Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[kevm3]

Just to reiterate on the point that many of these women will simply like you if other women like you, think about that fella with 30 kids. No way you can hide that many kids or that you are dealing with that many women. Them women knew and still chose to mess with him. They knew he wasn't about anything from the 'get-go', but now they have a kid and all of a sudden they are going to come out of the woodworks with that, "My baby daddy is worthless! I can't understand why he won't pay child support!" Naw, you knew. You chose pleasure first.

This is an important point to consider. You have to avoid anything serious with women who like you for things such as status or the amount of money you have. They don't really like you, they like the fame and status. If you pull a woman because you are a basketball player, or if you are popular, what do you think will happen when that popularity declines? That's right, the women will go too. I make it a point to avoid women who all of a sudden like me because other women like me. It's an ego thing with a lot of them. They simply want to be the woman that is with the man that's got it going on right now. As soon as another man is bubbling a little better than you, she will 'upgrade'. Around this time is when she'll start nagging, complaining, picking fights, becoming 'busy' and all other sorts of passive aggressive behavior in order to get you to dump her so she won't feel bad about moving on to the next guy.

There are those rare women that are into you for you and those are the ones you have to give exclusivity to. The other ones, you need to weed out their intentions from the get-go. It will save you countless time, money and drama.

Like C. Holla stated, if she asks too much about your business or financial status, put her in the not-serious category. If she 'all of a sudden' likes you when she sees other women liking you, put her in that category. That's why I don't really envy ballers and rappers who get all of these women. They are there for the fame only, and while the ballers may be having a lot of fun, they also have to tread with caution because they have an extremely hard time deciphering whether the woman is there for them or there for the fame.

 

[dr. pill biden]

1.Avoid blind dates/hookups

2.Prettiest women always have the most flaws.

3.If a woman never asks about your personal life or occupation.She is a keeper.Don't ask Dont Tell (pause)

How is this possible? I mean, I understand not asking salary but how do you not ask about occupation? Most men actually have very interesting occupations and sometimes like to talk about it, or at the least some bullshyt that's going down at the office. My last man is an engineer and it was fascinating and status when he showed his expertise and taught me a few things here and there.

 

[BedRoomI'z]

Women, just like men, do have the right to inquire about a potential mate's ability to keep any kind of occupation. Just like yall have to weed out
the gold-diggers and status-seekers, women have that same right. It's up to
the guy to either:

A. Answer the question truthfully
B. Choose not to answer.

But either way, a judgement call is made on what kind of guy he is.
If he is unemployed, cool, because that means at some point
in time, he was employed.

Because, we do have some momma's boys around here who make it their
business to find a woman who can replace her by taking care of him.

It ain't that cut and dry, fellas.
You end up throwing away a good woman, because she was upfront about
what she wanted. Didn't you all just state a few paragraphs ago that a woman
should be more upfront about what she really wants?

 

[kevm3]

In regards to them speaking on a woman being upfront, they were probably speaking on her being upfront on whether she feels him or not.

Careers WILL come up over a conversation. It is inevitable. What matters is how the subject is approached. If "What do you do? How much do you make?" are the first words out of her mouth, that's one to bail out on. If she's genuinely interested in what I do and asks about specifics in regards to my occupation, that's another. She has every right to ask me about how I enjoy my job and if I have any interesting stories about it... but if she starts worrying about how much I get compensated, that's a no-go.

No woman ever asks a man how much she makes to avoid momma's boys. She's going to ask that because she might want to be with a dude that got money.

 

[what it do]

just holla at as much shorty end thread rite now

 

[BruhMayne]

Shortcut to the slut

If you wanna find out the smut potential of almost any female just create a conversation that leads to what would happen if *whoever her celebrity crush is* walked into her room right now.

You'd be surprise at the replies you get from girls who you thought didnt have it in em. She'll forget that she told you she doesnt believe in one night stands during yall's last conversation.
Ask at your own risk

 

[Sharp]

Learn how to clean cut these chicks. If she has proven herself to be disloyal, a liability, or a complete waste of time, then cut her off immediately. Do not allow her to linger around. Most of the time, we keep these chicks around on some "I'm just gonna fukk her, etc." You want your roster to be full of thorobreds. Mark my words, this same chick is gonna end up being a big problem for you if you keep her around. You think you're playing her, when she's really playing you.

