Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[Turbulent]

BACKSTORY!!!!!

don't want to go in too much details cause i think i might know some people who lurk here . basically tried for a menage with two girls. one was really feeling me, the other was lukewarm.

 

[Dreamzeedream]

Got a girls number yesterday at this cafe I frequent. Walked in on my lunch break mugging bc I'd been doing construction in the rain and on my 195th work day in a row. Then she looked at me, so I mugged again, but she held her eye contact. Then I smiled. Left it alone and ordered. Sat down went out smoked. Saw an old friend and got up to dip then told her bye, and she was like "hey I just wanted to tell you that you've got a beautiful smile" so I said thanks shook her hand, held her hand in mine for a while, while we felt each other's skin. Told her I had to go back to work. Asked for her number, she wrote it down on a piece of paper. Gave it to me, I dipped

Ain't that's against the law

 

[Poh SIti Dawn]

Ain't that's against the law

My bad. 20th but naw it ain't.

 

[Shadow King]

Erase all the chicks in ya phone and start fresh in 2018

My shyt was empty in the first place

 

[Shadow King]

Okay guys, I need help with this life lesson in game.

What is Alpha?
How do you be non-needy?
How do you handle the "waiting"?

I keep myself occupied, I talk to women here and there but my head just gets into this zone where boredom sets in and its this downward spiral. I have hobbies, I take martial arts classes...I'm trying no-fap and to kick porn but like...what?

How do you stay strong brehs? What is the juice or the sauce that keeps you curving girls and getting them to chase you?

What's the philosophy brehs?

Adding all this up seems very Zen. Like, stay healthy, stay strong and let them come to you.
I think I'm answering my own questions and just need to put all this into action. Just seems like a longterm game that you can't win overnight. Am I on the right path to Alpha?

I'd say being alpha is not putting too much stock into the term alpha. The concept that most will immediately assign to it is narrow. If you're a breh it's the mythical Tupac in a business suit, Ghost, some Idris Elba/Shemar Moore clone, etc. If you're white it's Clooney, Efron, Hemsworth dudes, all their heartthrob types. Whoever the Latin heartthhrobs are, etc. But they're them and you're you for a reason, and some of them may not even have women at their feet if they were non-famous, they could be the classically handsome dudes who don't get it so they'd be in this thread sounding how I be sounding. Being the evolved you is all you can control.

Being non-needy comes naturally from having your life full without women. You're doing better than me because you're learning martial arts (I need to learn how to fukk people up) and occasionally entertaining female attention. A lot will also say it also comes from having 4 and 5 women but I personally don't think a man with a full who isn't rich or making money in his sleep isn't successfully entertaining 5 women.

The counter will be you don't have to be fukking all of them but I find that counterintuitive to the true concept of a roster and the learning curve for dudes like us who didn't "get it" with women early and are trying maximize our success now. But that's just me. That also eliminates the "waiting", or at least the micro level, maybe not the macro level of having women ringing off signals to let them in your orbit.

But all of this is in fact a long game, a few will wake up and magically be Don Juan 6 months later but I think that's if they put mental and spiritual energy into the universe that female company is the primary immediate goal. But cna be seasonal. If your energies is going towards self-fulfillment, it's a longer process.

When you say you get in a zone of boredom, is it your own boredom? Or the woman getting bored with you for not chasing her?

 

[Poh SIti Dawn]

Won’t lie brehs this shyt is starting to get to me. Had to move from ATL to south Texas where the quality of women diminished GREATLY. Even had a bad HBCU educated bih ready to lock it down, but I had to move so nothing came of it

I came out here 3 wks ago. Nothing but Mexicans out here. A lot of younger chicks 20 and under, and single mothers. Some of these hoes are 18 w/a 2 yr old kid

Of the ones who aren’tand aren’t built like a sack of potatoes, it’s slim pickings. I did smash one Filipino chick, but still. Mexi brehs real life hit the club in a big ass cowboy hat and boots thinking they’re fly

It’s starting to Fck with my mentalim a military Nikka so I got 3 yrs out here.

Where the black women at

U n the air force? Y not military girls?

 

[Poh SIti Dawn]

The girl who's number I got on Friday I called at 11am. Got no answer. She called me back at 7 said she was at work. We set up a date time on Monday , then spoke on the phone for 40 minutes. Just talking getting to know each other. She's from Nevada and is getting her master's in social care. Seems like a nice girl, maybe a few years older. I thought it was cool we could talk like that and she called me back not texted. I think she's feeling me, got the "glad we could talk, can't wait to see you" spill, etc. Makes me feel good. She's cute from what I remember, intelligent. Mentioned her friend wishing for a baby, and then being pregnant which makes me feel like she wants to have kids. She's spiritual, and I like that she wants to be a social worker, it says a lot about her character and I told her that..

