Ok I said I was gonna break down what I was talking about yesterday.
I was shook to oblivion that I got a chick pregnant. And on top of that its a chick I couldn't stand nor found attractive.
My thought process was fukked up the entire weekend until I realized I'm good. I thought about my family being disappointed in me. I thought about how my family supports me in college. How would I support my child? I would have to completely drop out of college and stop chasing my dreams and support my kid. And then I thought about all the silly shyt I do for fun I won't be able to do anymore because I would have to watch a kid. I wouldn't be able to go to school. I would have to move back to my shyt town. I would have to get a shyt job not for myself but all my money would have to go to my child. I wouldn't be able to go out all weekend and party with the boys. I won't be able to go to events that are expensive. And I'd be giving up a lot of shyt I can't even think of right now. And most importantly I would have to see that chick the rest of my life. Some random girl I met off Tinder. Who I plan to never talk to or see ever again after our little encounter. But having a kid could have changed that.
This deep thinking process had my stomach hurting and my chest heavy. I had a major headache. The television was background noise all night while I sat in the dark thinking about my life flashing before my eyes. Typing this now kind of getting me upset.
Then it just hit me, this group, myself, and men in general are fukking stupid. Most of us have it made in this thread. We are either cool ass dudes who have a lot of friends or great life. Some of you dudes are in college like myself. Some of you guys have a great job. And even some of you dudes have a crib all to yourself with a nice car who probably got both Xbox 1 and PS4. No rules, no one bytching at you, you can do whatever you want any time and where when you aren't busy. And the fukked up thing about all of this is we spend most of her time chasing p*ssy, doing things hoping we get p*ssy for it not because we want to, and spend most of our times in threads like these looking for advice on how to deal with women or just straight up get one.
ITS fukkING SILLY. It truly is when you think about it. We risk it all for a few minutes of pleasure with women who most of the time have nothing to offer besides sex or women we don't even like. We let women say shyt that's dumb or shyt that's rude that we would normally correct our own mothers on. Brehs be out here spending a shyt ton of money on a bottle or whatever for a female when they won't even go all out for their own family members that way on christmas or a birthday. Dudes try to lose weight or gain money or skills not for themselves but to impress women.
We do all of this for a few strokes of pleasure that could make your life turn a total 180 if something goes wrong. For example, a kid, a std, a sexual charge, and just straight up drama you might not want in your life. Again as I stated before, I'm not saying you should stop fukking or anything. But please.... please coli brehs stop chasing women because chasing women for pleasure can lead to negative reproductions. You gonna chase and end up finding the devil behind something.
Quit chasing as in quit trying to impress women. Quit trying to act extra for a girl. Don't go all on the deep end trying dating apps, going to places hoping to score, or even having encounters with women hoping something comes out of it and especially quit coming to this thread trying to find new ways or tricks to smash some new p*ssy. Go out and actually have fun in the aspect of just having fun regardless of pulling a female or not. Don't lower your standard for a chick if you have no feelings towards her or do not find her attractive if you know its a easy hit. Do not waste her time either if she has a big plate like dealing with children or some shyt when you just want to fukk and she wants something serious please be straight up.
My best advice is from now on please let shyt be natural for yourself. Talk to women just to talk. I realized all my best encounters with relationships have always been natural when I didn't expect nothing out of it and yet something happens in a poistive way because she likes who you truly are not because you act a certain way someone told you to act to get girls or certain advice you read in a book or on a message board. You will live a long life and no matter who you are someone will like you for being yourself so there is no point of doing all the extra bs. So you don't have to wife up the first chick who really gives u attention or go after the only girl who pays u attention currently because no one else is... Someone else will sooner than later if you just keep acting as yourself and it would be a shame that you finally found a chick you truly like and you're tied down to a chick you met on tinder because you got her prego.
this the motto now boys
i gotta get at her. 
how i go about it though? just some straight up "you gotta boyfriend" type shyt?
the fukk up part is i never do that I always go for the kiss. for some reason i froze
