Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women
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every month i meet with a bunch of men, many are pastors, many are ceos, vice presidents breh this is what I learned today 
, tried to jot down as much as I could.
- Look past your pain, develop character. Then you will understand how great you are. Make a decision how you want your life to be determined.
- Your daughter is more likely going to marry someone like you
Isaiah 4:1 And in that day seven women shall take hold of one man,
- 7 women to one man, woman have a void. A void from a lack of having a male in their life. A void so strong that many women would rather share a man than do without, Many of them are stuck in situations that are horrible but they like it. Educated, smart, beautiful, highest job but lack of that male figure in their life.
People perish for lack of knowledge. I spend 3-4 hours a day attaining knowledge, reading books, watching videos, this is the golden age of information no one has an excuse anymore.
Women need attention, adam took his eye of eve just for a moment. Take your eyes off your woman become careless don't give time the attention she needs. You need to do your job. Date night just there and talk. Women are constantly competing with each other. if you have a good marriage or relationship they want what you have, what your girlfriend or what your wife has and that's why they come after what you have.
Every man needs a mentor, observation is powerful. From the moment we are born to the moment we die we are constantly learning. How can you write unless you have a basic understanding of the language. Not by writing but by observation but by listening. And many of our father's have failed us because they have not taught.
Sometimes as a man you have to adjust. Two cannot walk unless they agree. You carry what you learn by your upbringing if you were brought up believing 1+1=3, it's wrong, it's dysfunction but if that is what you were told over and over and over again you start to believe it, without adjusting your mindset and be willing to refocus and be willing to take criticism you will never reach the stage of where you believe 1+1=2. And that leads to another area judging others, be careful not to look at things from a human eye, you have no idea what they are going through or what they think is right.
Stop talking about issues or talk about solutions become the solution.
Why did God say to the man love his wife, why because it's a emotional issue that men have. We do not know how to love naturally.
My father is not a verbal person but by watching his behaviour, how he carried himself how he treated my mom taught me how to treat women. Observation is very key. You can only teach what you know and what you've only observed.
, tried to jot down as much as I could.- Look past your pain, develop character. Then you will understand how great you are. Make a decision how you want your life to be determined.
- Your daughter is more likely going to marry someone like you
Isaiah 4:1 And in that day seven women shall take hold of one man,
- 7 women to one man, woman have a void. A void from a lack of having a male in their life. A void so strong that many women would rather share a man than do without, Many of them are stuck in situations that are horrible but they like it. Educated, smart, beautiful, highest job but lack of that male figure in their life.
People perish for lack of knowledge. I spend 3-4 hours a day attaining knowledge, reading books, watching videos, this is the golden age of information no one has an excuse anymore.
Women need attention, adam took his eye of eve just for a moment.
Take your eyes off your woman become careless don't give time the attention she needs. You need to do your job. Date night just there and talk. Women are constantly competing with each other. if you have a good marriage or relationship they want what you have, what your girlfriend or what your wife has and that's why they come after what you have. Every man needs a mentor, observation is powerful. From the moment we are born to the moment we die we are constantly learning. How can you write unless you have a basic understanding of the language. Not by writing but by observation but by listening. And many of our father's have failed us because they have not taught.
Sometimes as a man you have to adjust. Two cannot walk unless they agree. You carry what you learn by your upbringing if you were brought up believing 1+1=3, it's wrong, it's dysfunction but if that is what you were told over and over and over again you start to believe it, without adjusting your mindset and be willing to refocus and be willing to take criticism you will never reach the stage of where you believe 1+1=2. And that leads to another area judging others, be careful not to look at things from a human eye, you have no idea what they are going through or what they think is right.
Stop talking about issues or talk about solutions become the solution.
Why did God say to the man love his wife, why because it's a emotional issue that men have. We do not know how to love naturally.
My father is not a verbal person but by watching his behaviour, how he carried himself how he treated my mom taught me how to treat women. Observation is very key. You can only teach what you know and what you've only observed.
also talked about how female promiscuity for the most part is tied to fatherlessness and molestation and rape
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Apart from bible stuff that was a good read, you the real mvpevery month i meet with a bunch of men, many are pastors, many are ceos, vice presidents breh this is what I learned today
- Look past your pain, develop character. Then you will understand how great you are. Make a decision how you want your life to be determined.
- Your daughter is more likely going to marry someone like you
Isaiah 4:1 And in that day seven women shall take hold of one man,
- 7 women to one man, woman have a void. A void from a lack of having a male in their life. A void so strong that many women would rather share a man than do without, Many of them are stuck in situations that are horrible but they like it. Educated, smart, beautiful, highest job but lack of that male figure in their life.
