Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[TRUEST]

Really?

Yes really. I’m serious. Women don’t respond to that loveydovey sh1t from the movies. They only respond to aggression in situations like yours.

If u think u fuccked up, apologize in a very genuine fashion then leave it be.

“What the fucck is wrong with u??! How many times do I have to express how sorry I am for what I did? U stupid b1tch, u cum guzzling whore, hoebag nasty wench. I don’t have to do sh1t but I’m choosing to apologize cuz I care about ur ass u fucccking c*nt. I’m not dealing with this. “

Trust me on this, she ain’t gone let that be the last contact y’all have.

 

[-deleted-]

Yeah. I was already feeling myself by having old girl spend the night. Then my ex hmu like im struggling with myself tell me to fukk off. Ofc for her i rurn into a simp. Like im sorry i hurt you, etc. Get no response. Now i feel hung up. But maybe its better i approached the situation with love than aggression? And stayed true to myself

So I've been noticing from your posts you are still hung up on your ex. You've helped me out with advice in the past, so when I tell you this it isn't to mock you or disrespect you or anything, I'm telling you how it is. This girl is using you for attention. If she really wanted to be with you then she would. All the stuff she's doing is to boost her own ego to let her know she still has a dog in the kettle she can always play with when she's bored.

You have to cut her off. First, stop hitting her up, then only reply once to every three texts she sends. And make that reply short and concise. You're giving her too much of your power and she knows it. That's why she's ignoring you when you reply. She's treating you like a yo-yo, just dishing herself out in small bits to see if you'll take the bait. You have to remember that most women are nothing more than attention-seekers. What she is doing to you is the female equivalent of hitting up one of your old hoes to smash just to see if you still got it.

From the stuff you've posted in the past it seems like you know how to fortify yourself with a solid roster. Always remember, if you got a girl like her once, you can get a girl like her again.

 

[sheedteef]

Women that are taken and are giving out their number either want some additional thrills that she might not be getting at home or she wants an upgrade opportunity. If she is doing it with you, she will do it on you, so while it might pump up your ego and make you think you're getting such phenomenal game that you are taking her from her man, all you are is a resource. In relationships, there will always be a lull when people learn each other and get used to each other. If you have a woman who was taken but jumped ship to you, she will do the exact same thing on you as soon as there is a slow period in your relationship.

Preach. the thing for us all in this thread though is this.. how do we go about it all? the yin and yang of the male-female dynamic. our logic vs.their emotions. we need each other and people seem to forget that. That's why the term "gender war" makes me cringe lol

 

[sheedteef]

meeting up with a BBW this weekend for lunch. we facetimed and she was being mad flirty the whole time. I'll let you guys know what comes of it

 

[Poh SIti Dawn]

Yes really. I’m serious. Women don’t respond to that loveydovey sh1t from the movies. They only respond to aggression in situations like yours.

If u think u fuccked up, apologize in a very genuine fashion then leave it be.

“What the fucck is wrong with u??! How many times do I have to express how sorry I am for what I did? U stupid b1tch, u cum guzzling whore, hoebag nasty wench. I don’t have to do sh1t but I’m choosing to apologize cuz I care about ur ass u fucccking c*nt. I’m not dealing with this. “

Trust me on this, she ain’t gone let that be the last contact y’all have.

I took your advice .Aint got a response yet but feel bad like damn definitely didnt want to act out of character but at the same time feel at least empowered to say some real shyt. Gotta salute both you brehs

So I've been noticing from your posts you are still hung up on your ex. You've helped me out with advice in the past, so when I tell you this it isn't to mock you or disrespect you or anything, I'm telling you how it is. This girl is using you for attention. If she really wanted to be with you then she would. All the stuff she's doing is to boost her own ego to let her know she still has a dog in the kettle she can always play with when she's bored.

You have to cut her off. First, stop hitting her up, then only reply once to every three texts she sends. And make that reply short and concise. You're giving her too much of your power and she knows it. That's why she's ignoring you when you reply. She's treating you like a yo-yo, just dishing herself out in small bits to see if you'll take the bait. You have to remember that most women are nothing more than attention-seekers. What she is doing to you is the female equivalent of hitting up one of your old hoes to smash just to see if you still got it.

