Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[DropTopDoc]

Man brehs, I don't know what to do.

I aint posted in a minute because things was going good...but last night I took a major L with my girl.

we was together and she was on her phone smilin and shyt..barely even paying me any mind..I peaked at her phone and saw her getting a bunch of snapchat notifications...turns out it was this nikka who is committed to play football for Clemson next year who had dmed her on instagram..he got her number and snap she sent him some pics, was telling him what she wanted to do and all that shyt but they wasn't full on nudes and he was sending pics to her.. he sent her a dikk pic they been talking for a week.

when I saw it I tried to play it cool and just told her I was done grabbed my car keys and dipped..she been blowing up my phone texting me and shyt. telling me she blocked him It's February break here so I'm glad I don't got to see her. I been looking at this nikka instagram and it just makes me feel like shyt I wanna try to expose him but I don't have any proof and it will just make me look bitter and like a loser. I ain't told no one in my personal life because nikkas just gonna laugh.

I'm done with relationships I ain't built for this..don't know what I do wrong to make these girls do me dirty

It may or may not have been your first but it won’t be your last, any chick can have the next nikka in her draws, I’m 34 and still see it, don’t believe social media, these grown ass females that’s posting oh i want whatever, they still letting another nikka dip in they draws despite a good relationship

Especially in college, i assumed most females was doing them, until proven otherwise, and even then, not trying to jade you because there are plenty of great women who want a monogamous relationship, but there are even more that don’t know what the fukk they want.


Every time you move up a level in life you are going to lose some women, and gain some, them same hos from hs gonna be distant memories soon enough, and the same thing when you graduate,


If the p*ssy was good, hit it a few more times for memories sake and move on, let her lie to you etc and be like, yep, you right, I’m glad you are mines

Because soon as she touch down on some campus a month later she gonna be sneaking into some dudes dorm getting the breaks beat off that p*ssy

This will toughen you up, learn that some females lie, don’t blindly trust, not all females are like this, don’t use this as an excuse to treat females like shyt, or be non commital, know that as you move forward in life your level of female will improve, what is even crazier is the shyt will come back full circle and she might be a different chick, better, or worse, and if she the same, you might get to dig in them cheeks for memories sake 10 years later

 

[Straw Hat Luffy]

If you're comfortable talking to women then that's all you need to get a girl.

If you're comfortable talking to women: You can talk to any female no matter how hot or ugly she is, you're being yourself, and your talking to women all the time with no ill intent behind it but just trying to socialize.

And believe it or not that's the best way of getting women

being comfortable=more socializing with women in general= you will eventually run into someone whos into you


simple.



It's why the where the hoes at guy is always quiet when females are actually around. The dude is never in situations where hes socializing with women so when the moment finally happens he doesn't know how to handle the situation. Like socialize nikka.


But being able to socialize in general helps you out in life.

 

[Poh SIti Dawn]

Cafe shawty hit me back. We're supposed to be meeting tonight. She said she wants to come have drinks near my place .I think this means i might be caking tonight?

 

[zerorequiem]

Yeah I was at Lajes. Kind of a dead island now because of the base drawdown. Mainland though...

Yeah it was great when the families were there. It's dope to know someone else stayed there. We never got to go to the mainland though.

 

[J.E.T.S]

Texted the African girl to not hit me up again.

She called me Friday to talk. Talked for 45 minutes.

Saturday I hit her up, no response.

She didn't respond to that text all weekend, but she saw me Monday and had the nerve to start texting me, then to ask me "how was your weekend ".

Like, bytch....

She responded "ok cool".

20 minutes later she texted again saying, "I was going to ask you to stop hitting me up too, I'm about to get engaged soon."

Aaaawwww.... these hoes dirty y'all.

 

[Solano707]

Man brehs, I don't know what to do.

I aint posted in a minute because things was going good...but last night I took a major L with my girl.

we was together and she was on her phone smilin and shyt..barely even paying me any mind..I peaked at her phone and saw her getting a bunch of snapchat notifications...turns out it was this nikka who is committed to play football for Clemson next year who had dmed her on instagram..he got her number and snap she sent him some pics, was telling him what she wanted to do and all that shyt but they wasn't full on nudes and he was sending pics to her.. he sent her a dikk pic they been talking for a week.

when I saw it I tried to play it cool and just told her I was done grabbed my car keys and dipped..she been blowing up my phone texting me and shyt. telling me she blocked him It's February break here so I'm glad I don't got to see her. I been looking at this nikka instagram and it just makes me feel like shyt I wanna try to expose him but I don't have any proof and it will just make me look bitter and like a loser. I ain't told no one in my personal life because nikkas just gonna laugh.

I'm done with relationships I ain't built for this..don't know what I do wrong to make these girls do me dirty

Look at it this wasy breh, better to take this L like a champ now rather than later down the road when she carrying or already had a baby by you.

She ain't shyt breh, and you better for it. Dip and never look back, cause the trust is gone. Let that Clemson nikka through her cause she washed. Charge it to the game.

