Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[Mister_DoItNice]

Y’all nikkas in school mad neurotic. Just chill.

 

[Shadow King]

Got head from this girl that's in my class twice now.

She down for anything.

But in the back of my head I'm like what if she think this gonna lead to something more when I don't? Like we make no contact or interaction in class. She literally comes over n we get to business.

Like why can't I just enjoy this damn it?
I'm ruining it myself in my mind.

Because you know that's how it ends. Luxurious problem to have though

 

[Deathstroke]

Brehs I need help

Met this fly shorty, took her number, texting was straight to the point, asked her out on date, we went to a bar. She does a lot partying, alcohol and shyt but she still got a good head on her shoulders. We had a really good vibe and some nice convos. She had a birthday party to go to afterwards so i helped her pick a gift then we made out for a bit before she left. I know she was def feeling me cause you know I take care of myself lmao. Now usually I do the whole snapchat/ig, texting things to keep up with girls before a next date but shyt didn’t work with her. We snapchatted a bit the next day, she texted me, i replied but she ghosted me after(didn’t reply). I was just laughing to what she said but shiiit. I ain’t the type to force convos so i left it at that. I have no ideas what to do next though. I think I’m just out of my comfort zone because she’s legit a 10 model type girl so I’m thinking too much about this shyt. Should I wait for her to text me or should I hit her up with a plan. What y’all think ?

 

[Bald Head Ba$tard]

In terms of dealing with numbers, There may have to be times where you literally have to CALL her, chat it up, set a date and go from there. The Social media game to expanded competition to where shorty is gonna have more options through DMs, inboxes. Back in the day you could leave her your number and its almost a guarantee she'd call you. Its different today because with endless options, UNLESS you have stature or REALLY come through in a short period.. Its gonna be easy for her to forget about your number because a million things be going through a chick's mind and she's easily distracted today.

A dude calling and leaving a message on some real fly shyt would make him stand out. I missed out on a lot of puzzy based off not calling and giving chicks that option when in reality they be waiting on us to make the move. They could be feelin you and still wouldn't call. So I would recommend calling in some cases because these chicks today for the majority are easily distracted hourly.

THIS MANE JUST SPOKE FACTS.

 

[RealAssanova]

Brehs I need help

Met this fly shorty, took her number, texting was straight to the point, asked her out on date, we went to a bar. She does a lot partying, alcohol and shyt but she still got a good head on her shoulders. We had a really good vibe and some nice convos. She had a birthday party to go to afterwards so i helped her pick a gift then we made out for a bit before she left. I know she was def feeling me cause you know I take care of myself lmao. Now usually I do the whole snapchat/ig, texting things to keep up with girls before a next date but shyt didn’t work with her. We snapchatted a bit the next day, she texted me, i replied but she ghosted me after(didn’t reply). I was just laughing to what she said but shiiit. I ain’t the type to force convos so i left it at that. I have no ideas what to do next though. I think I’m just out of my comfort zone because she’s legit a 10 model type girl so I’m thinking too much about this shyt. Should I wait for her to text me or should I hit her up with a plan. What y’all think ?

fall back completely. Sometimes its the girl and not the dude....and i'll explain what i mean.

Girl A...lowkey, relatively shy, doesn't really party apart from the occasional homegirl birthday, doesn't drink that much, etc.

Girl B...social media feen, parties, drinks alot, out there, has nikkas orbiting her, etc.

Girl A you could take out, have dope conversation and vibe with...and chances are she'll like it and like you in return (provided you ain't socially awkward and look decent/good)

Girl B you can't take out...or if you do, venue choice is extremely limited to either a bar, lounge or something of that nature then back to your place. Reason is, if you take her anywhere else, in her messed up mind she'll think you're boring, want a relationship or something more meaningful/deeper even if you don't and u just tryna smash. Therefore, she'll run away.

In this case, judging by what you described shorty to be like, she deff seems like Girl B. But be aware...sometimes Girl B types like to give off the illusion that they're Girl A...but often times its just a facade and their true persona eventually comes out. It just depends on the nikka and when he brings it out in her.

