Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[Deathstroke]

fall back completely. Sometimes its the girl and not the dude....and i'll explain what i mean.

Girl A...lowkey, relatively shy, doesn't really party apart from the occasional homegirl birthday, doesn't drink that much, etc.

Girl B...social media feen, parties, drinks alot, out there, has nikkas orbiting her, etc.

Girl A you could take out, have dope conversation and vibe with...and chances are she'll like it and like you in return (provided you ain't socially awkward and look decent/good)

Girl B you can't take out...or if you do, venue choice is extremely limited to either a bar, lounge or something of that nature then back to your place. Reason is, if you take her anywhere else, in her messed up mind she'll think you're boring, want a relationship or something more meaningful/deeper even if you don't and u just tryna smash. Therefore, she'll run away.

In this case, judging by what you described shorty to be like, she deff seems like Girl B. But be aware...sometimes Girl B types like to give off the illusion that they're Girl A...but often times its just a facade and their true persona eventually comes out. It just depends on the nikka and when he brings it out in her.

Reason i say all this is cuz i recently just dealt with this. Girl was type B..albeit to a lesser extent..but still exhibited similar traits (parties, drinks, etc.). Tried to play it off like she was type A and wanted something meaningful...when in my head i was like "who u kidding" and said after telling her i go with the flow and don't go into things with expectations that if that's how she feels and wants, that's cool and we'll go our seperate ways. Sure enough i haven't heard nothing from her.

Screen and then act accordingly breh. That's all.

Really great advice you gave me breh and you were totally right, I didn’t hit her up but I saw a couple videos she posted and not that she’s type B but her mentality is just somewhere else. Sometimes it’s not the dude, it’s the girl brehs.

 

[FakeNews]

My friend told me that this guy keeps asking her out. She keeps telling him yes, but she doesn't intend to date him. Guess shes just fukking around with him. She actually seemed to find it quite funny

Why 29-30 plus year old women continue to play these childish games at that age I will never know and they wonder why they stay single

 

[Turbulent]

Brehs I need help

Met this fly shorty, took her number, texting was straight to the point, asked her out on date, we went to a bar. She does a lot partying, alcohol and shyt but she still got a good head on her shoulders. We had a really good vibe and some nice convos. She had a birthday party to go to afterwards so i helped her pick a gift then we made out for a bit before she left. I know she was def feeling me cause you know I take care of myself lmao. Now usually I do the whole snapchat/ig, texting things to keep up with girls before a next date but shyt didn’t work with her. We snapchatted a bit the next day, she texted me, i replied but she ghosted me after(didn’t reply). I was just laughing to what she said but shiiit. I ain’t the type to force convos so i left it at that. I have no ideas what to do next though. I think I’m just out of my comfort zone because she’s legit a 10 model type girl so I’m thinking too much about this shyt. Should I wait for her to text me or should I hit her up with a plan. What y’all think ?

this is where you messed up.

 

[ZoeGod]

So my roomate is inviting me to his girlfriend b day party in a club in New Jersey. He wants me to go cuz he wants to match me with his girlfriends best friend who is Colombian. She is bad and all. He told she loves black dudes. I told him "what type of black man? ." I dunno brehs imma go and see what she is like. I have no expectations because from the way it looks she might have a rap music fantasy of a black man. I can be hood and professional in different environmentsizes but I think she wants a full 110% hood nikka.

Any tips on how I should go about this. Imma take the advise of not talking too much of myself so I be a mystery, tease her a bit and make the conversation about her mostly. What else am I missing?

 

[360dagod]

So my roomate is inviting me to his girlfriend b day party in a club in New Jersey. He wants me to go cuz he wants to match me with his girlfriends best friend who is Colombian. She is bad and all. He told she loves black dudes. I told him "what type of black man? ." I dunno brehs imma go and see what she is like. I have no expectations because from the way it looks she might have a rap music fantasy of a black man. I can be hood and professional in different environmentsizes but I think she wants a full 110% hood nikka.

Any tips on how I should go about this. Imma take the advise of not talking too much of myself so I be a mystery, tease her a bit and make the conversation about her mostly. What else am I missing?

Women notice subtle things we overlook..
Just by your post, I can sense your already putting yaself behind the 8ball..
And she gonna notice it too

 

[Turbulent]

So my roomate is inviting me to his girlfriend b day party in a club in New Jersey. He wants me to go cuz he wants to match me with his girlfriends best friend who is Colombian. She is bad and all. He told she loves black dudes. I told him "what type of black man? ." I dunno brehs imma go and see what she is like. I have no expectations because from the way it looks she might have a rap music fantasy of a black man. I can be hood and professional in different environmentsizes but I think she wants a full 110% hood nikka.

Any tips on how I should go about this. Imma take the advise of not talking too much of myself so I be a mystery, tease her a bit and make the conversation about her mostly. What else am I missing?

you should go, be yourself and see what she's about. if you're not feeling her, still have fun with no expectations and be open to meet other people there. who cares what she wants. And if your homie is not cool with it then fukk him.

 

[Mister_DoItNice]

My nikka just do your thing. You’re doing all this and you may not even be interested as soon as you meet this shorty or vice versa. Why put so much pressure on yourself. Enjoy the party. That’s it.

 

[Data-Hawk]

Sometimes you have to go through bad things w/ these females to appreciate the positive stuff. I probably could write a book on my dealings w/ the last girl...