 

[Solano707]

Texted the African girl to not hit me up again.

She called me Friday to talk. Talked for 45 minutes.

Saturday I hit her up, no response.

She didn't respond to that text all weekend, but she saw me Monday and had the nerve to start texting me, then to ask me "how was your weekend ".

Like, bytch....

She responded "ok cool".

20 minutes later she texted again saying, "I was going to ask you to stop hitting me up too, I'm about to get engaged soon."

Aaaawwww.... these hoes dirty y'all.

for real, if the broad don't text/call within about 3 hours or even that day - DROP HER! There ain't a female alive that don't have her phone surgically graphed onto her hand. Remember that.... she got your message, she read it through the preview so that it doesn't shown its been "read" - shyt, someone even read it and don't respond. DO NOT HIT HER AGAIN. Just send the text leave it at that.

Women who want to be with you will make it a point to be with you.

 

[DaddyFresh]

Girlfriend just moved In last week. Cooks, cleans, ask to give me massages with organic coconut oil , does my hair and puts me on the highest pedestal.

Said she don’t believe in the feminist agenda. And that men are superior to women and her man is above her .

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[7th Letter Specialist]

So, I was wondering. Why do a lot of cats tell women not to text or call em anymore instead of just ignoring, not responding or just ghosting them. I mean if a woman is being foul, why even give her that closure? Does she deserve that? I mean I have closure w/in myself, because I know why I'm not dealing w/her.

 

[DaddyFresh]

So, I was wondering. Why do a lot of cats tell women not to text or call em anymore instead of just ignoring, not responding or just ghosting them. I mean if a woman is being foul, why even give her that closure? Does she deserve that? I mean I have closure w/in myself, because I know why I'm not dealing w/her.

Agreed. Its passive aggressive any very emotional response. Silence is much more potent.

 

[360dagod]

Man brehs, I don't know what to do.

I aint posted in a minute because things was going good...but last night I took a major L with my girl.

we was together and she was on her phone smilin and shyt..barely even paying me any mind..I peaked at her phone and saw her getting a bunch of snapchat notifications...turns out it was this nikka who is committed to play football for Clemson next year who had dmed her on instagram..he got her number and snap she sent him some pics, was telling him what she wanted to do and all that shyt but they wasn't full on nudes and he was sending pics to her.. he sent her a dikk pic they been talking for a week.

when I saw it I tried to play it cool and just told her I was done grabbed my car keys and dipped..she been blowing up my phone texting me and shyt. telling me she blocked him It's February break here so I'm glad I don't got to see her. I been looking at this nikka instagram and it just makes me feel like shyt I wanna try to expose him but I don't have any proof and it will just make me look bitter and like a loser. I ain't told no one in my personal life because nikkas just gonna laugh.

I'm done with relationships I ain't built for this..don't know what I do wrong to make these girls do me dirty

You gonna be aiight breh...

It's a learning experience...a very hard one at that...

You might be a lil too lovey dovey with these broads...

They can sense the thirst...

 

[Poh SIti Dawn]

Damn had shorty over at mine sleeping but i guess bc i was tryna make moves on her she called a cab . Cant be mad at it. Kinda got too much energy to not wanna fukk something. So for us to b n bed together and no kissin or nuts being busted is happening its like meh...

Just walked her to the door n she hit me with thex"maybe I'll see you around" flex.

 

[J.E.T.S]

So, I was wondering. Why do a lot of cats tell women not to text or call em anymore instead of just ignoring, not responding or just ghosting them. I mean if a woman is being foul, why even give her that closure? Does she deserve that? I mean I have closure w/in myself, because I know why I'm not dealing w/her.

I started to do that.

I did that before with the same African girl. She started hitting me up again and I fell for the bait

Should've continued ignoring her. I was doing good too.

 

[O³ (O cubed)]

Texted the African girl to not hit me up again.

She called me Friday to talk. Talked for 45 minutes.

Saturday I hit her up, no response.

She didn't respond to that text all weekend, but she saw me Monday and had the nerve to start texting me, then to ask me "how was your weekend ".

Like, bytch....

She responded "ok cool".

20 minutes later she texted again saying, "I was going to ask you to stop hitting me up too, I'm about to get engaged soon."

Aaaawwww.... these hoes dirty y'all.

This is where you messed up. How are you telling her not to call you but rewarding her with almost an hour of your time when she does?

Its a lesson learned I guess. Still, at least you aren't the Fiance. So you've won.

 

[Poh SIti Dawn]

Ex hit me up telling me to tell her to fukk off .Told her naw, i was just sorry we turned into the ppl we aint want to and that i hurt her .Miss her, etc .But im not finna do no arguing. And i know what I want .So she needs to come thru so we can work it out .

Got no response. But this is the same woman who said she'd file a restraining order on me and i told her that iont need ppl like her in my life and she said "oh now you're talking down on me". So I just ignored her and kim. Shes crazy.

But I gotta be real with myself first. I cant do the games . Imma speak my mind and kim. Like i just said I had a 34 year old in my bed last night. As a 26 year old ill be alright