Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[Womb Raider]

your advice is sound. but from reading the dude's responses, i can tell he's already too far deep into this to just get up and leave.

see, its very rarely that you'll find me tell a guy to just "up and bounce" from a relationship. when men are complaining about a girl, its usually because they've been emotionally invested and cutting ties aint something that can be easily done. yes, i know many in this thread claim to be experts at doing that, but i aint buying it.

after having said that.

to the the dude you were quoting (@MasterSplitter),

man, the ball is in ur court now. good thing u guys did this over facebook and not in person or over the telephone where tempers coulda caused u to do or say somesh1t u would have regretted. but listen, what u need to do is take a step back emotionally and start acting (in your head) like this girl aint even part of ur roster. what that means is, start dating other women. that will help you weakened the emotional ties that i can see are currently very strong.

also, when u get in an argument with a girl who u really like, even if u are very mad, keep quiet. think of what ur going to say. think about it again. formulate in ur head, then say it and keep it short. say it in a calm fashion. then walk out. this works EVERY single time.

women are far more equipped at verbal spats than men and they will run circles on u. if women and men are countries, imagine women being the United States, and men being the republic of benin. yeah, when it comes down to arguments, u aint winning. u are trying too hard to reason with her and it is very very very bad. it was painful reading ur responses.

Thanks for the advice. Reasoning doesn't work with this chick and my responses are painful for me to read as well. Sometimes I can't resist trying to force some sense into this girl's head because it should be common sense on how to treat people, even if you were in a bad relationship or whatever. But I will take all the advice I'm being given in this thread. Yeah I am invested in this girl and it's hard to get up and walk away but everyone including my dad has told me that this will end in heartbreak for me. It's literally my head against my dikk and my emotions and the shyt is hard. But again, thanks for the advice and I will run with it.

 

[Womb Raider]

@MasterSplitter I've never cussed a woman out before but I'd wanna make the exception for your girl

bruh I've cussed several bytches out. some days I'm just not for none

 

[TheArchitect]

u can eat anywhere as far as food goes
i love yoshinoya food it like eating like them anime shows but so so good

i would go to tokyo, yokohama, shibuya and shinjuki and roppongi for nightclub
roppongi primarily cuz i had pull there

u also see brazilian korean australian and russian and filipino females out there too
the full breed and mixed breed of all types of these

Maaaan, that sounds like heaven. I think once I set foot in Japan, I probably won't EVER leave....

But question: Do you think a black man in his early 30s (who still looks like a damn HS student) with no children would eat well out there? I ask because I don't know how society portrays things out there. Do people be on that western society bullshyt like in the U.S. or what?

 

[MikelArteta]

Thanks for the advice. Reasoning doesn't work with this chick and my responses are painful for me to read as well. Sometimes I can't resist trying to force some sense into this girl's head because it should be common sense on how to treat people, even if you were in a bad relationship or whatever. But I will take all the advice I'm being given in this thread. Yeah I am invested in this girl and it's hard to get up and walk away but everyone including my dad has told me that this will end in heartbreak for me. It's literally my head against my dikk and my emotions and the shyt is hard. But again, thanks for the advice and I will run with it.

walking away is always th hardest thing to do, but trust me you can get the heartbreak now or you can get it little by little.

I wish way back I had the courage to walk awy when I should have, would have saved me alot of time, heartbreak, money, etc.

its always hard to walk away esp if she's pretty or youve bonded sexually, hell even with all my wisdom I still struggle sometimes, but I know its for the best, i know in a few months when the fog clears ill be ok, ive done it before and I can do it again, its just the withdrawal that you better with.

 

[twan83]

Maaaan, that sounds like heaven. I think once I set foot in Japan, I probably won't EVER leave....

