I'm very observant and a student of human nature. I'm not stressed one bit. It's just such odd behavior.
Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women
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I wouldn't even entertain her, I'd straight be like stop messaging me if you have nothing important to say.
RealAssanova
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@semtex don't listen to her B.S. or any other girl's bullshyt for that matter breh.
You want something as simple as respect and she ain't giving it to you, why fight?
whatever her issue is, leave it be and remove yourself from the situation and her altogether. You fighting as if she is the last women you ever gonna come into contact with breh....especially a woman that sounds as crazy as her
end that shyt right now and move on. Delete her number and everything else on social media and get on with your life.
1 month down the road you gonna look back and thank yourself that you did what you had to do....and you also gonna see shorty in a negative light.
You want something as simple as respect and she ain't giving it to you, why fight?
whatever her issue is, leave it be and remove yourself from the situation and her altogether. You fighting as if she is the last women you ever gonna come into contact with breh....especially a woman that sounds as crazy as her
end that shyt right now and move on. Delete her number and everything else on social media and get on with your life.
1 month down the road you gonna look back and thank yourself that you did what you had to do....and you also gonna see shorty in a negative light.
@semtex don't listen to her B.S. or any other girl's bullshyt for that matter breh.
You want something as simple as respect and she ain't giving it to you, why fight?
whatever her issue is, leave it be and remove yourself from the situation and her altogether. You fighting as if she is the last women you ever gonna come into contact with breh....especially a woman that sounds as crazy as her
end that shyt right now and move on. Delete her number and everything else on social media and get on with your life.
1 month down the road you gonna look back and thank yourself that you did what you had to do....and you also gonna see shorty in a negative light.
dysfunction can become familiar and a routine, gotta cut it off.
I don't care how good a woman looks, if shes crazy or has major issues, CUT IT OFF,
knickscrusaderm
lead by example
Before I ask my question, shoutout to @Emperor_ReinScarf and @kevm3. Lots of great knowledge in this thread.
Some background: Met a girl a while back at school. Initially i'm thinking i'm just finna smash shorty. I get her name, number, all that good shyt and we get to texting. For the first couple of weeks i'm thinking she really not feeling your boy. She wouldn't return my texts or call at times. However, a short while later we end up talking in person and i hit her with that elite game
. She explains that because of her school and work schedule, she doesn't have much time to hit me back but made the commitment to do better. Now she feeling the kid and all but the problem comes that she wants a relationship, I'm not really looking for a relationship or nothing like that because I promised myself I wouldn't be looking for one until I at least finished school and started working towards my career. But i'm not going to lie, she might be the one 
. So many positive characteristics even though she came from a hard life. But since i'm going to be traveling so much this summer, I can't make that commitment that i'll be faithful to her (dem island thangs 
). I let her know that i'm not looking for a relationship, but she still insists on flirting with me, kissing n feeling on me, being up on the phone all night etc.
Question: I honestly don't want to waste her time because at the end of the day she is a good girl. But that sexual attraction is so strong
.Should I just end what we have going on? At least smash once? How does a youngin proceed?
Some background: Met a girl a while back at school. Initially i'm thinking i'm just finna smash shorty. I get her name, number, all that good shyt and we get to texting. For the first couple of weeks i'm thinking she really not feeling your boy. She wouldn't return my texts or call at times. However, a short while later we end up talking in person and i hit her with that elite game
. She explains that because of her school and work schedule, she doesn't have much time to hit me back but made the commitment to do better. Now she feeling the kid and all but the problem comes that she wants a relationship, I'm not really looking for a relationship or nothing like that because I promised myself I wouldn't be looking for one until I at least finished school and started working towards my career. But i'm not going to lie, she might be the one . So many positive characteristics even though she came from a hard life. But since i'm going to be traveling so much this summer, I can't make that commitment that i'll be faithful to her (dem island thangs ). I let her know that i'm not looking for a relationship, but she still insists on flirting with me, kissing n feeling on me, being up on the phone all night etc. Question: I honestly don't want to waste her time because at the end of the day she is a good girl. But that sexual attraction is so strong
.Should I just end what we have going on? At least smash once? How does a youngin proceed?
