Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[Rominati]

. How many nikkas play a video game like God of War and beat it so simply that it just collects dust and you dont even bother playing part two. Games like GTA have you begging for the next chapter though. Even when you come across the most bullshyt missions you feel so compelled to beat them cause you cant wait to see whats next.

shyt when I beat the Miami Heat in NBA 2K11 on Hall of Fame difficulty and I was like
had me anxious to see if I could finally beat the Lakers next.

 

[Ohene]

I'm reading all these posts about women and what not and as a women myself I have a few concerns. It's seems like guys follow this "code" on dealing with females but how are I supposed to know when a man is really into you? Because clearly u can't go by what he says if its just all apart of the game and he isn't supposed to REALLY tell u how he feels it's all so confusing

late reply but I hope you read this message.

It doesnt take much to have a guy "like" you.

1st of all we dont give a fukk about your looks. All that gives us is the ability to tell our brehs "Yo peep this girl that I hit last weekend " So we can get the response. Obviously good looks are the ultimate bonus...but most dudes have a type they like which covers a broad range of women. As long as a girl fits within that...she's good in the looks dept.


Most guys want a girl who

A) Is down to ride for the cause. Something that is very difficult to find nowadays. Only if you have endured the valleys do you deserve to reap the benefits of the peaks. Haven't you seen DMX wife? What else explains it?

B) A girl who can inspire the man to perservere through the valleys reach said heights without restraining him. If a guy has aspirations to do a particular thing in life then dont crush his dreams and try to hold him back. You knew about them from the beginning so dont be selfish.

C) A girl who is willing to realize that we as human beings are not perfect. We have vices and so do you. Once you are able to put that fact in the subconcious and compromise as a result you will be fine.

One issue is that women think they can change men. After my ex and I broke up I recall a mutual girl that we knew posting some shyt about how you can't change a man so you have to decide whether or not your going to put up with him or let him change on his own and come back when he's ready.

Had about 20 likes including my ex and I immediately got the mug.

If I am a 20 year old man. Who are you to try, and expect to change my persona after 1 or 2 years...a character that my mom, family and surroundings have spent 20 years creating. The finickiness of girls is what irks men the most. You know what and who you were getting with. Don't play stupid when the smallest bit of adversity hits. ALl the above points are interrelated.

D) Lastly, a girl must respect honesty and be honest herself.

 

[Ohene]

My last gem for the night. This is something I learned with my last relationship and by hearing tales of my brothers and friends. This is something for you economics and mathematical folks.

Every girl has their own special function and you need to find the optimal value for every variable, the coordinate where marginal satisfaction so to speak is zero and total satisfaction is maximized. This is something I like to call the fine line. We've all been there. Young and naiive, ACTUALLY ALTRUISTIC in the purest meaning of the word doing great deeds and gestures for the girls that we truly love (for most its our first and last). But as we all learn, being the best dude you can be is a quick way to make a girl bored.

• We buy that nice gift we know theyll want for christmas
• We listen to their stupid stories that have no moral, humor or enlightenment and even try to offer insight
• We chat with them for hours.
• We are actually concerned with their emotions/feelings. It goes on and on.

But with girls there is always a fine line.

Spend too much $$ on them...and you are a sugar daddy. Spend too little and you are a cheap/broke nikka.

Try talking to them too much, and you are too clingy and you become expendable. Dont speak at all and they think you dont care for them anymore and then start talkin to next dude (relates to my first post earlier).

Spend too much time with them and it becomes routine. Spend just too little time with them and they forget you exist.

Go out with them too often...youre too exhausting. Stay home with them too often...youre boring.

Central and Peripheral processing is key. Determine what is and is important to listen to. You advise and listen to their stories and shyt too much...and you become their Ms. Cleo or Dr. Phil. fukk Dr. Phil nikka you need to be their Lexington Steele.

Too much attention from other girls and they dont trust you. Too little attention from other girls and they question if you are even a catch. The right amount and they feel all inside.

I can continue with more examples but you get the gist. Find the optimal coordinate. These functions are complex and require deep regression analysis but ballparking it is good enough.

 

[kevm3]

Women simply have so many thirsty guys following behind them that it's unbelievable.

