Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

Straw Hat Luffy

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Why do I always imagine that I have this innocence label on me? Like whenever I do sexual stuff with a chick the next day or so I feel like damn I shouldn't have done that. Why can't I enjoy getting it on without any backlash in my mind towards my self
Any one experience this?
 
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Why do I always imagine that I have this innocence label on me? Like whenever I do sexual stuff with a chick the next day or so I feel like damn I shouldn't have done that. Why can't I enjoy getting it on without any backlash in my mind towards my self
Any one experience this?

Social programming and conditioning.
Also i have to ask; are you fukking bytches in the ear??? Lol.
 

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You made it sound like you're doing some depraved shyt that youre ashamed of breh.

oh nah i just be getting topped off and dikking down girls on my couch.

I just get this taboo feeling after every time like I shouldn't be doing this. When in reality I'm young and single so I should be out here enjoying it.
But then I turn around like :mjcry:


Basically I never fully enjoy smashing to the fullest extent because my mind has to throw a wrench in it instead of being proud that i actually talked to females in person no online shyt, invite them over, make a move and it works.

now im like this girl in my class.... what if she catches feelings..... i don't want to be the dikk that doesn't talk to her after this semester.... but then again i dont want to talk to her after this semester.....


basically shyt like that makes me never enjoy the ride :russ:
 

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oh nah i just be getting topped off and dikking down girls on my couch.

I just get this taboo feeling after every time like I shouldn't be doing this. When in reality I'm young and single so I should be out here enjoying it.
But then I turn around like :mjcry:


Basically I never fully enjoy smashing to the fullest extent because my mind has to throw a wrench in it instead of being proud that i actually talked to females in person no online shyt, invite them over, make a move and it works.

now im like this girl in my class.... what if she catches feelings..... i don't want to be the dikk that doesn't talk to her after this semester.... but then again i dont want to talk to her after this semester.....


basically shyt like that makes me never enjoy the ride :russ:
It’s slight regret probably. I feel the same way. And it’s ironic cause you’ll feel that way and you’ll still just go fukk someone anyway, you know before hand you’re orobably gonna feel like that but the moment happens and you’re like fukk that.
Although maybe you need to switch up the type of girls you talk to? Sometimes the type of girls you fukk may just throw your mind off and your intuition makes you think about exactly what you’re doing with yourself......in her.
 

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It’s slight regret probably. I feel the same way. And it’s ironic cause you’ll feel that way and you’ll still just go fukk someone anyway, you know before hand you’re orobably gonna feel like that but the moment happens and you’re like fukk that.
Although maybe you need to switch up the type of girls you talk to? Sometimes the type of girls you fukk may just throw your mind off and your intuition makes you think about exactly what you’re doing with yourself......in her.

Actually think you hit it on the nail. Last few chicks I smashed I didn't even think they were attractive really. I'm just like shes got a nice rack and she's down.
I never have any emotions to these chicks. I get tipsy or something than invite them over around midnight and get to business.
I feel bad a lot after though. I think I'm afraid to look or be some dikk but I always let them know its just fukking and nothing more. But at the same time I always hear its different from when a guy is down to fukk compared to when a girl is down to fukk. Like a dude would fukk anything. I hear the girl has to like you in some way. So I guess I can feel that these girls might actually like me? Like this girl I'm smashing now always posting to me snap stories which makes it seem like she wants me to message her or some shyt. Like I'm good on that lmfao. Then I guess its the factor of me not wanting them because I feel like I should be smashing dimes at the moment. But it comes back to the girls just being down to smash so I'm like fukk it she not attractive but her head game fire.

Someone else said socially programmed. Because I remember always saying when I was younger I'd smash some chicks on the low and not even care. but now I do this shyt and bad thoughts weigh my mind after like come on man what am I doing lmao.

I remember I was smashing this one girl :mjlol::hhh: coli and friends would laugh at me if they seen this chick.
But she kept snapping me in her pictures catching me off guard. cut her off quick :hubie:
 

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Actually think you hit it on the nail. Last few chicks I smashed I didn't even think they were attractive really. I'm just like shes got a nice rack and she's down.
I never have any emotions to these chicks. I get tipsy or something than invite them over around midnight and get to business.
I feel bad a lot after though. I think I'm afraid to look or be some dikk but I always let them know its just fukking and nothing more. But at the same time I always hear its different from when a guy is down to fukk compared to when a girl is down to fukk. Like a dude would fukk anything. I hear the girl has to like you in some way. So I guess I can feel that these girls might actually like me? Like this girl I'm smashing now always posting to me snap stories which makes it seem like she wants me to message her or some shyt. Like I'm good on that lmfao. Then I guess its the factor of me not wanting them because I feel like I should be smashing dimes at the moment. But it comes back to the girls just being down to smash so I'm like fukk it she not attractive but her head game fire.