But question: Do you think a black man in his early 30s (who still looks like a damn HS student) with no children would eat well out there? I ask because I don't know how society portrays things out there. Do people be on that western society bullshyt like in the U.S. or what?

well i haven't been there in over 10 years but i from what i was last told its still the same
so u will eat well probably too well

they dont have problems with us from I've seen at all they like us and i have had nothing but positive experiences with them except one which I've said so many times on this site but that was a rare situation

 

[TheArchitect]

well i haven't been there in over 10 years but i from what i was last told its still the same
so u will eat well probably too well

they dont have problems with us from I've seen at all they like us and i have had nothing but positive experiences with them except one which I've said so many times on this site but that was a rare situation

Maaaan....all I have to do, is get out of this country.....

Avoid the police...avoid the system.....avoid the scandalous nikkaz/thots....get this CELTA....

 

[MikelArteta]

Before I ask my question, shoutout to @Emperor_ReinScarf and @kevm3. Lots of great knowledge in this thread.

Some background: Met a girl a while back at school. Initially i'm thinking i'm just finna smash shorty. I get her name, number, all that good shyt and we get to texting. For the first couple of weeks i'm thinking she really not feeling your boy. She wouldn't return my texts or call at times. However, a short while later we end up talking in person and i hit her with that elite game . She explains that because of her school and work schedule, she doesn't have much time to hit me back but made the commitment to do better. Now she feeling the kid and all but the problem comes that she wants a relationship, I'm not really looking for a relationship or nothing like that because I promised myself I wouldn't be looking for one until I at least finished school and started working towards my career. But i'm not going to lie, she might be the one . So many positive characteristics even though she came from a hard life. But since i'm going to be traveling so much this summer, I can't make that commitment that i'll be faithful to her (dem island thangs ). I let her know that i'm not looking for a relationship, but she still insists on flirting with me, kissing n feeling on me, being up on the phone all night etc.
Question: I honestly don't want to waste her time because at the end of the day she is a good girl. But that sexual attraction is so strong .Should I just end what we have going on? At least smash once? How does a youngin proceed?

treat people how you would want to be treated, if all you want is puzzy, there are woemn out there offering it up on a platter, stealing someone innocence who actually likes you and then crushing her heart is a recipe for disaster

 

[FreshFromATL]

Any brehs here ever did match.com?

 

[MikelArteta]

Any brehs here ever did match.com?

i have but id ont like paying, did that 7 day free ish,

match to me has the best quality in terms of non ratchet, quality chicks

 

[MikelArteta]

online dating is easy, i dont partake itn it but just writing a article for someone on okcupid, dont even have words on my profile, just me in a suit and chicks are eating it the hell up, not saying all are dimes, but it just goes to show you, all that sweet words and chasing and sptting game and tactics is for teh birds, if a woman finds youa ttractive or likes you, your already in the friggin door

 

[MikelArteta]

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rip marriage

 

[Benjamin Sisko]

She told me its "resteraunt week" and suggested to meet to eat, and im like this bytch want some free food for the first meet up. I hate resteraunt dates especially for the first date, so yall think?

 

[George Gooney]

She told me its "resteraunt week" and suggested to meet to eat, and im like this bytch want some free food for the first meet up. I hate resteraunt dates especially for the first date, so yall think?

you answered your own question. If you ain't feeling it then bushes. your fun should come first. I hate restaurant first dates too.

 

[TRUEST]

She told me its "resteraunt week" and suggested to meet to eat, and im like this bytch want some free food for the first meet up. I hate resteraunt dates especially for the first date, so yall think?

dont come off angry. just suggest we can do that another time. i wanna go here....

i feel u on not wanting to take chicks out to eat on the first date. but its not always bad. as long as u talk to the girl before hand and u two hit it off. then if u take her out to eat, the night can end very well for u.

 

[b_priest9mm]

Having a bit of a dilemma. I've accepted that looks come first, but now that I've made a bit of progress in that department and got the intetest of a few girls I find myself clueless after the fact going, "now what? "

Time to pick up some hobbies and talents.