Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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Two ways to get there but they're the same length.

Going to the air force I can become an applied linguist with a bachelor's in it, and then a pilot, knowing all of these languages and even working in other countries while being able to go to school for my service, so this is my option.
I am going to live like I am training for a fight, but I need to focus. And figure out my way in life. Life may come along and be better in the near future which is what worries me, but I wanna show commitment. That's what I'm faced with. But the things that I need to do must be done anyway, thsts where I find my resolve and must muster through them so I will.

I’m in the Air Force. How are you going to go from Linguist to Pilot? One is enlisted and the other is officer. Don’t believe that the transition from E to O is an easy one, regardless of what a recruiter says. Do your research.

And what does this have to do with women? This ain’t your personal blog my nikka.

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I’m in the Air Force. How are you going to go from Linguist to Pilot? One is enlisted and the other is officer. Don’t believe that the transition from E to O is an easy one, regardless of what a recruiter says. Do your research.

And what does this have to do with women? This ain’t your personal blog my nikka.

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You're right lol
 

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I’m in the Air Force. How are you going to go from Linguist to Pilot? One is enlisted and the other is officer. Don’t believe that the transition from E to O is an easy one, regardless of what a recruiter says. Do your research.

And what does this have to do with women? This ain’t your personal blog my nikka.

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I tried telling this nikka that the military aint all roses and a place to “find yourself”. Tried it. Recruiter counts you as a number nothing more and will sell you the world. To a young breh from nothing it sounds dope. Till you get in and realize how insignificant you really are :mjlol:

Military can and will fukk you every op they get. Get in if you have a solid plan and stuff but breh doesnt seem to so in a year we gonna see him crying about how his E4 is a dikk and shyt.


shyt in the coast guard Im pretty sure you couldnt lateral iver to officer until you were E6 so roughly 8-10 minimum. And even then it was easiest to get cwo not like lieutinient etc. so yeah recruiter probs selling him thay good shyt, as per usual
 

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I tried telling this nikka that the military aint all roses and a place to “find yourself”. Tried it. Recruiter counts you as a number nothing more and will sell you the world. To a young breh from nothing it sounds dope. Till you get in and realize how insignificant you really are :mjlol:

Military can and will fukk you every op they get. Get in if you have a solid plan and stuff but breh doesnt seem to so in a year we gonna see him crying about how his E4 is a dikk and shyt.

Real shyt. You have to have a plan. You gotta use them as much as they use you. They taught me a skill that makes me extremely valuable on the civilian side. So when this contract is up, I’m out and getting this bread.

I did mature a lot over the last 8 years I’ve been in though I can’t lie. This shyt definitely isn’t for everyone and I would say keep it moving if you aren’t getting a job that pays 6 figures on the outside.
 

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Real shyt. You have to have a plan. You gotta use them as much as they use you. They taught me a skill that makes me extremely valuable on the civilian side. So when this contract is up, I’m out and getting this bread.

I did mature a lot over the last 8 years I’ve been in though I can’t lie. This shyt definitely isn’t for everyone and I would say keep it moving if you aren’t getting a job that pays 6 figures on the outside.
They roped me into being a boatswain mate so yeah a 27 yr old black kid with a captains licence isnt exactly marketable lol. I matured a lot but I would have matured a lot regardless, thats life. I honestly hated my experience with the military and the whole your just another cog aspect of it. Coast guard was maddening as a black man.
 

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I tried telling this nikka that the military aint all roses and a place to “find yourself”. Tried it. Recruiter counts you as a number nothing more and will sell you the world. To a young breh from nothing it sounds dope. Till you get in and realize how insignificant you really are :mjlol:

Military can and will fukk you every op they get. Get in if you have a solid plan and stuff but breh doesnt seem to so in a year we gonna see him crying about how his E4 is a dikk and shyt.


shyt in the coast guard Im pretty sure you couldnt lateral iver to officer until you were E6 so roughly 8-10 minimum. And even then it was easiest to get cwo not like lieutinient etc. so yeah recruiter probs selling him thay good shyt, as per usual
I don't get it though, if I'm able to start working towards being an officer now and have a plan then how am I wrong. Lmao I feel u tho
 

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I don't get it though, if I'm able to start working towards being an officer now and have a plan then how am I wrong. Lmao I feel u tho
From your posts it seems like you are in a state of flux. The military isnt going to help or fix that itll make it worse before it gets better. i was where you are right now. If I had another chance I would have just went to college for something marketable and said fukk the military. There isnt really a price in sovreignty. But do you man, i hope it works out


Just ask yourself what your really signing your life away for first
 

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From your posts it seems like you are in a state of flux. The military isnt going to help or fix that itll make it worse before it gets better. i was where you are right now. If I had another chance I would have just went to college for something marketable and said fukk the military. There isnt really a price in sovreignty. But do you man, i hope it works out


Just ask yourself what your really signing your life away for first
I think that you have a good point and thank,you for your advice. I guess to answer your question I'm doing it,because I want to become a man. I feel like I'm one yet. Idk if it's bc of my breakup. I live alone got my own place so I think that's the insecurity that's pushing me. Plus I wanna get away from my city and exp something else but idk I've been allover the world and like I said am invited to go to yucatan.

I think I got school and need to find my balance again and keep working for now.

But yeah thank you for the advice
 

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Ex just pissin me off. Making me not want fick her tonight. I dont need your depressin texts rn l. Just lemme workout in peace:what:

I wish this chick can find a new nikka and leave me alone. She told me that we shouldnt be in contact anymore and that was the best week I’ve ever had:gladbron:
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Anytime THIS type of situation happens, just cancel everything you were thinking, mane....clearly, shyt backfired and you just gotta let her think what she's going to think. You never know how a bytch really feels til that block happens. :troll:
 

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Chick kinda curved me this weekend but I ain't trippin, few years ago that shyt woulda had me down in the dumps. We was talking for a bit but I just had to charge it to the game and to the bushes she go I guess. Been lurking this thread for a bit, y'all boys be saying real shyt. I'm just going be doing me right now, college going good, bout to start a new job, planning on going to the gym soon life good :ehh:
 

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In terms of dealing with numbers, There may have to be times where you literally have to CALL her, chat it up, set a date and go from there. The Social media game to expanded competition to where shorty is gonna have more options through DMs, inboxes. Back in the day you could leave her your number and its almost a guarantee she'd call you. Its different today because with endless options, UNLESS you have stature or REALLY come through in a short period.. Its gonna be easy for her to forget about your number because a million things be going through a chick's mind and she's easily distracted today.

A dude calling and leaving a message on some real fly shyt would make him stand out. I missed out on a lot of puzzy based off not calling and giving chicks that option when in reality they be waiting on us to make the move. They could be feelin you and still wouldn't call. So I would recommend calling in some cases because these chicks today for the majority are easily distracted hourly.
 

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Got head from this girl that's in my class twice now.

She down for anything.

But in the back of my head I'm like what if she think this gonna lead to something more when I don't? Like we make no contact or interaction in class. She literally comes over n we get to business.

Like why can't I just enjoy this damn it?
I'm ruining it myself in my mind.
 
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