Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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I think a boy truly becomes a man when they realize that to their fathers (or stepfather etc), their mothers are just as ain't shyt as any other woman on earth. I been in a serious relationship for 5 years now, and about 2 years in I started to notice that the same bullshyt my girl does, my mother would do to my father. shyt blew my mind. :ohhh:

i somewhat agree, sometimes you see how your mother nags your father like he comes home from work and right away, the grass needs cutting, or don't put your dirty jacket there, or shower before you sit on teh couch and stuff.


and as a kid you'd be like why wont daddy listen :to: or why would he yell at mommy :to:

then you get older and your like damn these nagging ass females, ill shower when i want, ill cut the grass when i feel like i just came home from work women and ill pt my dirt clothes wherever
 

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yooo I forgot. Women love to mark their territory. Case in point. One young lady I dealt with.I took her to work one time.She needed a ride and I was in her area. So she gets slick and leaves a pair of shoes in my back seat.I didnt see it until I get home :ohhh: she called herself doing this in case,I go out with a young lady while she is at work. Face it if a woman sees women pair of shoes they gonna get curious.They either is gonna think its a gift for them or they gonna get some ? marks.When ol girl got out of work im like dont pull this stunt again.Fellas dont let any woman who isnt wifey,wife etc... leave her "stuff" in your car. Your whip aint a locker...
 

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yooo I forgot. Women love to mark their territory. Case in point. One young lady I dealt with.I took her to work one time.She needed a ride and I was in her area. So she gets slick and leaves a pair of shoes in my back seat.I didnt see it until I get home :ohhh: she called herself doing this in case,I go out with a young lady while she is at work. Face it if a woman sees women pair of shoes they gonna get curious.They either is gonna think its a gift for them or they gonna get some ? marks.When ol girl got out of work im like dont pull this stunt again.Fellas dont let any woman who isnt wifey,wife etc... leave her "stuff" in your car. Your whip aint a locker...

Truth 101. Panties are the worst :facepalm:. You wake up in the AM after bangin' a chick with her giving you the :wtb: "Who do these belong to?" :snoop: You walking downstairs and the doorman in your lobby be asking you "How's your girlfriend?" I be like :dwillhuh:, she got you on the payroll too? :snoop:
 

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Truth 101. Panties are the worst :facepalm:. You wake up in the AM after bangin' a chick with her giving you the :wtb: "Who do these belong to?" :snoop: You walking downstairs and the doorman in your lobby be asking you "How's your girlfriend?" I be like :dwillhuh:, she got you on the payroll too? :snoop:

:leon: that reminds me of the ending of "How to be a Player" when he got busted.
 

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"You say that you love rain, but you open your umbrella when it rains. You say that you love the sun, but you find a shadow spot when the sun shines. You say that you love the wind, but you close your windows when wind blows. This is why I am afraid, you say that you love me too"
 

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If a woman doesn't have a good relationship with her dad, she will likely be highly combative.

If you think she did something wrong and her story doesn't add up, keep questioning her. Never accept an answer that doesn't add up just because it feels good.

Women that you only want to chill with don't need to meet your people.

Always give her your number first. If she goes out of her way to call(not text), then she is ready to take the game further.

you never give a girl your number and wait for them to call.


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-On the first date jus have fun, relax dont go out with the intentions of trying to fukk. If it happens it happens, if it dont it dont. Never come off thirsty.


never,......

i had a decade year period from 2oo1 - 2011.

where every woman i saw on the first day i fukked't her.

make a damn move,..this is about the action of mating.

women move just like men,...maybe even worse now they are the matriarch by economy.


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this is a killer, i've been doing this since a youngin but nikkas still don't believe in it

i'd say my callback rate is about 85%

i wouldn't use this method on every chick, but it's like this...

for me, it removes some of the nervousness that comes with calling a chick randomly during the week, where she could be having a bad day or somethin or just might be busy and then you gotta call back another time

with this method, you don't worry about shyt. she calls you if she's interested and you just sit back and wait for the call :leon: more than likely, if she calls you back, she wants to smash

now, you got this chick callin you for dikk - you done topsy-turvy'd that muthafukka :leon:


man,....never put the ball in no woman's court to call you.

you are a man,...you are an emotionless warrior.

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I'd like to hear ya'lls perspective on living with women. Ya'll letting a woman move in with you or not?
Either she move in with you, or both of you get a new spot together, you don't wanna be a man moving into a woman's crib, there are always exceptions to the rule but for most part its a good idea to have your own when you start talkin about shackin
 

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I'd like to hear ya'lls perspective on living with women. Ya'll letting a woman move in with you or not?



never pay a women's house bills.

always take a women's place as your own,....

or build a place with them together.

never give them a place in your own..not even the notch on the toothbrush holder.


art barr

given ex lover's house i did not live in or ever visit.

till she gave me the keys, and her house and she moved.
 

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I swear to god I hated to dap this post because of its grim realism
Chris Rock-never scared-Satisfying women - YouTube

Even rich famous successful ass drake & lil wayne dropped a song called "Is there anything I'm doing brand new?" cause even they know too women are never ever satisfied and they are got dam millionaires


drake = soft sheltered simp
wayne = passed around ho becomes wifey simp

i would never listen to their girl songs.


art barr

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Aight nice responses from everyone. Now let's flip it on another angle. We hear the word simp a lot these days. I want ya'll to give the younger generation the definition of the word simp and why it is to be avoided and what they can do to avoid falling in that category. I'll chime in as well.
 

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To me a simp is a guy who puts a woman happiness over his own, he will go into the most horrible situation, a broke single mom with a bunch of kids and save her because she looks good or gives him sex.

He will open his wallet without question, be chivalrous act like the nicest guy ever just to get some sex, he's pathetic a thirsty ass dude, the type of Dude who will give up his dreams just to get some vagina
 

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man,....never put the ball in no woman's court to call you.

you are a man,...you are an emotionless warrior.

art barr

I'm going to have to agree that you got to definitely never put the ball in the woman's court and as a man you HAVE to be the initiator. Men go out and make things happen. You don't have to be thirsty and forcing situations, but as a man you got to be out there laying down the plan... laying down what you really want and it's up to her whether she wants to get with it or not.

As a man you got to be the one leading and making things happen. I will say you got to have emotions, but be able to keep them in check in order to accomplish the bigger objectives at hand. I ain't going to sacrifice my emotions in order to pull more women because them feelings is what makes me human, but I'm not going to allow my feelings to put me in a sucker position.

All of this comes with just deciding to be a man... and being a man is way bigger than just how women respond to you and with what a woman is doing. You just got things that's bigger than women, and even bigger than you. That's God's will... you learning to find a purpose ultimately bigger than yourself and that glorifies God.
 
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