that interesting pop up again.

In some cases it's good, as a chick who was overwhelmed last time could be better prepared when you match again.
 
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wtf did i just read? are u stupid? why would u invite a girl out to a situation where shes the only woman in the midst of multiple men?
and second, ur not insecure for not liking the fact that she was too friendly with ur friends. that's rude as fucck and im very disappointed in the responses to your post so far.
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Clearly wasn’t on top of my game inviting her into that situation. It was a slip up.
 
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For Da Bag said:
Ok. Let's break this down.



Good start. :ehh:



Being honest with yourself. :ehh:



Again. :ehh:



Nothing wrong with that. :hamster:



Let's stop there. :usure: You're dating and not in a relationship. There are things you can't hold her to. She shouldn't be trying to embarass you or announce to the room she's open for all business. But her vibing with someone else (within reason) isn't against the rules. In fact, the "red flag" isn't the fact she linked arms. It's that she did it to make you jealous. But I'm sure you know that.



So she giving you the finger right off the bat. :martin:



:gucci: She fukked up?! Nah. You fukked up. You should have been the one with Post-Nut Clarity, not her.



You should have agreed not to have her around your friends. But continue.







Sorry, breh. But she shouldn't. Again, if she's dating you she shouldn't be slutting herself to all your friends. I get it. But she's not committed to you. So if she wants to leave you or date someone else even if it's your friend, it ain't wrong of her, because of the agreement that you two made.
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Breh I guess That’s where we differentiate on what respect should be given on a basic level. She can fukk whoever she wants. I know I am. The issue here is the lack of respect she is showing when in my presence.
 
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KeysT said:
Breh I guess That’s where we differentiate on what respect should be given on a basic level. She can fukk whoever she wants. I know I am. The issue here is the lack of respect she is showing when in my presence.
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Its not the end of the world. She exposed herself as a byrd almost immediately. Most nikkas would pray for that before they committed to her lol. I mean only thing I would have done different is just bounced. And also check your circle :wow: yo boys posed to assist in the vetting process not expedite it
 
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KeysT said:
Breh I guess That’s where we differentiate on what respect should be given on a basic level. She can fukk whoever she wants. I know I am. The issue here is the lack of respect she is showing when in my presence.
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As I said before, you weren't in a relationship or even trying to be in a relationship. You told her that and she agreed to that. So you already opened the door for her to act freer than usual. Plus, when you told her to leave the first time that should have been the last time. Instead you fukked her and brought her around again. That's basically telling her the amount of respect she needs to have in your presence. Which is "not much".

But I agree, in general, women should act accordingly when they are on a date. But also, make note, that fukk buddies should never be around the crew. :comeon:
 
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VertigoKnight said:
I've noticed they rotate profiles a lot especially on Bumble. And some women are serial daters. Or in some cases just looking to constantly chat and not meet anyone.

I've seen chicks who I've matched with and then unmatched once it was clear they were not that interesting pop up again.

In some cases it's good, as a chick who was overwhelmed last time could be better prepared when you match again.
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those free meals and attention whore type chicks.

actually i'm one of those attention whores now, i'm only on tinder because i want 3,000 matches i'm at 2,400 now :lolbron:
 
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Lord-Yosh said:
Dangerous game bruh :francis:. I don't know how bad she is or what she offering but there's a single chick out there offering the same :manny:
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Yeah I know. I got cheated on so I'm going through a cynical phase as far as relationships go and I'm not having luck with single women so I feel like oh well
 
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