People perish for lack of knowledge. I spend 3-4 hours a day attaining knowledge, reading books, watching videos, this is the golden age of information no one has an excuse anymore.
Women need attention, adam took his eye of eve just for a moment.
Every man needs a mentor, observation is powerful. From the moment we are born to the moment we die we are constantly learning. How can you write unless you have a basic understanding of the language. Not by writing but by observation but by listening. And many of our father's have failed us because they have not taught.
Sometimes as a man you have to adjust. Two cannot walk unless they agree. You carry what you learn by your upbringing if you were brought up believing 1+1=3, it's wrong, it's dysfunction but if that is what you were told over and over and over again you start to believe it, without adjusting your mindset and be willing to refocus and be willing to take criticism you will never reach the stage of where you believe 1+1=2. And that leads to another area judging others, be careful not to look at things from a human eye, you have no idea what they are going through or what they think is right.
Stop talking about issues or talk about solutions become the solution.
Why did God say to the man love his wife, why because it's a emotional issue that men have. We do not know how to love naturally.
My father is not a verbal person but by watching his behaviour, how he carried himself how he treated my mom taught me how to treat women. Observation is very key. You can only teach what you know and what you've only observed.
Every woman on the face of this earth wants to feel loved, important, and valued. And for many, in those intimate moments of sex, they get just that. They are often not chasing men, but a love a little girl should have gotten from her father. So they use their vaginas as a way of filling that void.also talked about how female promiscuity for the most part is tied to fatherlessness and molestation and rape
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when he said that I just thought of my cheating ex, who was raped repeatedly by her step dad, as I get older and the bitterness and hate has faded away, I sort of understand now logically, how damaged she was on the inside and the help she needed, I truly hop she finds that inner peace one day.
the disease of fatherlessness is really sickening when you think of it, by eradicating the father you have taken away the natural order stability.
again I know its harsh to say, but I'll never mess again with a woman from a broken home or who did not have a father she respects and love. I just can't. It's no wonder my longest relationship and the women I almost married came from a two parent household structure.
Every woman since I've messed with even casually, even slept with have all come from broken homes it's remarkable when I think of it, I'm not even blaming them now as I get older and gain wisdom, they were basically just brought up in dysfunction for the most part it's all they know, like a kid who just knows 1+1=3
Every woman on the face of this earth wants to feel loved, important, and valued. And for many, in those intimate moments of sex, they get just that. They are often not chasing men, but a love a little girl should have gotten from her father. So they use their vaginas as a way of filling that void.
Men do to
when he said that I just thought of my cheating ex, who was raped repeatedly by her step dad, as I get older and the bitterness and hate has faded away, I sort of understand now logically, how damaged she was on the inside and the help she needed, I truly hop she finds that inner peace one day.
the disease of fatherlessness is really sickening when you think of it, by eradicating the father you have taken away the natural order stability.
again I know its harsh to say, but I'll never mess again with a woman from a broken home or who did not have a father she respects and love. I just can't. It's no wonder my longest relationship and the women I almost married came from a two parent household structure.
Every woman since I've messed with even casually, even slept with have all come from broken homes it's remarkable when I think of it, I'm not even blaming them now as I get older and gain wisdom, they were basically just brought up in dysfunction for the most part it's all they know, like a kid who just knows 1+1=3
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If you see someone in a physical wheelchair regardless of their age, gender, or outward appearance if they need and ask for assistance to open a non wheelchair accessible door the majority of people with a beating heart would help. Why? because we can see it physically someone in a time of need.
However one thing we cannot see is someone in an emotional wheelchair. Through the human eye we can see the outward, and for many we base and judge through that spectrum. For a long time, I was in a emotional wheelchair, needing help to open that door and push forward, hurting and struggling but using different mechanisms to protect myself from anyone ever finding out. I'd smile and put on a front and wear different masks but I was broken.
Many times I thought I was at my breaking point but time and time again I got through it. I look back at it all sometimes, all the tears shed, all the pain, the prayers and I'm just amazed at where I am now in life. Moments in my life peering in when to the outward eyes it seemed I had "everything" and had it all together were some of the lowest points I've ever experienced in my life. I'm just enthralled that I'm at a point in my life I can pour into others, whether it's volunteering, listening, giving advice, writing, or yes even financially.