Also, women have a way of trying to make you feel guilty even when they are dead wrong. Always remember "your word is your word." Never let a woman manipulate any of your words. Never explain yourself. What you said is what you said, and it is up to her to understand it. If you attempt to explain yourself, she will manipulate your statement and have you questioning what you said. This goes hand-in-hand with never argue with a chick. Sure, she might get mad, but when you're right, you're right. Never feel guilty for laying down the law.

 

[kevm3]

That's real right there. A man will never win an argument with a woman. If he outlogics her, she will just repeat the same things over and over and start getting louder. A man definitely should have laws and know how to react before he deals with women and he has to make those laws very clear to her when he deals with her... if she violates them, he has to stand on the repercussions or else he won't be taken seriously.

I agree with the clean cuts as well. You're pretty much rewarding her as well for whatever she did to you if you keep her hanging on. If you keep her around, that's just elevating her vagina over your own self-worth. What incentive does she ever have to improve her behavior if she still gets your time and sex? You can't halfway fire no woman, just like a job isn't going to 'let you go' but let you come in every now and then to get some hours whenever you feel like it. More times than not, the woman you let off the hook will be the one leaving you in the dust as soon as she finds a new man to be steady with.

One of the biggest things these youngsters out here need to know is ALWAYS hold your self-respect above your love for a woman. If you are thinking about groveling, crying and begging in an attempt to keep her around, don't do it. If you are wrong, apologize, but never enter into an undignified posture. She will clown you and leave you in the dust. If she's going to leave, you simply have to let her leave. Don't ever get out here writing these females these love letters or sending them thirsty type texts talking about, "Baby, I absolutely need you tonight." She'll show those to the fella who she is actually giving it up to and they will laugh at you. Never make jokes at your own expense that make you look like some lame goofball. You might think being the clumsy, clown type guy is endearing, but you're simply a clown that's great for laughs in her eyes. Any time you degrade yourself for a woman, you are not 'locking her in.' You are making yourself look real stupid and you're going to make her leave while she clowns you to a whole bunch of people on the way out. Another thing is ya'll need to stop sending these women pics of your johnson. Leave things like that a mystery.

 

[Michael Knight]

This thread.

 

[RickyGQ]

To build on this. Women are very fairweather to the point where the more time you spend away from them the more they tend to forget exactly why they are even fukkin with you in the first place. We may all think that our game is tight but we are not the only dudes talking to them we are not the only ones they are listening too. We all like to talk about having rosters but most of us on are best days have basketball rosters at the best. These girls how ever dont have rosters but motherfukkin squads the size of the Crimson Tide. Redshirts, Walk-ons, five star recruits etc. Dont eem gotta be the cutest girl either. We have the ability to sign and bid for free agents but a lot of these girls have players begging to play for them. Try your best to be the Lakers and not some Toronto Raptors ass nikkas.

Have you ever been with a woman that really likes you face to face and noticed how she looks at you with the most divine respect and even awe...yet when you two are away from one another for even a week and petty arguments begin and it feels like they're damn near hiding behind their phone? Go out in person again and its a totally different story and theyre marveling at you again?dealt with promptly. Be proactive. Not to say you gotta be with the girl daily but separate yourself from the other dudes with that same old, "Good Morning" "How was your day?" "What are you up to?" shyt. Any actual conversations should be done over the phone or in person. If the bytch cannot sustai

Maybe it's just me but it happens very often. This is why it is important to avoid texting girls about trivial bullshyt unless it's shyt that can be n or even try to engage in a phone conversation / make the effort to meet with you in person; you either share that girl or shes too immature and not even worth the effort.

While you have a point, this leads back to the dude who said that it's easier for a woman to find a dude to fukk, but it's easier for a man to find a woman that's wife able. While a woman may have a football roster of dudes, she didn't recruit any of them, nikkas made the team just by showing up. That's where women get fukked up, thinking they have game like men do, but 50 dudes you don't really know and have no control over isn't better than a dude who has 12 players that he's fully scouted, knows they're strengths and weaknesses and knows where to put them on the rotation. A woman plays a nikka at quarterback, hoping he can throw a spiral or read coverage, while a dude knows who's his point guard, who's his best shooter, who's coming off the bench and knows when he wants what.

 

[ThaDoc]

I learned this lesson the hard way...

No matter how cold your game is you can still slip and find yourself simping for a broad. The moment you sense this is happening cut her off. Immediately. Because once you start simping, you've lost. The moment you disrespect yourself in order to impress her, you've given her permission to disrespect you. Once that happens it's game over. You can't recover from it because in her eyes you just sold out your manhood - the very thing that matters most.

