Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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Ex hit me up telling me to tell her to fukk off .Told her naw, i was just sorry we turned into the ppl we aint want to and that i hurt her .Miss her, etc .But im not finna do no arguing. And i know what I want .So she needs to come thru so we can work it out .

Got no response. But this is the same woman who said she'd file a restraining order on me and i told her that iont need ppl like her in my life and she said "oh now you're talking down on me". So I just ignored her and kim. Shes crazy.

But I gotta be real with myself first. I cant do the games . Imma speak my mind and kim. Like i just said I had a 34 year old in my bed last night. As a 26 year old ill be alright
Hold up let me get this right you crying over a shorty who wanted to put a restraining order on you... nikka let me find out you a fukking stalker
 

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So we talked on the phone last night and the weirdest thing is that we both admitted having the same issues with each other

She said she was overwhelmed about how much she liked me in such a short time and is scared to let her guard down - she got burnt by a breh last year who didn't want to commit after 8 months (red flags?).

I told her I'm a little prang as my ex and I got on like a house on fire at the beginning and she got shook about commitment and then left London for work - that kinda stung me and left me a bit raw and gave zero fukks about chicks after that.

So we taking it super slow. Both stopped talking to people on okcupid. I blitzed my Tinder account and will just concentrate on her.

Weirdly we began talking on Okcupid because we're going to be in the same foreign country in a few weeks time. So first time I buss her down maybe abroad :lolbron:

So we went bowling and she dropped the “what do I want” talk. She wants a relationship.

4th date. Not even 2 weeks.

She’s a sweet girl, has really good morals, is Buddhist so she is quite level minded, positive, etc and has a great head on her shoulders.

So I said I’d like for us to start something, too.

And that’s it:yeshrug:

I was a little stoned and drunk off that yak yesterday so this morning and the afternoon had me thinking “what did I tell her:jbhmm:

But we talked on the phone again and we agreed to be exclusive and won’t put a label on what we’re doing for now

Seeing how this pans out with her as she is a total catch. But I’m a little more positive about this one than usual

Oh, and her friend and her friend have a nickname for me:martin::

BC
 

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So we went bowling and she dropped the “what do I want” talk. She wants a relationship.

4th date. Not even 2 weeks.

She’s a sweet girl, has really good morals, is Buddhist so she is quite level minded, positive, etc and has a great head on her shoulders.

So I said I’d like for us to start something, too.

And that’s it:yeshrug:

I was a little stoned and drunk off that yak yesterday so this morning and the afternoon had me thinking “what did I tell her:jbhmm:

But we talked on the phone again and we agreed to be exclusive and won’t put a label on what we’re doing for now

Seeing how this pans out with her as she is a total catch. But I’m a little more positive about this one than usual

Oh, and her friend and her friend have a nickname for me:martin::

BC

whenever chicks bring that up , i always say - I enjoy spending time with you in this capacity and it would suck if we can't anymore
 

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for real, if the broad don't text/call within about 3 hours or even that day - DROP HER! There ain't a female alive that don't have her phone surgically graphed onto her hand. Remember that.... she got your message, she read it through the preview so that it doesn't shown its been "read" - shyt, someone even read it and don't respond. DO NOT HIT HER AGAIN. Just send the text leave it at that.

Women who want to be with you will make it a point to be with you.
all day breh. quoted for truth
 

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I hate when girl's try and give me their social media accounts instead of their #. I don't post shyt on my social media accounts and I barely be on there I wish y'all would just curve a nikka with a "I got a boyfriend" line or sumn instead and let me be on my merry way
 

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I hate when girl's try and give me their social media accounts instead of their #. I don't post shyt on my social media accounts and I barely be on there I wish y'all would just curve a nikka with a "I got a boyfriend" line or sumn instead and let me be on my merry way
kick it to girls who already gave u signals they wanna be spoken to and give them ur number.
 

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flagged two girls down for this weekend cuz i was horny at work. both bytches say they got plans :skip:
hittin the gym and doing legs and heavy back exercises. gota release this horny energy before i crank one out :flabbynsick:
I feel you breh
 

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Man brehs, I don't know what to do.

I aint posted in a minute because things was going good...but last night I took a major L with my girl.

we was together and she was on her phone smilin and shyt..barely even paying me any mind..I peaked at her phone and saw her getting a bunch of snapchat notifications...turns out it was this nikka who is committed to play football for Clemson next year who had dmed her on instagram..he got her number and snap :mjcry: she sent him some pics, was telling him what she wanted to do and all that shyt but they wasn't full on nudes and he was sending pics to her.. he sent her a dikk pic :francis:they been talking for a week.

when I saw it I tried to play it cool and just told her I was done grabbed my car keys and dipped..she been blowing up my phone texting me and shyt. telling me she blocked him It's February break here so I'm glad I don't got to see her. I been looking at this nikka instagram and it just makes me feel like shyt:mjcry: I wanna try to expose him but I don't have any proof and it will just make me look bitter and like a loser. I ain't told no one in my personal life because nikkas just gonna laugh.

I'm done with relationships I ain't built for this..don't know what I do wrong to make these girls do me dirty

there were quite a few brehs in here that warned you about to what's to come with this girl...:aicmon:

now that everything nikkas in here told you about came to fruition, you should erase this girl from your memory and move on with your life. She did not block that dude and they will fukk. I guarantee you that because if she wasn't going to, she wouldn't have entertained ole boy to begin with (nevermind the exchanging of numbers/pics). Sad thing is she will be nothing more than a notch on his belt but that isn't your problem. Women gotta suffer the consequences of their actions. :manny:

Forget putting them on blast, forget him, forget her, her pu$$y, how great ya'll were, etc. Let her cry, beg, text do all kinds of shyt...who the fukk cares.

Summer is right around the corner....get in that gym son. :ufdup:
 
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Haven't been in here in a sec. Been focusing on the programming thing and it's definitely been paying off dividends. I feel it is very important to put women on the backburner to other concerns. The more together you have things, the much more easier women are to deal with. When you're looking great after working out, dressing great, making a sizable salary and just enjoying life, you realize that a lot of women find that very attractive. You can't neglect getting at women, but the more you focus on building yourself up and on other things in life, the easier it is to get their attention.
 
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