Be kind, for everyone you meet is fighting a harder battle - Plato
If you see someone in a physical wheelchair regardless of their age, gender, or outward appearance if they need and ask for assistance to open a non wheelchair accessible door the majority of people with a beating heart would help. Why? because we can see it physically someone in a time of need.
However one thing we cannot see is someone in an emotional wheelchair. Through the human eye we can see the outward, and for many we base and judge through that spectrum. For a long time, I was in a emotional wheelchair, needing help to open that door and push forward, hurting and struggling but using different mechanisms to protect myself from anyone ever finding out. I'd smile and put on a front and wear different masks but I was broken.
Many times I thought I was at my breaking point but time and time again I got through it. I look back at it all sometimes, all the tears shed, all the pain, the prayers and I'm just amazed at where I am now in life. Moments in my life peering in when to the outward eyes it seemed I had "everything" and had it all together were some of the lowest points I've ever experienced in my life. I'm just enthralled that I'm at a point in my life I can pour into others, whether it's volunteering, listening, giving advice, writing, or yes even financially.
Be kind, for everyone you meet is fighting a harder battle - Plato
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Men do to
when he said that I just thought of my cheating ex, who was raped repeatedly by her step dad, as I get older and the bitterness and hate has faded away, I sort of understand now logically, how damaged she was on the inside and the help she needed, I truly hop she finds that inner peace one day.
the disease of fatherlessness is really sickening when you think of it, by eradicating the father you have taken away the natural order stability.
again I know its harsh to say, but I'll never mess again with a woman from a broken home or who did not have a father she respects and love. I just can't. It's no wonder my longest relationship and the women I almost married came from a two parent household structure.
Every woman since I've messed with even casually, even slept with have all come from broken homes it's remarkable when I think of it, I'm not even blaming them now as I get older and gain wisdom, they were basically just brought up in dysfunction for the most part it's all they know, like a kid who just knows 1+1=3
The sad part is people can't help the families they come from. I had no control over my father not being there, neither did my mom. I understand your preference for those who don't come from such backgrounds, but those of us that do aren't all completely broken. I've personally been in therapy for years off and on for my daddy issues in particular and to be a whole person regaress of my upbringing. And I have come a very long way. The sad part is, fatherlessness is an epidemic that's changing our culture and society. Women can only be to blame for so much, yet they still end up caring for those children 18+ yrs.
At the end of the day, everyone has issues to some extent or another. Nobody has all of their needs met in childhood and as they age. But it is extremely important for people to realize their own insecurities and problems and work to heal them so they don't behave out of such a place. Some do, some don't. All anyone can do is try to become as whole emotionally as they can, heal from their past, and choose forgiveness for the future regardless of their background.
I'm not a man, but yall have a beautiful thread brehs
The sad part is people can't help the families they come from. I had no control over my father not being there, neither did my mom. I understand your preference for those who don't come from such backgrounds, but those of us that do aren't all completely broken. I've personally been in therapy for years off and on for my daddy issues in particular and to be a whole person regaress of my upbringing. And I have come a very long way. The sad part is, fatherlessness is an epidemic that's changing our culture and society. Women can only be to blame for so much, yet they still end up caring for those children 18+ yrs.
At the end of the day, everyone has issues to some extent or another. Nobody has all of their needs met in childhood and as they age. But it is extremely important for people to realize their own insecurities and problems and work to heal them so they don't behave out of such a place. Some do, some don't. All anyone can do is try to become as whole emotionally as they can, heal from their past, and choose forgiveness for the future regardless of their background.
I'm not a man, but yall have a beautiful thread brehs
I know that's the thing. I grew up in a 2 parent household, only from like the age of 0-4 i experienced "poverty", then since then its been a life of luxury. I went to private schools, I saw examples of what it was like to be a man, a prospering marriage, was always shown love. I don't know how it feels to be molested, or eating beans and rice for dinner, or not having a man around.
And I didn't mean in the sense that all are broken, hell I was broken for a long while with deep issues and I had a mom and a father. I just mean at this point in my life I just don't want to deal with the daddy issues per say. I will say if a woman has dealt with the issues, therapy or self growth then sure, but many bury their issues so deep instead of facing it. See you took the right steps many should take, therapy. Especially in the black community we are told just to bury that ish inside, only cacs do therapy etc.
*throws in towel*
just bought a 10 inch tablet, about time i begin reading books again.
If I was with a person I could honestly see myself building a wonderful life with, of course.
when you were say 23,24,25 could you describe the man you wanted
to now in your older age?
what has changed
I'm just curious