Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

BruhMayne

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:wow: i thought i was the only nikka who thought that :myman:
Women would still get what that they want
Real shyt. If there were no pressures dudes would probably still buy the ring, get on bended knee, give her a wedding and everything......



But when its time to sign the license nikkas would be :comeon:
 

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You got to look at yourself as a stock. The higher your value goes, the more she will invest... When your value gets too low, she will dump you off. So you got to make the moves that will make your value increase... even if she chooses to eject, you got another willing buyer ready to come around.

So with that said, keep your value up
1) Stay true to the right values
2) Never allow yourself to be disrespected
3) Don't clown yourself in front of her and turn into 'that goofy guy.'
4) Rarity increases value. Don't be around all the time and never linger too long. When things start lulling, time to jet. Sometimes it's even best to cut things short when things are at the high point. Think about what tv episodes do. They cut at a high point and give you a preview of next time.
5) Stay fly. Get your dress and smell right. Get your talk right.
6) Never try to force compliance. If she's not responsive, don't keep talking and try to rejuvenate things. Get in the wind. Women that feel you will contribute equal if not greater energy.
7) When you got all of this going, ladies may very well get in a bidding war over you, naturally pushing your value even higher.

If you do things to make your stock lower, you will eventually get to a point where she will eject and sell you off. Sticking around too much, being a clown, being thirsty, etc. will lower your value and what's not valuable is discarded. Always keep your worth high.
 

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Women would still get what that they want
Real shyt. If there were no pressures dudes would probably still buy the ring, get on bended knee, give her a wedding and everything......



But when its time to sign the license nikkas would be :comeon:

to be honest i aint even on the whole wedding wave.

Carmelo showed nikkas the way with lala :shaq:
 

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tbh honest i aint even on the whole wedding wave.

Carmelo showed nikkas the way with lala :shaq:

My brother been engaged to his fiance for 4 years

All his friends getting married and he :jawalrus:
 
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You got to look at yourself as a stock. The higher your value goes, the more she will invest... When your value gets too low, she will dump you off. So you got to make the moves that will make your value increase... even if she chooses to eject, you got another willing buyer ready to come around.

So with that said, keep your value up
1) Stay true to the right values
2) Never allow yourself to be disrespected
3) Don't clown yourself in front of her and turn into 'that goofy guy.'
4) Rarity increases value. Don't be around all the time and never linger too long. When things start lulling, time to jet. Sometimes it's even best to cut things short when things are at the high point. Think about what tv episodes do. They cut at a high point and give you a preview of next time.
5) Stay fly. Get your dress and smell right. Get your talk right.
6) Never try to force compliance. If she's not responsive, don't keep talking and try to rejuvenate things. Get in the wind. Women that feel you will contribute equal if not greater energy.
7) When you got all of this going, ladies may very well get in a bidding war over you, naturally pushing your value even higher.

If you do things to make your stock lower, you will eventually get to a point where she will eject and sell you off. Sticking around too much, being a clown, being thirsty, etc. will lower your value and what's not valuable is discarded. Always keep your worth high.



:myman: Good summary of the key points of the thread
 

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Aint NOTHING wrong w being a goofy guy.

Its all presentation and context... But i wouldnt expect a dissertation in a single post.


Shiit is an art but timing and execution are extremely pivotal in effectively carrying this out w positive results. Most, if not all women like a guy whis has a good joke game and can laugh at himself (self deprication but to a degree... You have to mix in some sarcastic arrogance that isnt too brash and overly conceited).

Humor (and dare i say "goof factor") is imperative in making a woman feel comfortable around you.

Its one of the major reaons why she'd like to be around u and be w u.

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real talk, every wedding I've been to since like 2005, all but one couple are divorced. This includes my really good friend and my cousin.

When everybody was getting married, I was sittin back like :to: "what about me?".....now they're getting divorced and I'm sittin back like :leon:

My good friend told me that he wants to thank his ex-wife now for freeing him(she cheated on him) b/c he now realizes that he was unhappy. And they'd been together dating for like 6 years before they got married. Got married and were divorced in a little less than two years.

It's real out here brehs, and these women are playing for keeps and they'll fall in love with some other man on some fairytale stuff they've seen in movies and think they've found "true love".
 

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You got to look at yourself as a stock. The higher your value goes, the more she will invest... When your value gets too low, she will dump you off. So you got to make the moves that will make your value increase... even if she chooses to eject, you got another willing buyer ready to come around.

So with that said, keep your value up
1) Stay true to the right values
2) Never allow yourself to be disrespected
3) Don't clown yourself in front of her and turn into 'that goofy guy.'
4) Rarity increases value. Don't be around all the time and never linger too long. When things start lulling, time to jet. Sometimes it's even best to cut things short when things are at the high point. Think about what tv episodes do. They cut at a high point and give you a preview of next time.
5) Stay fly. Get your dress and smell right. Get your talk right.
6) Never try to force compliance. If she's not responsive, don't keep talking and try to rejuvenate things. Get in the wind. Women that feel you will contribute equal if not greater energy.
7) When you got all of this going, ladies may very well get in a bidding war over you, naturally pushing your value even higher.

If you do things to make your stock lower, you will eventually get to a point where she will eject and sell you off. Sticking around too much, being a clown, being thirsty, etc. will lower your value and what's not valuable is discarded. Always keep your worth high.

Love this. Your girl has GOT TO think your the shyt. The second she doesn't, the relationship is over. This goes well into marraige brehs.
 

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Don't change for any woman, if she doesn't like the way you smell, dress, your car,
Etc.,
Have the testicular fortitude to tell her then leave then.

You know me I'm lazy after work I just want to sit home and relax when college football starts I am not leaving my house on Saturday , no chick comes between me and my love of football.

When you give a woman the opportunity to leave the relationship and she doesn't want to that's when you have control.
 

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Aint NOTHING wrong w being a goofy guy.

Its all presentation and context... But i wouldnt expect a dissertation in a single post.


Shiit is an art but timing and execution are extremely pivotal in effectively carrying this out w positive results. Most, if not all women like a guy whis has a good joke game and can laugh at himself (self deprication but to a degree... You have to mix in some sarcastic arrogance that isnt too brash and overly conceited).

Humor (and dare i say "goof factor") is imperative in making a woman feel comfortable around you.

Its one of the major reaons why she'd like to be around u and be w u.

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I think he meant goofy as in a corny dude that no one laughs at for there jokes. Like theyre laughing at the person not at what they said or did. A women would live a dude who other people think is funny. Even if she doesn't.
 

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Love this. Your girl has GOT TO think your the shyt. The second she doesn't, the relationship is over. This goes well into marraige brehs.

Well damn breh, I must be doing alright :leon:

Gotta text from Shorty pretty much telling me I'm that nikka :win:
 
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