Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[RealAssanova]

the shyt makes my head hurt it does
no matter the situation marriage or gf/bf
its sickening to know u do so much and get little in return and when ur an ass u get so much back from her and u dont want her ass in return cuz u got made that way due to the damn games they play or heart break

hell I'm married and i sit here like with that shyt ur ass is replaceable as far as I'm concerned but my kids aren't
im in a real rough patch now no fukks given shape up or ship out is my thing best believe that

even in marriage....shyt ain't no one way street. Your woman better be putting in that work and you as the man cannot tolerate shyt. Forget what anyone else outside of your home tells you. Even your own family. If ya'll got a problem, you hash it out then and there...but everyman needs to establish ground rules or else that relationship will fail. Relationships are like building a house...if there is no solid foundation to start, best believe the house/relationship will crumble.

 

[twan83]

even in marriage....shyt ain't no one way street. Your woman better be putting in that work and you as the man cannot tolerate shyt. Forget what anyone else outside of your home tells you. Even your own family. If ya'll got a problem, you hash it out then and there...but everyman needs to establish ground rules or else that relationship will fail. Relationships are like building a house...if there is no solid foundation to start, best believe the house/relationship will crumble.

exactly why i say kick rocks with that shyt thinking I'm some walking damn stone. i dont tolerate that nonsense either u fix it or GTFO imo
got no problems being alone
why cuz I'm always gonna be alrite

 

[Mr210]

article I found about women cheating:

http://www.huffingtonpost.com/2015/04/09/why-women-cheat-_n_7026934.html

 

[MikelArteta]

the shyt makes my head hurt it does
no matter the situation marriage or gf/bf
its sickening to know u do so much and get little in return and when ur an ass u get so much back from her and u dont want her ass in return cuz u got made that way due to the damn games they play or heart break

hell I'm married and i sit here like with that shyt ur ass is replaceable as far as I'm concerned but my kids aren't
im in a real rough patch now no fukks given shape up or ship out is my thing best believe that

As a man the things you hold is your pride and dignity, if you did your best and she doesn't appreciate it or won't it, dust your sandals off and

I've dated and smashed nuff dimes, and some discarded me but one thing I never ever did IS BEG. They disappeared from my life and sometimes I was frustrated but I just said . I keep these ish as immunization records

Apologize for disappearing from discarding me and running with the hyenas then try and come back

and whenever they tried and crawled back in

Spoiler

 

[twan83]

As a man the things you hold is your pride and dignity, if you did your best and she doesn't appreciate it or won't it, dust your sandals off and

I've dated and smashed nuff dimes, and some discarded me but one thing I never ever did IS BEG. They disappeared from my life and sometimes I was frustrated but I just said . I keep these ish as immunization records

Apologize for disappearing from discarding me and running with the hyenas then try and come back

and whenever they tried and crawled back in

Spoiler

at that message that the shyt i be doing

of course u gotta them broads when they dont appreciate what u do for them but wanna act all high and mighty like there shyt dont stank is what they get from me

especially the ones that wanna crawl back after they decided to put a whole in your heart and shyt and be like I'm back we can work things out

I've always stand by what i said and each one of em and even a current one can get this shyt

 

[MikelArteta]

ill repeate again

Relationships are so simple when you think of it - if someone is not adding to your life in a positive manner and if it's not seamless, values are not intertwined and you don't have that "connection" your wasting your time. And all it takes is to experience that connection once and you will almost never beg, grovel, pin, chase after anyone again, you'll have your immunization shots and always know your worth and value. I can think back my first encounter with the "connection", I was young lacking confidence, skinny as a twig and making $8.50 a hour at the time, no car, no latest fashion just a student struggling to get by yet yet ahhhhhhhhh that connection. Only a few times in my life have I ever felt that connection and it's no wonder the role those women played in shaping my life.

 

[kevm3]

I think when we were young, television really messed up our minds and gave us this unrealistic expectation of what a relationship is, and when we went out in real life, we found out that they are nothing like what we expected.

One thing I think most of us are finding it hard to find when dealing with women is peace of mind, because you always get the impression that most of the women we are dealing with are stockpiling options and are privy to leave at any moment. The reality is that many women simply have numerous options and they end up rotating them. You will know this when there are certain days that you can never access her because she is 'busy.'

Enjoy the company of women, but do not make them a serious fixture in your life, because as soon as she leaves, all the benefits she brought leaves with her. The only way a woman is a serious fixture in your life is if SHE makes herself one. For me, that means she believes in Jesus, she's extremely loyal, she holds me down, she has morals, we can have conversations about more than typical things, etc.

What I found is that I cannot ever force a woman to do something. I can't change her inherent nature. Either she is or she isn't. Either she wants to be around or she doesn't. A lot of guys mess up trying to force women who aren't feeling them into dealing with them. Dealing with cold women will simply result in a waste of time.

Past that, a man needs to focus on his MISSION, not women. The right woman is the one that understands your mission and helps you accomplish it. Your mission is NOT to catch some particular woman. You, as a man, are a leader, and you are always doing something and you INVITE the right woman in your life to participate you and aid you in your ventures. She is not the leader, you are. Men need to seek inner stability without women BEFORE seriously dealing with them.

Women do NOT make you a man, and if you depend on them to make you one, you're going to be mentally unbalanced, because how quickly they can leave you. The more you have things together though, the more women will simply want to deal with you, but it will be up to you to filter them and find the one that is truly honest about being with you and helping you complete your mission.