Kinda also glad we haven't fukked yet bc most women I sleep with in the first date..

We're supposed to meet up, I let her pick the venue and she asked if it was cool if she texted me some ideas so I'm like okay.

It sounds like she's interested right brehs?

 

[Straw Hat Luffy]

Ok brehs listen up. Yesterday I was paranoid that some chick I fukked back in August was pregnant. And then it hit me her close friend is pregnant and she most likely just posted pictures of her friends sonogram on SC. And even if her herself is pregnant she sees my snaps all the time she would have told me I was the dad and its been about 5 to 6 months since we saw each other so during all that time she would have told me as well. I used protection and busted in her mouth but even then I was shook that it could be me.

So here is what I learned. That fukking just to get a nut or chasing women just for the fukk of it is out the window
I'm not saying I have to be in a relationship to have sex or anything now. BUT! I have to make sure I'm really feeling her.
The thoughts that went through my mind man. I didn't even like oh girl and when I hung out with her I couldn't stand her. I just got with her cause she was down to fukk. And honestly she was not attractive at all. My entire life could have been thrown down the drain by having a kid with someone I want absolutely nothing to do with.

That putting up with a girls bs attitude or dull personality or stupidity just to hit or lowering your standards just to bust a nut is highly stupid when you realize a baby or std or anything negative can come from it. And its weird that us men do that shyt.

not me anymore

 

[Rev Leon Lonnie Love]

man im out here in these streets just shootin my shot like a prime Kobe. aint no church in the wild, gotta do what u gotta do.

body count already on 1 so far, a younger broad from my hometown who has had a crush on me for years let me hit it on new years. she all grown on up with big tities and ass now. she is told me she has a boyfriend but their relationahip is stale

wanna hit it one more time before I leave next saturday just put my signature on it :wowjb:

Just shot my shot at this other broad who was a grade ahead of me in high school, she's 30 and living her best life and finer than ever. She's back in time for the week and we just set something up to meet on Thursday , hopefully she gives up the draws for ya boy.

she has a boyfriend too, i see that nikka all the time on her facebook


i done told ya'll 2018 bout to be eat good season. my hairline ressurection going well too , no more hatfishing for me

 

[BadBoy]

Where y’all finding these girls cus tinder, bumble, ok Cupid, POF ain’t hitting for me at all like damn i must be ugly as fukk when a 0.5 won’t even let me say hi

 

[Turbulent]

The girl who's number I got on Friday I called at 11am. Got no answer. She called me back at 7 said she was at work. We set up a date time on Monday , then spoke on the phone for 40 minutes. Just talking getting to know each other. She's from Nevada and is getting her master's in social care. Seems like a nice girl, maybe a few years older. I thought it was cool we could talk like that and she called me back not texted. I think she's feeling me, got the "glad we could talk, can't wait to see you" spill, etc. Makes me feel good. She's cute from what I remember, intelligent. Mentioned her friend wishing for a baby, and then being pregnant which makes me feel like she wants to have kids. She's spiritual, and I like that she wants to be a social worker, it says a lot about her character and I told her that..

Kinda also glad we haven't fukked yet bc most women I sleep with in the first date..

We're supposed to meet up, I let her pick the venue and she asked if it was cool if she texted me some ideas so I'm like okay.

It sounds like she's interested right brehs?

Sounds like she's into you. My advice is to not play games with her and dont try to seem cooler or more suave than you are. Play it cool, follow your gut and have fun with the process of getting to know her.

 

[Turbulent]

Ok brehs listen up. Yesterday I was paranoid that some chick I fukked back in August was pregnant. And then it hit me her close friend is pregnant and she most likely just posted pictures of her friends sonogram on SC. And even if her herself is pregnant she sees my snaps all the time she would have told me I was the dad and its been about 5 to 6 months since we saw each other so during all that time she would have told me as well. I used protection and busted in her mouth but even then I was shook that it could be me.

So here is what I learned. That fukking just to get a nut or chasing women just for the fukk of it is out the window
I'm not saying I have to be in a relationship to have sex or anything now. BUT! I have to make sure I'm really feeling her.
The thoughts that went through my mind man. I didn't even like oh girl and when I hung out with her I couldn't stand her. I just got with her cause she was down to fukk. And honestly she was not attractive at all. My entire life could have been thrown down the drain by having a kid with someone I want absolutely nothing to do with.

That putting up with a girls bs attitude or dull personality or stupidity just to hit or lowering your standards just to bust a nut is highly stupid when you realize a baby or std or anything negative can come from it. And its weird that us men do that shyt.

not me anymore

Having a kid by a woman you are not attracted to and can't stand is an eternal L.

