Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women
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Mountain
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That's "topaz" from sohh
MY ADVICE ON WOMEN...DON'T BE A SIMP LIKE HOGAN AND LOSE ALL YOUR MONEY TO YOUR EX-HO...WOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO
Captain Crunch
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If there's 3 things to take away from the Black Phillip show its these:
1. Men have to be RIGHTEOUS.
This lends itself to having confidence, but emphasizes that it be TRUE. Basically not talking about it but being about it. When it comes to relationships, you can't go around trying to lay down rules without being able to back it up. If your girl gets out of line and you promise punishment, but don't follow through, the games over brehs.
2. It's ALWAYS your fault.
We as the men are to be the head of the relationship. EVERYTHING trickles down from us. If your girl does some fukked up shyt, only person you can blame is yourself because you allowed it to happen. Women will naturally do shyt to see what type of man you are, its up to you to step up and be the man she needs you to be. Women can't help it, its biological. (Also to dude who said that this advice isn't for people in long relationships, he couldn't be more wrong, you will ALWAYS have to game your s/o. It's not a battle, its WAR)
3. Be prepared to take the L.
Like it's been said here before, your girl needs to know that you have no problem taking your ball and going home. There needs to be boundaries set, and she needs to know that there are consequences to crossing these boundaries. I don't sell my girl dreams, we are not together because of a magical connection or fate. I DECIDED to be with her and to put the work into the relationship, and I can just as easily DECIDE to part ways. While I love her, my happiness is SUPREME, and if her love ever gets in the way of my happiness, actions will be taken.
1. Men have to be RIGHTEOUS.
This lends itself to having confidence, but emphasizes that it be TRUE. Basically not talking about it but being about it. When it comes to relationships, you can't go around trying to lay down rules without being able to back it up. If your girl gets out of line and you promise punishment, but don't follow through, the games over brehs.
2. It's ALWAYS your fault.
We as the men are to be the head of the relationship. EVERYTHING trickles down from us. If your girl does some fukked up shyt, only person you can blame is yourself because you allowed it to happen. Women will naturally do shyt to see what type of man you are, its up to you to step up and be the man she needs you to be. Women can't help it, its biological. (Also to dude who said that this advice isn't for people in long relationships, he couldn't be more wrong, you will ALWAYS have to game your s/o. It's not a battle, its WAR)
3. Be prepared to take the L.
Like it's been said here before, your girl needs to know that you have no problem taking your ball and going home. There needs to be boundaries set, and she needs to know that there are consequences to crossing these boundaries. I don't sell my girl dreams, we are not together because of a magical connection or fate. I DECIDED to be with her and to put the work into the relationship, and I can just as easily DECIDE to part ways. While I love her, my happiness is SUPREME, and if her love ever gets in the way of my happiness, actions will be taken.
Nintendough
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If you give them too much attention when they are out of pocket, they will think its cute and do it more often.
martin payne
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great thread, some real knowledge being kicked around
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Surprisingly a female was the one that put me on to this. There was this broad I was close to simping over that was acting funny style. I came mad close to violating all types of playa laws and my home girl was like if you do that, you'll be rewarding her for her fukked up behaviour.
That shyt had me like
coli-solider
Rookie
Nintendough
#Kliq
Surprisingly a female was the one that put me on to this. There was this broad I was close to simping over that was acting funny style. I came mad close to violating all types of playa laws and my home girl was like if you do that, you'll be rewarding her for her fukked up behaviour.
That shyt had me like
Yeah, they love the attention. I had to learn the hard way before learning to just brush the antics off. When you give them the
, they can't do anything but chill.
Let me reiterate this shyt NEVER let a chick move in your shyt or co-habit with her. I don't care if you think you love her or yall are perfect for each other or none of that don't do it. If you're married this doesn't apply but not married means she needs her own shyt.
Matter of fact don't get married period. Marriage is society's trap for a man. It's a woman's con game males are pressured into that traps them and ruins their lives.
Matter of fact don't get married period. Marriage is society's trap for a man. It's a woman's con game males are pressured into that traps them and ruins their lives.
I aint even anti marriage but I thought about this alot. Its alotta dudes thats married, but I think if it wasnt for society/family/ and their woman's pressures that 80% would have never signed marriage papers. They would have just been with her if thats who they wanted to be with, but wouldnt need a contract to feel their relationship was solidified
T-K-G
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i thought i was the only nikka who thought that 
Rocket Scientist
Superstar
Sad thing is bruh........we want kids and we also dont wanna be the old guy in the club 
.Gettin married is a gamble for us.Word of advice the older and mature you are go for it.Im leaving age out of it you will KNOW when you want it. You have to be financially mature,mentally,physically,emotionally and spiritually mature to deal with your wife and her "stuff". Plus when you have kids....you as a man are on the backburner.Best believe those kids come 1st and your wife needs and wants 2nd and YOU 3rd.Thats how it is . Like Chris Rock says "All Daddy gets big piece of chicken "
You want children=Get married have them, or pay child support
.Gettin married is a gamble for us.Word of advice the older and mature you are go for it.Im leaving age out of it you will KNOW when you want it. You have to be financially mature,mentally,physically,emotionally and spiritually mature to deal with your wife and her "stuff". Plus when you have kids....you as a man are on the backburner.Best believe those kids come 1st and your wife needs and wants 2nd and YOU 3rd.Thats how it is . Like Chris Rock says "All Daddy gets big piece of chicken "You want children=Get married have them, or pay child support