Reason i say all this is cuz i recently just dealt with this. Girl was type B..albeit to a lesser extent..but still exhibited similar traits (parties, drinks, etc.). Tried to play it off like she was type A and wanted something meaningful...when in my head i was like "who u kidding" and said after telling her i go with the flow and don't go into things with expectations that if that's how she feels and wants, that's cool and we'll go our seperate ways. Sure enough i haven't heard nothing from her.

Screen and then act accordingly breh. That's all.

 

[John Reena]

Brehs I need help

Met this fly shorty, took her number, texting was straight to the point, asked her out on date, we went to a bar. She does a lot partying, alcohol and shyt but she still got a good head on her shoulders. We had a really good vibe and some nice convos. She had a birthday party to go to afterwards so i helped her pick a gift then we made out for a bit before she left. I know she was def feeling me cause you know I take care of myself lmao. Now usually I do the whole snapchat/ig, texting things to keep up with girls before a next date but shyt didn’t work with her. We snapchatted a bit the next day, she texted me, i replied but she ghosted me after(didn’t reply). I was just laughing to what she said but shiiit. I ain’t the type to force convos so i left it at that. I have no ideas what to do next though. I think I’m just out of my comfort zone because she’s legit a 10 model type girl so I’m thinking too much about this shyt. Should I wait for her to text me or should I hit her up with a plan. What y’all think ?

Wit drop dead gorgeous chicks, u gotta show em from jump that u ain't taking they bullshyt. Treat her like she should be HONORED to be talking to you. Don't hit her spoiled ass up until she hit YOU back. They used to nikkaz kissing they ass n chasing em.

 

[John Reena]

Yeah anytime u dealing wit a certified 10. U gotta turn into da coldest Mack on planet Earth. Go listen to Oran Juice Jones classic "In The Rain".



Remember that part when he told Ol girl "U without me, is like cornflakes wit out da milk!!!!"

THATS how u should be when u deal with a drop dead gorgeous chick!!!!!

 

[twan83]

Brehs I need help

Met this fly shorty, took her number, texting was straight to the point, asked her out on date, we went to a bar. She does a lot partying, alcohol and shyt but she still got a good head on her shoulders. We had a really good vibe and some nice convos. She had a birthday party to go to afterwards so i helped her pick a gift then we made out for a bit before she left. I know she was def feeling me cause you know I take care of myself lmao. Now usually I do the whole snapchat/ig, texting things to keep up with girls before a next date but shyt didn’t work with her. We snapchatted a bit the next day, she texted me, i replied but she ghosted me after(didn’t reply). I was just laughing to what she said but shiiit. I ain’t the type to force convos so i left it at that. I have no ideas what to do next though. I think I’m just out of my comfort zone because she’s legit a 10 model type girl so I’m thinking too much about this shyt. Should I wait for her to text me or should I hit her up with a plan. What y’all think ?

I don’t agree that u should treat a dime diff than any other girls just cuz of her looks and shyt
I treat all females the same
Only time u treat any female diff is how they act toward u not cuz of their looks breh keep the shyt simple
It’s a damn privilege to be with your boy
Y should u go even harder cuz she look good that’s dumb
Don’t reply to her if she ghost fukk her if she feeling u she will reply back properly
And if she does reply back eventually she should be hit and quit status for the disrespect until she proves otherwise she ain’t shyt

I’ve dealt with a lot of 10s treated them same way as average females with my no fukks given outlook

Dont let a good looking women be something she isn’t superior
When u wrote she drinks and parties a lot that too me is a negative cuz let’s say it got serious
Do u want a girl who always drinks and goes out all the damn time hell no imo
She just enjoying life the way I take it not ready for anything serious

 

[TRUEST]

Real life facts. She already made it clear that we can’t be friends if I have no intention of dating her, so I don’t see what else is there to discuss. She’s not going to convince me to date her

this is an irrational justification of your behavior. hope you feel the same way when a chick you really like treats you just like u treated ol girl.

 

[Lord Bison]

this is an irrational justification of your behavior. hope you feel the same way when a chick you really like treats you just like u treated ol girl.

But if he continues to smash or even keep her around in some capacity knowing how she feels, would'nt that be worse cause he'd be stringing her along?

Wouldnt it be easier to rip the band aid off now so she can have emotional room for someone else to fill that gap?

