Boredom being not willing to go through the whole shebang.
I know it's not about one woman. It's better to talk to multiple women. Just the thought of that whole process, going out and finding enough women would irk me.
As of now I'm better. I work in a night club so women are abundant. I'm building relationships with the staff. And a few women outwardly love me.
It's enough for now seeing that i have options and that doors are open. Neediness plummeted. I have many numbers and dates.
Also found a book and video series that is correcting all the pick up bullshyt I learned. It's actually so simple. And i like the approach of getting her to chase you, which bolsters my confidence. Understanding why and how game and women works, also helps alot.
They need to teach this in schools but you can tell society feeds off the ignorance. Blind leading the blind to the poison water.
(Saw a video of a guy asking women in a club how they want to be picked up. One girl immediately said "buy her a drink". What a lost bird this girl is, I thot. Her friend quickly made up for her saying, get to know me.)
And also, maybe the pain and negative experiences are what forces you to learn.
I'm no master, but I see the wheel turning. I talked to a guy at the club and realized he is where i was; seeing through the culture and not wanting to go out. Then i realized the average person learns through experience, instincts, mistakes, from others...I'm blessed to have the state of mind that seeks to learn what I dont know. The knowledge is out there if you look, but the spark of rhe student is truly a blessing.
And its definitely a long term game because I do have goals that I wish to accomplish and the beautiful thing is, that's such a major key in game! It was counter intuitive but I've seen it build attraction and keep me on path as a youth, as well as shut out people I don't need. Now I'm learning to let it all in. Again, its easier than I thought now that I'm learning a man's place and how women respond to the correct male behaviour.
Its so subtle, and requires finesse and patience but it ultimately, automatically works within my parameters, for my life. Which amazes me cause i cant and wont do the shyt ive seen online cause im simply not there yet with my goals.
I know that when i am, I'll be a much different person and I'll have more comfort and freedom to roll like I feel I can. Be a bird out the cage with his wings spread. And the best part is, women key into MY playstyle. (Laidback and longterm.)
Overall I'm alot happier than Ive been in the past...and i say that almost every week. And it keeps getting better.
I love this life brehs.
and I'm already talking to someone else