From the stuff you've posted in the past it seems like you know how to fortify yourself with a solid roster. Always remember, if you got a girl like her once, you can get a girl like her again.

Thanks ima take your advice from now on.

 

[sfgiants]

anybody else meet a bytch at a bar and show up after she does so she already has a tab goin and then shes the one buying drinks
if she closes out the tab after the first drink, im like i dont like to drink like that anyway, but thanks for the drink

 

[Clark Griswold]

Yes really. I’m serious. Women don’t respond to that loveydovey sh1t from the movies. They only respond to aggression in situations like yours.

If u think u fuccked up, apologize in a very genuine fashion then leave it be.

“What the fucck is wrong with u??! How many times do I have to express how sorry I am for what I did? U stupid b1tch, u cum guzzling whore, hoebag nasty wench. I don’t have to do sh1t but I’m choosing to apologize cuz I care about ur ass u fucccking c*nt. I’m not dealing with this. “

Trust me on this, she ain’t gone let that be the last contact y’all have.

This is shytty advice... dude was never hard on the bytch from the beginning so when he says that shyt you posted it’s not gonna work and I bet money the bytch is gonna laugh. That shyt u posted is what an emotional nikka would say.... and... once the bytch knows she can have you you’ve lost the game...

Plus... the bytch texted him and told him to tell her to fukk off, then he apologized and ask for forgiveness and to take him back... what would’ve been the best response was no response after that BS she texted...

 

[TRUEST]

This is shytty advice... dude was never hard on the bytch from the beginning so when he says that shyt you posted it’s not gonna work and I bet money the bytch is gonna laugh. That shyt u posted is what an emotional nikka would say.... and... once the bytch knows she can have you you’ve lost the game...

Plus... the bytch texted him and told him to tell her to fukk off, then he apologized and ask for forgiveness and to take him back... what would’ve been the best response was no response after that BS she texted...

anyone who considers the advice i give to be sh1tty is very much an idiot. i dont pull things outta thin air. advice i give is derived from many observations ive noted both from personal experiences and of those of men who are far more successful with women than i am.

that particular advice i gave ol boy is for the next time he hears from her and shes still not accepting his apology. looks like he just texted it to her after the last non-response he got from her.

when u fucck up, and u spend as much as time he did apologizing, and the chick continues to act childish, there's no better response than the one i posted.

u dudes talk so much about "ahh, why do bad boys get the girls, why this, why that". bad boys get the girls because they put chicks like this in their place and they're able to do this either because they never really liked the chick (as much as she likes them), or they have multiple other women to keep them occupied. so they couldnt give a damn whether or not she stays mad.

im not advocating for dudes to belittle women or blatantly treat them as if they're less then equal. but the moment u understand that u should always maintain the upper hand in ur dealings with women, the better off ull be. someone said a while back that when u understand that women are like children, your dealings with them will be far more successful. does a father plead like a b1tch for his daugther to forgive him? of course not. when a child misbehaves, u chastises him in a very firm manner and leave that matter alone. in the case of women, u get firm with ur response and let the chips fall where they will.

 

[Clark Griswold]

anyone who considers the advice i give to be sh1tty is very much an idiot. i dont pull things outta thin air. advice i give is derived from many observations ive noted both from personal experiences and of those of men who are far more successful with women than i am.

that particular advice i gave ol boy is for the next time he hears from her and shes still not accepting his apology. looks like he just texted it to her after the last non-response he got from her.

when u fucck up, and u spend as much as time he did apologizing, and the chick continues to act childish, there's no better response than the one i posted.

u dudes talk so much about "ahh, why do bad boys get the girls, why this, why that". bad boys get the girls because they put chicks like this in their place and they're able to do this either because they never really liked the chick (as much as she likes them), or they have multiple other women to keep them occupied. so they couldnt give a damn whether or not she stays mad.

im not advocating for dudes to belittle women or blatantly treat them as if they're less then equal. but the moment u understand that u should always maintain the upper hand in ur dealings with women, the better off ull be. someone said a while back that when u understand that women are like children, your dealings with them will be far more successful. does a father plead like a b1tch for his daugther to forgive him? of course not. when a child misbehaves, u chastises him in a very firm manner and leave that matter alone. in the case of women, u get firm with ur response and let the chips fall where they will.