 

[TRUEST]

But if he continues to smash or even keep her around in some capacity knowing how she feels, would'nt that be worse cause he'd be stringing her along?

Wouldnt it be easier to rip the band aid off now so she can have emotional room for someone else to fill that gap?

Breh every man in here knows from the first or second time with a chick whether or not he really likes her.

I’ve learned to dip early on chicks I know will end up liking me more than I like them.

If u know a chick is digging u more u digging her and u have no real plans for her, why let sh1t continue to progress? Dude strung her along long enough and now wants to run away after sh1t got real. That’s a punk move. And it’s dishonorable.

Dudes go to church every week but their hearts are filled with evil. How do u not put up urself in her shoes and try to emphatize. There’s a humane way to break up with a chick that did u no wrong.

 

[Lord Bison]

Breh every man in here knows from the first or second time with a chick whether or not he really likes her.

I’ve learned to dip early on chicks I know will end up liking me more than I like them.

If u know a chick is digging u more u digging her and u have no real plans for her, why let sh1t continue to progress? Dude strung her along long enough and now wants to run away after sh1t got real. That’s a punk move. And it’s dishonorable.

Dudes go to church every week but their hearts are filled with evil. How do u not put up urself in her shoes and try to emphatize. There’s a humane way to break up with a chick that did u no wrong.

I need to go back and re-read that. If they've been talking for a few months than yeah I feel you on that. But women do this to men all the time just to keep a nikka around for attention but don't ever planning on moving things forward. Even if the dude is genuinely interested and not trying to smash and dash. Usually if a chick is trying to cuff me up I usually bail early because delaying the inevitable will just cause more problems when you do decide to break her hearth.

I try to put myself in the woman's shoes and empathize but then I'm reminded of the times when they've been on some type shyt which makes me in turn be on some just to protect myself.

Doing the honorable thing is good mark of character but not a requirement because the dating game is that ruthless these days.

 

[Atlrocafella]

this is an irrational justification of your behavior. hope you feel the same way when a chick you really like treats you just like u treated ol girl.

I’m totally justified in my behavior. She’s asking me why I don’t love her back. Like wtf? You can’t force someone to love you back. She knew what we were from the beginning and decided to switch up on me and expect me to accept a new relationship with her or cease being friends with her. fukk that.

 

[Atlrocafella]

Breh every man in here knows from the first or second time with a chick whether or not he really likes her.

I’ve learned to dip early on chicks I know will end up liking me more than I like them.

If u know a chick is digging u more u digging her and u have no real plans for her, why let sh1t continue to progress? Dude strung her along long enough and now wants to run away after sh1t got real. That’s a punk move. And it’s dishonorable.

Dudes go to church every week but their hearts are filled with evil. How do u not put up urself in her shoes and try to emphatize. There’s a humane way to break up with a chick that did u no wrong.

I knew she probably liked me a little more than she stated, but she always made it clear that she understood we are just friends and kicking it. She ALWAYS knew what our status was, i didn’t string her along for shyt. Didn’t take her out on dates, didn’t feed her, just casual conversations And she only came through when she wanted to fukk. I didn’t play her, she played herself, So what the fukk are you talking about?

 

[TRUEST]

I need to go back and re-read that. If they've been talking for a few months than yeah I feel you on that. But women do this to men all the time just to keep a nikka around for attention but don't ever planning on moving things forward. Even if the dude is genuinely interested and not trying to smash and dash. Usually if a chick is trying to cuff me up I usually bail early because delaying the inevitable will just cause more problems when you do decide to break her hearth.

I try to put myself in the woman's shoes and empathize but then I'm reminded of the times when they've been on some type shyt which makes me in turn be on some just to protect myself.

Doing the honorable thing is good mark of character but not a requirement because the dating game is that ruthless these days.

I’m all for vengeance. What ol boy atl did would be sweet justice if it was done to a chick who deserves it. I get that women play men. If u come across a chick who has a history of being like this then show no remorse. I’m just not for being a d1ck to those who ain’t did u wrong. A girl asks why don’t u love me? Hun, that’s a question that should never be asked. You’re not the one for me. Let’s just leave it at that.