Someone else said socially programmed. Because I remember always saying when I was younger I'd smash some chicks on the low and not even care. but now I do this shyt and bad thoughts weigh my mind after like come on man what am I doing lmao.

I remember I was smashing this one girl :mjlol::hhh: coli and friends would laugh at me if they seen this chick.
But she kept snapping me in her pictures catching me off guard. cut her off quick :hubie:
You hit some nails back, they actually do like you most of the time you smash. They want you enough to have sex so its pretty much certain they'll want your attention, or your mind, your freaking clothes your space, you know women really do just be wanting more. You're only practicing proper self-preservation because as pleasurable as sex can be it still is pretty dangerous in different ways so for you to think like that is you checking yourself to make sure you dont jump off the deep in and just fukk with 0 abandon. I have a cousin and he just fukks on anything, you can tell he dont feel bad about any chick he smash, and unlike us he enjoys it 100% cause he would just bust in bytches raw, but he has 3 kids and fukked his life up. If he had the conciious to at least think about his actions, he'd probably smash better. I fukked this chick just cause she had a big ass and i didn't even feel it, damn near feel like she was just a fleshlight, now i know I wont smash her again, but i will take what i like in her (ass, supportive nature, downess) into another chick and smash, maybe the cycle continues or you fukk around and get with someone that gives you an experience.
 

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the affect giving a girl some good sex will have on them is powerful brehs. Use accordingly :mjlol:

went from so so, to now completely into me after. If you don't actually want a girl around you get your nut, nothing else lol. With all the drugged up flabby and sick nikkas running around if you in shape and can put it down you at a premium.
 

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You hit some nails back, they actually do like you most of the time you smash. They want you enough to have sex so its pretty much certain they'll want your attention, or your mind, your freaking clothes your space, you know women really do just be wanting more. You're only practicing proper self-preservation because as pleasurable as sex can be it still is pretty dangerous in different ways so for you to think like that is you checking yourself to make sure you dont jump off the deep in and just fukk with 0 abandon. I have a cousin and he just fukks on anything, you can tell he dont feel bad about any chick he smash, and unlike us he enjoys it 100% cause he would just bust in bytches raw, but he has 3 kids and fukked his life up. If he had the conciious to at least think about his actions, he'd probably smash better. I fukked this chick just cause she had a big ass and i didn't even feel it, damn near feel like she was just a fleshlight, now i know I wont smash her again, but i will take what i like in her (ass, supportive nature, downess) into another chick and smash, maybe the cycle continues or you fukk around and get with someone that gives you an experience.
Yeah its like my logic is "shes letting me smash so she must really like me." And it feels like I'm taking advantage of that lmao.
Say I keep smashing her then I actually meet a girl I actually like so much I get into a relationship with. Even though I made it clear we just fukking. Eventually when I move on in her mind its going to be programmed to think something is wrong with her as a person or at least I know she will feel horrible about herself.
The only winning situation is for me to not give a fukk at all. Which in my opinion is bogus itself. But its still at the end of the day I let her know right off the bat. 1. I don't want a relationship 2. we just fukk buddies nothing else.

and oh for sure. Even though I'm down for the action don't mean I'm wrecklas like your dude. I'm safe and cautious af.
I remember being a kid saying raw dog is life joking about it and telling myself once I start getting girls I won't give a fukk I'll be the pull out king.
But as I get more older and became more educated also aware how easily shyt can go south. Sex is a risky thing to do.
 

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Welp no luck with these hoes out here. Told one girl I'm wasting my time talking to her cause she doesn't want to have sex. She said she not in a relationship so she is not going to have sex. I know it's another lie women tell men they are not interested in. I got 3 other number but 1 reply back but nothing came outta it. Maybe tomorrow, next week, next month or next year I'll meet a chick that's not on some bullshyt lying or trying to find a way to have me spend cash on her while she doesn't return the favor. (No simping here I'm not paying on no date we go half)
 
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