You’re not following me, and the way you START is the way you FINISH... that soft nikka wasn’t a “bad boy” the entire time he was with the bytch nor did he ever have the upper hand so the second he decides to man up and reclaim his balls that bytch is not going to take him serious because he never started out be being a fukking man... hence your shyt advice not working in his favor...

 

[TRUEST]

You’re not following me, and the way you START is the way you FINISH... that soft nikka wasn’t a “bad boy” the entire time he was with the bytch nor did he ever have the upper hand so the second he decides to man up and reclaim his balls that bytch is not going to take him serious because he never started out be being a fukking man... hence your shyt advice not working in his favor...

no, you're not following. nor do i think u understand what you're saying.

from reading ol boy's post, its clear dude can pull girls quite effortlessly. and that girl knows that. which is why shes particularly enjoying the ego boost he's giving her by his repetitive apologies.

he says what i said, and leave that b1tch alone. she's bound to come running. rarely do women meet dudes that have girls throwing themselves at their men like ol boy. so that girl aint finna let that n1gga go no where. u better calm ur dumbass down and learn before u ruin ur life being an obstinate moron.

 

[The Message]

u dudes talk so much about "ahh, why do bad boys get the girls, why this, why that". bad boys get the girls because they put chicks like this in their place and they're able to do this either because they never really liked the chick (as much as she likes them), or they have multiple other women to keep them occupied. so they couldnt give a damn whether or not she stays mad.

word. that "self check" a chick has when she knows from the jump that you have no regrets about walking away from her if she gets outta line or...that you can easily replace her with a chick who's better than her...

it's a marvelous thing

 

[Poh SIti Dawn]

no, you're not following. nor do i think u understand what you're saying.

from reading ol boy's post, its clear dude can pull girls quite effortlessly. and that girl knows that. which is why shes particularly enjoying the ego boost he's giving her by his repetitive apologies.

he says what i said, and leave that b1tch alone. she's bound to come running. rarely do women meet dudes that have girls throwing themselves at their men like ol boy. so that girl aint finna let that n1gga go no where. u better calm ur dumbass down and learn before u ruin ur life being an obstinate moron.

i think she knows that more than i sometimes. Im just lazy about it. But the repetitive apologies that needed to stop. And asserting my power and cussing her out for how many times shes cussed me. Think she just sensed i was over it when i didnt reply to her ass last time. But yeah thanks bro for helping me empower myself in this aspect

You’re not following me, and the way you START is the way you FINISH... that soft nikka wasn’t a “bad boy” the entire time he was with the bytch nor did he ever have the upper hand so the second he decides to man up and reclaim his balls that bytch is not going to take him serious because he never started out be being a fukking man... hence your shyt advice not working in his favor...

I get what youre saying but its also something that I have to grow into and learn about myself right? Like i didn't even have a male figure in my household. So i gotta man up at some point and be like "bytch fukk you" at least an utterance of those words if not for her then the next, right.

 

[Rev Leon Lonnie Love]

Girl who gave me her number yesterday was supposed to come chill tonight. She flaked on me at the last minute :francios:

Probably spending time with her boyfriend as i type this.

 

[ProfessionallyTrill]

Wow, the head is terrible.
Wont let me smash until something is "official".
Past sexual abuse from prev bf.
Stream of bad luck since I've met her (baggage got robbed, lost her debit card out of state, sister having a breakdown, etc).
Smokes up my weed too quick. Sometimes I just wanna hit the bowl, not roll up.
Needs to lose bout 20 pounds to be a good 8-9

She of course has her Pros too but these are dealbreakers. I LOVE my space and I already have a kid. Yo ass better be a full package. If not, I'm cool.
She hasnt hit me with an ultimatum or "what are we" so I'll drag this out and enjoy the company (and weak head).

 

[Poh SIti Dawn]

Got a bytch talmbout she gon hmu after work for them draws. If shr comes with some full fledged bullshyt im ignoring her