If you're finding yourself developing intense feelings for someone to the point where you can't control yourself around them and you're not getting what you want, you need to cut them off. Otherwise, you're going to wake up one morning and realize you've wasted time, money and emotional energy on a broad who may be giving you a little action here and there but regularly fukks the guy from work who hasn't gone to a fifth of the effort and treats her like the whore that she is.

Bottom line, don't ever put a girl up on a pedestal and never disrespect yourself. And if you ever sense yourself doing this, cut her off and find another one.

 

[MikelArteta]

While you have a point, this leads back to the dude who said that it's easier for a woman to find a dude to fukk, but it's easier for a man to find a woman that's wife able. While a woman may have a football roster of dudes, she didn't recruit any of them, nikkas made the team just by showing up. That's where women get fukked up, thinking they have game like men do, but 50 dudes you don't really know and have no control over isn't better than a dude who has 12 players that he's fully scouted, knows they're strengths and weaknesses and knows where to put them on the rotation. A woman plays a nikka at quarterback, hoping he can throw a spiral or read coverage, while a dude knows who's his point guard, who's his best shooter, who's coming off the bench and knows when he wants what.

Women can't tell the difference between guys who want to commit to them and guys who just want to sleep with them.

 

[MikelArteta]

These are qualities I look for in a guy

Consistency- say what u mean and mean what u say
A protector/provider - not only providing me with money but I wanna be able to call my man with any type of problem and he has a solution for me. I need him to calm me down when I'm being dramatic lol
Looks are important but if your personality is A1 it makes u look 10x better
I want somebody who has a strong presence
Somebody who is not afraid to be honest with me. If I'm being annoying or a nag tell me.. Nicely lol

And last but not least control me.... In the bedroom

Good luck it's slim pickings out here.

 

[winb83]

I learned this lesson the hard way...

No matter how cold your game is you can still slip and find yourself simping for a broad. The moment you sense this is happening cut her off. Immediately. Because once you start simping, you've lost. The moment you disrespect yourself in order to impress her, you've given her permission to disrespect you. Once that happens it's game over. You can't recover from it because in her eyes you just sold out your manhood - the very thing that matters most.

If you're finding yourself developing intense feelings for someone to the point where you can't control yourself around them and you're not getting what you want, you need to cut them off. Otherwise, you're going to wake up one morning and realize you've wasted time, money and emotional energy on a broad who may be giving you a little action here and there but regularly fukks the guy from work who hasn't gone to a fifth of the effort and treats her like the whore that she is.

Bottom line, don't ever put a girl up on a pedestal and never disrespect yourself. And if you ever sense yourself doing this, cut her off and find another one.

You kicking some real hard knock game.

The rule that you can't positively redefine the relationship is a hard one to learn. You can only set a positive tone to things in the beginning and maintain it any redefinition of the dynamic between you and her from then on out will only be negative and not in your favor. Couple that with the rule that you can never fix anything with a woman once things are broken they will remain so or only get worse. If you ever mess up its better to start fresh somewhere new than waste time and effort trying to fix things.

 

[MikelArteta]

Learn how to clean cut these chicks. If she has proven herself to be disloyal, a liability, or a complete waste of time, then cut her off immediately. Do not allow her to linger around. Most of the time, we keep these chicks around on some "I'm just gonna fukk her, etc." You want your roster to be full of thorobreds. Mark my words, this same chick is gonna end up being a big problem for you if you keep her around. You think you're playing her, when she's really playing you.

Also, women have a way of trying to make you feel guilty even when they are dead wrong. Always remember "your word is your word." Never let a woman manipulate any of your words. Never explain yourself. What you said is what you said, and it is up to her to understand it. If you attempt to explain yourself, she will manipulate your statement and have you questioning what you said. This goes hand-in-hand with never argue with a chick. Sure, she might get mad, but when you're right, you're right. Never feel guilty for laying down the law.

The funny thing is I mentioned that earlier with that annoying chick who keeps texting me I told her bye and that's it.

If I reply like even it's cool my word is broken.

A man who keeps his word and dignity will always win, I tell females before I date them they have 1 strike that's it. That's my word and I stick by it.

They mess up I'm gone, it's a privilege an a honor to be exclusive with a man of my caliber. Women know the game and think they can manipulate there way back.

Ive seen guys cheated on, treated like crap and still take their women back not me.

Once I say bye to a chick that's it not another word uttered ever again.