Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[winb83]

I aint even anti marriage but I thought about this alot. Its alotta dudes thats married, but I think if it wasnt for society/family/ and their woman's pressures that 80% would have never signed marriage papers. They would have just been with her if thats who they wanted to be with, but wouldnt need a contract to feel their relationship was solidified

I don't think any man really desires marriage its just that he meets a woman gets some cooch and the clock starts ticking. At some point the pressure women and society exert on him demands he spend months working to buy a ring and put it on her finger and ask for her to marry him. Then they blow all this money on the huge spectacle so her family and friends can watch her parade around and things continue to go down hill. It's either he accepts that or he dumps her.

Most guys who feel that particular woman is the best they can do and or are scared to go back out and play the field accept that bs and one day wake up in hell. Some beat the odds and find happiness but most are trapped. She starts popping out babies and its cheaper to keep her except that it was really cheaper to never have her.

 

[BruhMayne]

they aint married yet?

But he has a luxury most dudes dont have.
He got her when she was a 14yo virgin, before she could become corrupted.

 

[WePifffyMane]

 

[Ohene]

But he has a luxury most dudes dont have.
He got her when she was a 14yo virgin, before she could become corrupted.

thought she was older than him

 

[Ohene]

wait a sec...are we talmbout Melo Anthony? Yea right?

edit: you mean your actual brother

 

[BruhMayne]

Love this. Your girl has GOT TO think your the shyt. The second she doesn't, the relationship is over. This goes well into marraige brehs.

This is whats help keep my parents marriage together for 30 years.
I remember watching a movie with moms one time and she was like "Denzel looks just like ya dad when he wears his hats like that...... but he aint got nothing on ya daddy though."


Dudes who plan on or end up in long term relationships need to remember this.
Just like its not a good look for a female to neglect her appearance that attracted her to you, its not a good look for you to lose that aura that attracted your woman.

Funny thing about women is...
They'll forgive a cheater
They'll forgive a beater
They'll tolerate a physically unattractive dude
They'll even tolerate a broke nikka for awhile

But they will NEVER tolerate/respect a dude who they view as a lame, point black period.

 

[Kenny West]

Alright I gave this speech to a homie of mine so I might as well drop it here.

Women love confidence. But the nikka I was giving the speech to couldn't get the difference between confidence and ego. Naturally he's of the lightskin "prettyboy (as he calls himself)" breed.

Confidence is important. It's one of those things as a man you should have not just because it's attractive but because it's a powerful tool. Confidence and ego are different versions of self esteem though. Lemme explain.

Say self esteem is a house. Now when you build your self esteem with ego, it's a glass house. Transparent. It's just as easy to build as it is to destroy. The greatest flaw though? It takes another person for it to ever change. If someone compliments you, it goes up. If a bytch hit you with a "ew he ugly " then it's like someone tossed a brick and took 3 stories off that bytch. Ego's are detrimental because they have to constantly be maintained. Like the butterface broads on FB always thirsting for compliments to repair the damage of realizing she single for the 5th straight Valentines day.

It also takes a bunch out of a man. An egotistical man has to guard his. These the type of nikkas thats at the club and see a dime,. but scared to approach for fear of taking a L. Instead they just wait and end up taking the number of a gully fat chick who had the guts to approach. Men CHOOSE, women settle weak ass nikka.

Confidence is a brick house. The brick is humility, cement is experince. If you fukk a chick playing proper game, what insult can take that away from you? None.

 

[Son Of God]

Alright I gave this speech to a homie of mine so I might as well drop it here.

Women love confidence. But the nikka I was giving the speech to couldn't get the difference between confidence and ego. Naturally he's of the lightskin "prettyboy (as he calls himself)" breed.

Confidence is important. It's one of those things as a man you should have not just because it's attractive but because it's a powerful tool. Confidence and ego are different versions of self esteem though. Lemme explain.

Say self esteem is a house. Now when you build your self esteem with ego, it's a glass house. Transparent. It's just as easy to build as it is to destroy. The greatest flaw though? It takes another person for it to ever change. If someone compliments you, it goes up. If a bytch hit you with a "ew he ugly " then it's like someone tossed a brick and took 3 stories off that bytch. Ego's are detrimental because they have to constantly be maintained. Like the butterface broads on FB always thirsting for compliments to repair the damage of realizing she single for the 5th straight Valentines day.

It also takes a bunch out of a man. An egotistical man has to guard his. These the type of nikkas thats at the club and see a dime,. but scared to approach for fear of taking a L. Instead they just wait and end up taking the number of a gully fat chick who had the guts to approach. Men CHOOSE, women settle weak ass nikka.

Confidence is a brick house. The brick is humility, cement is experince. If you fukk a chick playing proper game, what insult can take that away from you? None.

Kinda of reminds me of this.

 

[Kenny West]

Man I aint even finish that post. nikkas at work made me get off the computer. I'mma edit that bytch on my phone in a little bit

 

[Son Of God]

Man I aint even finish that post. nikkas at work made me get off the computer. I'mma edit that bytch on my phone in a little bit

I feel you breh,do what you gotta do.