This chick keeps texting me first and then not replyingshe always was a weird ass bytch. It'll be like:
Her: "hey whats up"
Me: "what's up" or some other shyt
And then it ends there
If she keeps popping up out the blue and deleting her fb and all that, sounds like she has multiple dudes and is getting in a scuffle with whoever her main dude is and is doing that for attention and then hits you up as a fall back type of option.
Before I ask my question, shoutout to @Emperor_ReinScarf and @kevm3. Lots of great knowledge in this thread.
Some background: Met a girl a while back at school. Initially i'm thinking i'm just finna smash shorty. I get her name, number, all that good shyt and we get to texting. For the first couple of weeks i'm thinking she really not feeling your boy. She wouldn't return my texts or call at times. However, a short while later we end up talking in person and i hit her with that elite game
Question: I honestly don't want to waste her time because at the end of the day she is a good girl. But that sexual attraction is so strong
If you perceive her as a decent woman, don't waste time 'hoing' her out
We as men complain about not being able to find decent women, but then so many men end up hitting and quitting 'em and turning them into the kind of woman we despise.
This chick keeps texting me first and then not replying
Her: "hey whats up"
Me: "what's up" or some other shyt
And then it ends there
no need to respond with a "whats up" to a "what's up".
your response should have been at least:
her: whats up
you: "not much. what u doing".
that will create a nice segway for u to use to invite her over to your place.
Rocket Scientist
Superstar
Bless't
Living the dream
This. Either be honest with her and tell her you're not ready for anything serious or just let her go. She'll respect you either way (or at least I'd hope she would). You have to be mentally strong enough to not let "potential p*ssy" detract you from maturing from this particular situation. You never know what that one nut may do to her. Then you have a problem on your hands that could have been easily avoided. Good luck breh.
Breh when she hit you with that tired ass Marylyn monroe quote, that's when you should of hit the
. I hate dealing with chicks who act like this. All she does is come up with excuses, she's not taking accountability for anything. She sounds like she WANtS you to drop her so she can be guilty free about some shyt she's about to go do. Get out of that situation asap homie.
Womb Raider
sigh….*unzips pants*
bruh I feel what you sayin 100%Breh when she hit you with that tired ass Marylyn monroe quote, that's when you should of hit the
this shyt is annoying
EA
A Pound & A Prayer
@MasterSplitter I've never cussed a woman out before but I'd wanna make the exception for your girl
Breh when she hit you with that tired ass Marylyn monroe quote, that's when you should of hit the
your advice is sound. but from reading the dude's responses, i can tell he's already too far deep into this to just get up and leave.
see, its very rarely that you'll find me tell a guy to just "up and bounce" from a relationship. when men are complaining about a girl, its usually because they've been emotionally invested and cutting ties aint something that can be easily done. yes, i know many in this thread claim to be experts at doing that, but i aint buying it.
after having said that.
to the the dude you were quoting (@MasterSplitter),
man, the ball is in ur court now. good thing u guys did this over facebook and not in person or over the telephone where tempers coulda caused u to do or say somesh1t u would have regretted. but listen, what u need to do is take a step back emotionally and start acting (in your head) like this girl aint even part of ur roster. what that means is, start dating other women. that will help you weakened the emotional ties that i can see are currently very strong.
also, when u get in an argument with a girl who u really like, even if u are very mad, keep quiet. think of what ur going to say. think about it again. formulate in ur head, then say it and keep it short. say it in a calm fashion. then walk out. this works EVERY single time.
women are far more equipped at verbal spats than men and they will run circles on u. if women and men are countries, imagine women being the United States, and men being the republic of benin. yeah, when it comes down to arguments, u aint winning. u are trying too hard to reason with her and it is very very very bad. it was painful reading ur responses.
