Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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Having a bit of a dilemma. I've accepted that looks come first, but now that I've made a bit of progress in that department and got the intetest of a few girls I find myself clueless after the fact going, "now what? :sadcam: "

Time to pick up some hobbies and talents. :huhldup:

be yourself

thats the main thing, do things you want to do, just dont join a reading club or this and that just because some transient chick likes that.
 

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She told me its "resteraunt week" and suggested to meet to eat, and im like this bytch want some free food for the first meet up. I hate resteraunt dates especially for the first date, so yall think?

your the man why the hell is she planning
 

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Alas, when people complain of men not marrying (even they who are able), they forget how little women offer in exchange for all they get by marriage. Girls are so seldom taught to be of any use whatever to a man that I am only astonished at the numbers of men who do marry! Many girls do not even try to be agreeable to look at, much less to live with. They forget how numerous they are, and the small absolute need men have of wives; but, nevertheless, men do still marry, and would oftener marry could they find mates – women who are either helpful to them, or amusing, or pleasing to their eye.

–The Art of Beauty by Mary Eliza Haweis, published in 1878.
 

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She told me its "resteraunt week" and suggested to meet to eat, and im like this bytch want some free food for the first meet up. I hate resteraunt dates especially for the first date, so yall think?
Do not take any women that you havent fukked out to dinner. Suggest meeting at a park or coffee shop. I dont go on dates anymore. if a woman isnt down to come to my condo I delete her number. :yeshrug:
 

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You have to do everything, chase ask on a date, pay, keep her interested, get down on one knee spend on a big ass ring, marry and yet still they leave filing 75 percent in divorces

Alas, when people complain of men not marrying (even they who are able), they forget how little women offer in exchange for all they get by marriage. Girls are so seldom taught to be of any use whatever to a man that I am only astonished at the numbers of men who do marry! Many girls do not even try to be agreeable to look at, much less to live with. They forget how numerous they are, and the small absolute need men have of wives; but, nevertheless, men do still marry, and would oftener marry could they find mates – women who are either helpful to them, or amusing, or pleasing to their eye.

–The Art of Beauty by Mary Eliza Haweis, published in 1878.
 

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like i said dating sites are easy

But but black men on OK cupid
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This is probably the longest time I haven't been on a date in ten years. I've hung out with an old ex a few times but minus that.

Just been travellijg, writing, working on my book, deep in work, at peace :noah:
 

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Brothas need to be the leader


i would normally agree with this but, when it comes to planning, it should be ok to allow women to do that.

check this, as the man,

you are already picking the woman up from where she lives
you are already paying for wherever you go (if u go to a restaurant, u pay the entire bill...in most cases)

the least they can do is call a restaurant and make reservations.

try not to absorb the chicks u date of any responsibility.
 

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i would normally agree with this but, when it comes to planning, it should be ok to allow women to do that.

check this, as the man,

you are already picking the woman up from where she lives
you are already paying for wherever you go (if u go to a restaurant, u pay the entire bill...in most cases)

the least they can do is call a restaurant and make reservations.

try not to absorb the chicks u date of any responsibility.
You got a point :ehhh: just hope she doesn't plan something he doesn't like :heh:
 

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You got a point :ehhh: just hope she doesn't plan something he doesn't like :heh:
one thing i've noticed is women have found a way to mindfucck men into doing everything for them.
if u dont plan, u aint a man. if u dont drive, u aint a man. if u dont pay for the entire bill, u aint a man.

but when u sit and think, what exactly is the chick bringing to the table?

u set up a date with a chick.
u pick her up
u drive ur own car to wherever u go
u pay for gas
you pay the dinner bill or whatever else u guys do

at the end of the day, u realized u've been used.

all the girl had to do is get dressed, get in the car, and she gets treated like royalty.

nah. fucck that. when it comes to planning, yeah, i'll allow them to plan. or i'll find a restaurant i like and make her call them for a reservation.
 
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