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I read in here that when a girl is really feeling you though they go out of their way to initiate conversation.

I am the one initiating all conversations.....after I start conversations though she will talk and be open with me, but it just seems she is waiting for me to initiate everything
All girls are different, but it's in their nature to be more passive than us. A girl will get mad that you didn't approach, swearing that she approached you first just by making a face or offering a half-smile.

They're not used to leading the charge.

Even if you're hitting her up more often, as long as she's showing you equal and greater energy back, don't sweat it. It's too soon to have any expectations at all, so ride that wave of energy to see where it goes.

Better yet, LEAD that wave of energy.

Check yourself if you're overpursuing her, but if not, let it ride.
 

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On a side note. When you plan a date with a chick and she says you decide what we do. How you feel?

Me I get a lil annoyed because what I want to do is not social at all :mjlol:
Dinner & Drinks is always my first option. High transition rate:shaq:
 

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I need to head up to campus, being cooped up in a trailer with dudes all day is the WORST :dame:
 

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This might sound unrelated, but brehs, eat your green vegetables.

I'm not gonna debate which diet or lifestyle is best, but I think we all know the standard American diet doesn't have us eating enough vegetables.

Lately I've been focusing on making greens the focus of my diet, while mixing in healthy fats and meats. I make it easy for myself by stuffing handfuls of kale, spinach, and arugula into my Nutri Ninja, mixed with frozen berries, banana and avocado and am walking around feeling like the GOAT :wow:

It sharpens your mind so that you don't rely on lines and shyt. You're gonna have clean thoughts to find the perfect words when teasing a chick or when she's testing you.

It also makes my erections crazy :wow:

I'm realizing more and more that everything is everything. Being healthier mentally and physically will help me push myself to make more money, which gives me more breathing room for my actual dreams, which helps me stay confident and happy, which helps me start the whole cycle all over again.

I'm trying to take my lady to the Motherland and on yacht trips in places I can't pronounce :wow:

I want a milli in the bank before I have my first seed :wow:

I wanna be 50+ with chicks still twirling their hair and having to get their shyt together in my presence :wow:

So fukk doing something because it's a fad or to be hard on yourself to feel like you're making changes. Do it because it makes you better as a creator and a god on this planet.

Let's live life like kings.
 

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I was chopping it up with this chick then proceeded to ask her what’s her number so I can call you sometime..........she responds by saying:

“Not, may I have your number or is it okay if we exchange numbers?”

Then says: “I’m sorry, I’m not trying to give you a hard time, but there is a difference between asking & telling.”

I’m getting a feeling that I have to ask for permission to get the number :francis:

Chime on this brehs..
Was this face to face or online? Online I would've probably left that on read. Face to face I would've joked, "This is all complicated ways of you saying yes" or something...IF I had any speed in that moment. 99% of the time I don't.
 

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Be careful with that or else it will be half a milli or less by the time she's done with you. :ufdup:


Choose wisely and don't go all in until you're thoroughly convinced that she wants you for you and not your bank account. :ld:
Nah, I'm married breh. She's been building with me since the starve days, so I'm trying to cash in on this promise and show both of us a new world :wow:
 

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women in toronto are the absolute flimsiest when it comes to meeting them or any kind of plans

im gonna start flipping the script on a lot of these hoes and ask them on the first date "what are your intentions because I dont like my time wasted" because in reality i really dont have time to waste on them
 

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So I had sex with one girl over the weekend and I saw her again. She said she didn't want to have sex with me again after pulling my dikk out, etc. From what I gathered she's been hurt in the past and doesn't trust men. I get it. I didn't pressure sex.

I've been dating other women and doing my birthday thing. She wanted to see me again but I've been doing other stuff and wanted to see her on my own time. Fast forward to the past two days of her blowing up my phone, texting me calling me a narcissist, selfish a$$hole and intentionally hurting women :whoa:

She wanted sex, I wanted sex. She was actually more sexual during our first date than I was so we did it.

She wants to know if we are not talking and instead of ghosting explain why she is "good enough to fukk / be a friend" but not relationship material. Frankly there's some lifestyle stuff. She mentioned she was an atheist and that probably wouldn't mesh with my family.

Also her tactics to getting her way remind me of my ex who used emotional blackmail. I don't do good with that shyt. She seems like a decent girl overall, but her blow up on me is not cool at all.



Oh and I've been dating another girl and I just found out she still lives with her ex :mindblown: who is apparently moving out in a month. We made out several times and I bumped into her downtown. We had breakfast in the morning and she told me all of this. We were supposed to go putt putt together but we didn't.

She hit me up with a text "I think you're a great, genuine guy, but I want to be honest; I don't think this is gonna work out for us.". I can't be too upset. I liked her but the bombshell about her and her ex living together, oh and breaking up only two months ago mind you, I know she isn't ready for anything between us.

Maybe I can turn it around and get her out one more time though who knows.
 

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See my post above I hate women like that (we didn't have sex but did basically everything else).

I hate after the fact women, when I was all over her she was telling me don't stop how it feels amazingz next day :hubie:



So I had sex with one girl over the weekend and I saw her again. She said she didn't want to have sex with me again after pulling my dikk out, etc. From what I gathered she's been hurt in the past and doesn't trust men. I get it. I didn't pressure sex.

I've been dating other women and doing my birthday thing. She wanted to see me again but I've been doing other stuff and wanted to see her on my own time. Fast forward to the past two days of her blowing up my phone, texting me calling me a narcissist, selfish a$$hole and intentionally hurting women :whoa:

She wanted sex, I wanted sex. She was actually more sexual during our first date than I was so we did it.

She wants to know if we are not talking and instead of ghosting explain why she is "good enough to fukk / be a friend" but not relationship material. Frankly there's some lifestyle stuff. She mentioned she was an atheist and that probably wouldn't mesh with my family.

Also her tactics to getting her way remind me of my ex who used emotional blackmail. I don't do good with that shyt. She seems like a decent girl overall, but her blow up on me is not cool at all.



Oh and I've been dating another girl and I just found out she still lives with her ex :mindblown: who is apparently moving out in a month. We made out several times and I bumped into her downtown. We had breakfast in the morning and she told me all of this. We were supposed to go putt putt together but we didn't.

She hit me up with a text "I think you're a great, genuine guy, but I want to be honest; I don't think this is gonna work out for us.". I can't be too upset. I liked her but the bombshell about her and her ex living together, oh and breaking up only two months ago mind you, I know she isn't ready for anything between us.

Maybe I can turn it around and get her out one more time though who knows.
 
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