Like now I really Appreciate just going home after work and doing real simple things ( watching TV , playing video games w/ my son , Epsom salt baths , going to the gym , reading a book , going to the movies etc) . Simple things we tend to take for granted. But I’m thankful for the experience. Now she has to go to court soon for Assault( and face jail time )on somebody else and I’m the happiest I’ve been in a while .

 

[True Blue Moon]

So my roomate is inviting me to his girlfriend b day party in a club in New Jersey. He wants me to go cuz he wants to match me with his girlfriends best friend who is Colombian. She is bad and all. He told she loves black dudes. I told him "what type of black man? ." I dunno brehs imma go and see what she is like. I have no expectations because from the way it looks she might have a rap music fantasy of a black man. I can be hood and professional in different environmentsizes but I think she wants a full 110% hood nikka.

Any tips on how I should go about this. Imma take the advise of not talking too much of myself so I be a mystery, tease her a bit and make the conversation about her mostly. What else am I missing?

Just go have fun breh. You haven't even said hello to this chick and are already overthinking and over complicating. It's a nightclub birthday party. Fun should be your only priority.

 

[ZoeGod]

Women notice subtle things we overlook..
Just by your post, I can sense your already putting yaself behind the 8ball..
And she gonna notice it too

I hear you bro. But imma go there to just have a good time. I ain't expecting much from the broad anyway. I ain't acting like a scared nikka tho. Imma still see what she is about.

you should go, be yourself and see what she's about. if you're not feeling her, still have fun with no expectations and be open to meet other people there. who cares what she wants. And if your homie is not cool with it then fukk him.

Word bro that is all imma do.

My nikka just do your thing. You’re doing all this and you may not even be interested as soon as you meet this shorty or vice versa. Why put so much pressure on yourself. Enjoy the party. That’s it.

Thanks for the gems. Imma go there to enjoy the party. Plus my homie told me it's a lit club in Jersey. I could care less what that thot think anyway. If she is wack there will be plenty other bytches there.

 

[360dagod]

To the brehs who like to daydream...
Get out of your thoughts..
Keep your brain in the present .
Notice nature,signs,trash,rats,etc..

My point is..

Whatever you are thinking about has the ability to give your face the Do not disturb Sign...

 

[FakeNews]

In terms of dealing with numbers, There may have to be times where you literally have to CALL her, chat it up, set a date and go from there. The Social media game to expanded competition to where shorty is gonna have more options through DMs, inboxes. Back in the day you could leave her your number and its almost a guarantee she'd call you. Its different today because with endless options, UNLESS you have stature or REALLY come through in a short period.. Its gonna be easy for her to forget about your number because a million things be going through a chick's mind and she's easily distracted today.

A dude calling and leaving a message on some real fly shyt would make him stand out. I missed out on a lot of puzzy based off not calling and giving chicks that option when in reality they be waiting on us to make the move. They could be feelin you and still wouldn't call. So I would recommend calling in some cases because these chicks today for the majority are easily distracted hourly.

Good post

But to play devil's advocate on the bold, even in today's gen if you leave your number with a chick. If she truly likes wouldn't she hit you up?

 

[360dagod]

Good post

But to play devil's advocate on the bold, even in today's gen if you leave your number with a chick. If she truly likes wouldn't she hit you up?

these women let their "fears" control their thinking which leads them to rationalize dealing with someone who they might not like as much..

If they take the initiative to text 1st, it's safe to assume they want the D

 

[Goon for hire]

Man brehs, you won't believe what happened to me today.

I was leaving school, and ole girl who I was caught up on and deeply in love with for two months was standing next to my car. She told me she needed to talk to me.

She told me how she broke up with her ex again because she found out he was talking to other girls again, and that he was just using her for a quick nut.

She then told me that she missed "us" (even though she was only using me, also found out she would make jokes about me to her friends) missed our late night conversations, back rubs, and other bullshyt.

I told her I was sorry to hear what happened with her ex, and that I didn't want to be friends with anyone who just wants to use me.
She started saying some other shyt but i told her ididnt want to hear it and that I needed to get home.

Got in my car and dipped after that


Bittersweet for me, I loved her since the day I met her, and was happy she would even talk to me, I propped her up in my mind, had dreams of us being together, and now I realize she's just another basic bird

 

[Lord Bison]

Man brehs, you won't believe what happened to me today.

I was leaving school, and ole girl who I was caught up on and deeply in love with for two months was standing next to my car. She told me she needed to talk to me.

She told me how she broke up with her ex again because she found out he was talking to other girls again, and that he was just using her for a quick nut.

She then told me that she missed "us" (even though she was only using me, also found out she would make jokes about me to her friends) missed our late night conversations, back rubs, and other bullshyt.

I told her I was sorry to hear what happened with her ex, and that I didn't want to be friends with anyone who just wants to use me.
She started saying some other shyt but i told her ididnt want to hear it and that I needed to get home.

Got in my car and dipped after that


Bittersweet for me, I loved her since the day I met her, and was happy she would even talk to me, I propped her up in my mind, had dreams of us being together, and now I realize she's just another basic bird

Good job young breh


The ball is fully in your court. She'll likely serve that p*ssy on a platter if she comes back. You could've angled that to smash and dash her if you really wanted to but instead you chose self respect over puzzy

Not a bad choice. But if she comes back with the p*ssy. Dont say no

Clearly she's hit it and quit it material. Treat her accordingly.