 

[BedRoomI'z]

Alright I gave this speech to a homie of mine so I might as well drop it here.

Women love confidence. But the nikka I was giving the speech to couldn't get the difference between confidence and ego. Naturally he's of the lightskin "prettyboy (as he calls himself)" breed.

Confidence is important. It's one of those things as a man you should have not just because it's attractive but because it's a powerful tool. Confidence and ego are different versions of self esteem though. Lemme explain.

Say self esteem is a house. Now when you build your self esteem with ego, it's a glass house. Transparent. It's just as easy to build as it is to destroy. The greatest flaw though? It takes another person for it to ever change. If someone compliments you, it goes up. If a bytch hit you with a "ew he ugly " then it's like someone tossed a brick and took 3 stories off that bytch. Ego's are detrimental because they have to constantly be maintained. Like the butterface broads on FB always thirsting for compliments to repair the damage of realizing she single for the 5th straight Valentines day.

It also takes a bunch out of a man. An egotistical man has to guard his. These the type of nikkas thats at the club and see a dime,. but scared to approach for fear of taking a L. Instead they just wait and end up taking the number of a gully fat chick who had the guts to approach. Men CHOOSE, women settle weak ass nikka.

Confidence is a brick house. The brick is humility, cement is experince. If you fukk a chick playing proper game, what insult can take that away from you? None.

Nice and soooo true...

 

[↓R↑LYB]

Man I aint even finish that post. nikkas at work made me get off the computer. I'mma edit that bytch on my phone in a little bit

you letting nikkas debo you breh

 

[Sharp]

Let me build with yall on this one

You got dudes out there that be on some
"I got a good job making good money
I have a great education
I have a luxury car
I can take care of all of her financial needs
I can put it down in the bedroom
I'm an attractive brother"

You can have all of these traits and she will still never respect you. Want to know why?
A woman wants a man who is confident. Now if you have all of these things and you are confident, it is a plus. But if you have all these things and you aren't confident, there is no way she will respect you as a man. If you are not confident, it means that you are insecure about certain things in your life. People who are insecure use the aforementioned things to compensate for their insecurities.The brother who goes out of his way to buy his lady anything she desires because he feels that this is the only way he can keep her. The brother who makes sure he stays in a Benz, BMZ, or whatever luxury car to make sure that he gets the attention of women. The brother who parades around talking about his Ivy League degree, or his Fortune 500 to every women he meets in order to establish that he is "somebody"

But then exactly, "who is he"?

Overconfidence is arrogance, and arrogance is a defensive form of insecurity. You're overcompensating when you are arrogant. Confidence is when you know what you're about and you are happy and proud of yourself, and nobody's perception of you can make you second guess yourself. Confidence is accepting your flaws along with your gifts and being humble about it. If you see yourself changing to keep a women, then you more than likely lack confidence.

Confidence people normally resist the urge to brag... their confidence is exuded in their actions, not their words. Brothers normally ask me, "Why is she with him, when I can offer her way more than what he can?" I simply tell them, more doesn't mean better. He has the one item you don't have, and guess what? That's all she's looking for. I'm not saying abandon everything else in search of confidence, but get some confidence to compliment all of your successes and accomplishments.

Think about it like this... if you have all these things, and you lack confidence... it says something about your character.

 

[Rocket Scientist]

Never let a woman PRESSURE you. I have heard horror stories of how men were FORCED to marry.Also never let a woman see you sweat. "If she asks baby how was your day" you say good,just work. The problem with cats out here is they whining and complaining to their girl. "Man i cant stand my boss he promoted Rico over me". See SOME women will take that statement and make it seem as is your soft and cant handle pressure. Like Chris Rock says women's thinking and logic makes no sense.(He said it not me)... Never tell her your secrets.If you were bullied in school and you tell her.Guess what?When an argument comes up or in the heat of it and your going in on her. She will take that 1 piece of information and fling it at you "So what nikka you were bullied in HS" or something worse then that. Yall get my point. Be careful what you say to a woman at all times.Especially private,secret information.Like H Town says "Thin Line between Love and Hate"

 

[MikelArteta]

Be aware of her close friends, if they start getting engaged she will bring it up. If they break up with their bfs be aware.

Don't waste your youth (18-25) chasing after women , I made that mistake.

I always laugh when I see my little cousin etc like 20 in a two year relationship knowing his girl is going to carve out his heart soon because she is going to "want to have fun"


Today at work I take lunch with a group of folks that include two ladies, someone was complaining about a guy she's dating how he never has time for her, how he doesn't call her. So I said then why are you with him still?

An she told me he is a catch

I'm like how is he a catch?

And she said, he's funny, he's smart, he has a job, he has his head on his shoulders.

This girl is about a 8/10, notice she didn't mention anything about looks, of you have your ish together in other areas of life you will be good.

As well I even told this chick if he really cared he wouldn't ignore you and you know what?

She said its exciting to her that she has to chase after a guy for the first time in her life.


Tips from a dime brehs