 

[Straw Hat Luffy]

Having a kid by a woman you are not attracted to and can't stand is an eternal L.

I was so shook thinking about it. I was lost in thought thinking bout how my family would react. How I'm a broke college student. How I would have to give up shyt I love doing. My freedom n my own life because my life now would be the child's


Then it hit me. We are fukking fools for chasing p*ssy. 90 percent of women dudes talk to we don't even like we just wanna hit it and it's just silly when you think about it
I'm a break it down into details later after I sleep.

 

[HoloGraphic]

I'd say being alpha is not putting too much stock into the term alpha. The concept that most will immediately assign to it is narrow. If you're a breh it's the mythical Tupac in a business suit, Ghost, some Idris Elba/Shemar Moore clone, etc. If you're white it's Clooney, Efron, Hemsworth dudes, all their heartthrob types. Whoever the Latin heartthhrobs are, etc. But they're them and you're you for a reason, and some of them may not even have women at their feet if they were non-famous, they could be the classically handsome dudes who don't get it so they'd be in this thread sounding how I be sounding. Being the evolved you is all you can control.

Being non-needy comes naturally from having your life full without women. You're doing better than me because you're learning martial arts (I need to learn how to fukk people up) and occasionally entertaining female attention. A lot will also say it also comes from having 4 and 5 women but I personally don't think a man with a full who isn't rich or making money in his sleep isn't successfully entertaining 5 women.

The counter will be you don't have to be fukking all of them but I find that counterintuitive to the true concept of a roster and the learning curve for dudes like us who didn't "get it" with women early and are trying maximize our success now. But that's just me. That also eliminates the "waiting", or at least the micro level, maybe not the macro level of having women ringing off signals to let them in your orbit.

But all of this is in fact a long game, a few will wake up and magically be Don Juan 6 months later but I think that's if they put mental and spiritual energy into the universe that female company is the primary immediate goal. But cna be seasonal. If your energies is going towards self-fulfillment, it's a longer process.

When you say you get in a zone of boredom, is it your own boredom? Or the woman getting bored with you for not chasing her?

Boredom being not willing to go through the whole shebang.

I know it's not about one woman. It's better to talk to multiple women. Just the thought of that whole process, going out and finding enough women would irk me.

As of now I'm better. I work in a night club so women are abundant. I'm building relationships with the staff. And a few women outwardly love me.

It's enough for now seeing that i have options and that doors are open. Neediness plummeted. I have many numbers and dates.

Also found a book and video series that is correcting all the pick up bullshyt I learned. It's actually so simple. And i like the approach of getting her to chase you, which bolsters my confidence. Understanding why and how game and women works, also helps alot.

They need to teach this in schools but you can tell society feeds off the ignorance. Blind leading the blind to the poison water.

(Saw a video of a guy asking women in a club how they want to be picked up. One girl immediately said "buy her a drink". What a lost bird this girl is, I thot. Her friend quickly made up for her saying, get to know me.)

And also, maybe the pain and negative experiences are what forces you to learn.

I'm no master, but I see the wheel turning. I talked to a guy at the club and realized he is where i was; seeing through the culture and not wanting to go out. Then i realized the average person learns through experience, instincts, mistakes, from others...I'm blessed to have the state of mind that seeks to learn what I dont know. The knowledge is out there if you look, but the spark of rhe student is truly a blessing.

And its definitely a long term game because I do have goals that I wish to accomplish and the beautiful thing is, that's such a major key in game! It was counter intuitive but I've seen it build attraction and keep me on path as a youth, as well as shut out people I don't need. Now I'm learning to let it all in. Again, its easier than I thought now that I'm learning a man's place and how women respond to the correct male behaviour.

Its so subtle, and requires finesse and patience but it ultimately, automatically works within my parameters, for my life. Which amazes me cause i cant and wont do the shyt ive seen online cause im simply not there yet with my goals.

I know that when i am, I'll be a much different person and I'll have more comfort and freedom to roll like I feel I can. Be a bird out the cage with his wings spread. And the best part is, women key into MY playstyle. (Laidback and longterm.)

Overall I'm alot happier than Ive been in the past...and i say that almost every week. And it keeps getting better.

I love this life brehs.

 

[Poh SIti Dawn]

Sounds like she's into you. My advice is to not play games with her and dont try to seem cooler or more suave than you are. Play it cool, follow your gut and have fun with the process of getting to know her.

Hmm. How do I not play games? Okay.

Yeah you're right. Okay. What is this process of getting to know her? Just being observant of who she is and what she's about? I like that she's socially aware, and mature, I think. Someone to help me grow and stay focused rather than breaking me down