In regards to the question about simping, simping is when you lower your own value and pay an exorbitant value to get what the woman has to offer. At the premise of simping, you're putting you're allowing yourself to be disrespected in order to obtain her affection.

It's fine to give a woman a compliment if that's what you want to do, but to give her compliment after compliment in order to garner her attention and affection to the point where you look desperate is simping. Simping is essentially losing control of yourself. You're willing to sacrifice your own dignity in an attempt to procure this woman and you have no sort of cut-off level in which you stop your pursuit of a woman if your efforts are not reciprocated. You will simply allow disrespect to occur in order to procure or to do what you think will keep the woman around.

Instead of being real and stating your real opinion, you will say something you think she will like. Instead of giving her an honest compliment, you will continue to flood her with compliments in order to gain her affection. You will let her flake on you and continue pursuing.

The opposite of simping is maintaining and increasing your value.

 

[KiiLove]

Idk maybe I'm talking shyt but I think I'd appreciate male honesty over all that sugary shyt y'all talk to get the draws. I'm not saying be disrespectful like " bitvh I just wanna fukk and want nothing else to do with u" but a simple " I'm not looking for a relationship or anything like it right now I'm just chillen" would suffice. An intelligent woman can read between the lines

 

[Rocket Scientist]

1.Avoid blind dates/hookups

2.Prettiest women always have the most flaws.

3.If a woman never asks about your personal life or occupation.She is a keeper.Don't ask Dont Tell (pause)

 

[KiiLove]

1.Avoid blind dates/hookups

2.Prettiest women always have the most flaws.

3.If a woman never asks about your personal life or occupation.She is a keeper.

Please explain number 3 lol

 

[kevm3]

Idk maybe I'm talking shyt but I think I'd appreciate male honesty over all that sugary shyt y'all talk to get the draws. I'm not saying be disrespectful like " bitvh I just wanna fukk and want nothing else to do with u" but a simple " I'm not looking for a relationship or anything like it right now I'm just chillen" would suffice. An intelligent woman can read between the lines

I definitely agree women prefer honesty in general about your intentions. Men are supposed to be more upfront and direct with what they want. It's not comfortable being around somebody who constantly has ulterior motives and tries to sneak something up on you.

 

[Amare's Right Hook]

no means yes

 

[Rocket Scientist]

Please explain number 3 lol

A woman should be into a man for HIM. Not what he does.These days alot of women be all into the guy's business "What do you do" and automatically she thinks of him as either un-providing or providing for her.Women say they wanna be independent but thats bs.They want a man to pay the bills. Women want men who have jobs I understand. However they always find ways to nag. A guy can be making an honest living stocking shelves (not sayin anything is wrong with that) and she will stll complain. "Time to get a new job" "I need this I need that" "You should have been promoted by now" etc...Im saying if a woman doesnt ask what a guy does...then it obviously doesnt matter. I have dated women who never ask me what I did.Crazy but true.Those are the keepers. My $$$ has nothing to do with hers. We not married I dont have to report my income etc..

 

[sixsixtwo]

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[KiiLove]

These are qualities I look for in a guy

Consistency- say what u mean and mean what u say
A protector/provider - not only providing me with money but I wanna be able to call my man with any type of problem and he has a solution for me. I need him to calm me down when I'm being dramatic lol
Looks are important but if your personality is A1 it makes u look 10x better
I want somebody who has a strong presence
Somebody who is not afraid to be honest with me. If I'm being annoying or a nag tell me.. Nicely lol

And last but not least control me.... In the bedroom

 

[Rich Spirit]

1.Avoid blind dates/hookups

2.Prettiest women always have the most flaws.

3.If a woman never asks about your personal life or occupation.She is a keeper.Don't ask Dont Tell (pause)

so damn true, a female i was dealing with last year left me pretty much because of this

 

[sixsixtwo]

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[Rocket Scientist]

so damn true, a female i was dealing with last year left me pretty much because of this

Yea its real out here. Your occupation decides how far she will go with you. Women ask women...what their man do. Women think a man's worth is what he does.Us men we dont care if a woman got a degree or job,as long as she doing something. With women its like you gotta be 2Pac with a degree,working on Wall Street. They have unrealistic expectations