 

[MikelArteta]

I think when we were young, television really messed up our minds and gave us this unrealistic expectation of what a relationship is, and when we went out in real life, we found out that they are nothing like what we expected.

One thing I think most of us are finding it hard to find when dealing with women is peace of mind, because you always get the impression that most of the women we are dealing with are stockpiling options and are privy to leave at any moment. The reality is that many women simply have numerous options and they end up rotating them. You will know this when there are certain days that you can never access her because she is 'busy.'

Enjoy the company of women, but do not make them a serious fixture in your life, because as soon as she leaves, all the benefits she brought leaves with her. The only way a woman is a serious fixture in your life is if SHE makes herself one. For me, that means she believes in Jesus, she's extremely loyal, she holds me down, she has morals, we can have conversations about more than typical things, etc.

What I found is that I cannot ever force a woman to do something. I can't change her inherent nature. Either she is or she isn't. Either she wants to be around or she doesn't. A lot of guys mess up trying to force women who aren't feeling them into dealing with them. Dealing with cold women will simply result in a waste of time.

Past that, a man needs to focus on his MISSION, not women. The right woman is the one that understands your mission and helps you accomplish it. Your mission is NOT to catch some particular woman. You, as a man, are a leader, and you are always doing something and you INVITE the right woman in your life to participate you and aid you in your ventures. She is not the leader, you are. Men need to seek inner stability without women BEFORE seriously dealing with them.

Women do NOT make you a man, and if you depend on them to make you one, you're going to be mentally unbalanced, because how quickly they can leave you. The more you have things together though, the more women will simply want to deal with you, but it will be up to you to filter them and find the one that is truly honest about being with you and helping you complete your mission.

or you dont hear from them for awhile then your phone buzzes

you know its just your turn on the merry go round

 

[Atlrocafella]

When she send you unsolicited selfies, you know you got her

 

[MikelArteta]

When she send you unsolicited selfies, you know you got her

The beauty of life there will always be another woman.

See how effortless it is?

 

[Mr210]

Have you guys heard of this show called Married at First Sight. Its a social experiement but together by some so called experts and they match 3 couples based off interviews etc with them. Well these couples once matched never see their partner until they are walking down the aisle. The dont know anything about the other person. Afterwards they go on their honeymoon. The marriage is legally binding and after 6 weeks they decide if they want to stay together or get a divorce. So they just finished up their honeymoon have only been married for like 8 days and Xmas is approaching. 2 of the chicks are damn gorgeous, decent bodies too. I can already tell that 1 of the couples arent going to stay together, they got in a huge fight on the last night of their honeymoon and he walked out the restaurant, he looks and acts like a jerk.

It airs on Tuesday nights on the FYI channel

 

[twan83]

Have you guys heard of this show called Married at First Sight. Its a social experiement but together by some so called experts and they match 3 couples based off interviews etc with them. Well these couples once matched never see their partner until they are walking down the aisle. The dont know anything about the other person. Afterwards they go on their honeymoon. The marriage is legally binding and after 6 weeks they decide if they want to stay together or get a divorce. So they just finished up their honeymoon have only been married for like 8 days and Xmas is approaching. 2 of the chicks are damn gorgeous, decent bodies too. I can already tell that 1 of the couples arent going to stay together, they got in a huge fight on the last night of their honeymoon and he walked out the restaurant, he looks and acts like a jerk.

It airs on Tuesday nights on the FYI channel

shyt sounds interesting
reason u dont go on looks as primary factor

 

[MikelArteta]

Have you guys heard of this show called Married at First Sight. Its a social experiement but together by some so called experts and they match 3 couples based off interviews etc with them. Well these couples once matched never see their partner until they are walking down the aisle. The dont know anything about the other person. Afterwards they go on their honeymoon. The marriage is legally binding and after 6 weeks they decide if they want to stay together or get a divorce. So they just finished up their honeymoon have only been married for like 8 days and Xmas is approaching. 2 of the chicks are damn gorgeous, decent bodies too. I can already tell that 1 of the couples arent going to stay together, they got in a huge fight on the last night of their honeymoon and he walked out the restaurant, he looks and acts like a jerk.

It airs on Tuesday nights on the FYI channel

yeah there was a first season
some of the couples are still toegeht

funny thing is this chick thought this dude was so ugly, dude lived at home and had a crummy job, but dude won her over

 

[MikelArteta]

even in marriage....shyt ain't no one way street. Your woman better be putting in that work and you as the man cannot tolerate shyt. Forget what anyone else outside of your home tells you. Even your own family. If ya'll got a problem, you hash it out then and there...but everyman needs to establish ground rules or else that relationship will fail. Relationships are like building a house...if there is no solid foundation to start, best believe the house/relationship will crumble.

I think the issue with many relationships is the lack of communication and pure honesty when you are first getting to know someone. If you are pretending and not being your authentic self, you know it won't last. Let's face it when you get older all you have left is your ability to communicate with each other, not your good looks, life is too short to be miserable day in and day out.

 

[Mr210]

yeah there was a first season
some of the couples are still toegeht

funny thing is this chick thought this dude was so ugly, dude lived at home and had a crummy job, but dude won her over

I dont know who those people are in the pics, the one im watching follows 3 couples, I dont know if what im watching is old or not, but I catch it on FYI

ok it looks like im watching season 2, here is the link:

http://www.fyi.tv/shows/married-at-first-sight/cast/season-2

the davina and jessica chicks is mainly why I follow