Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[LordTaskForce]

Wow, it's been waaaay too long since I've been in this thread......

My dilemma:

I feel that I've pretty much reached my "alone" peak (I've been over two years single with no p*ssy, SOMEWHAT by choice. I'll get into that in the next sentences...)

You see, every time I see a female that has "potential" (someone I'd holla at), I'd sub-consciously talk myself out of it. I'll be walking and by and see her, then something in my head is like:

"Ehhh, fukk it."
"Is it even worth it?"
"Maaan, you know it's always one thing or the other with these broads."
"She doesn't even seem like she's checking for you in any form. What's the point?"
"I don't even know this chick, the fukk I'm suppose to say?"

It really frustrates me. It's not even like I can't talk to people, I'm just not really the type that can walk up on a person and talk like I've known them for years without feeling awkward as fukk.....

.....HELP?

nothing wrong with being picky breh. the way i look at it now, the worst that can happen is that she can say no and you'll never see her again.

if you're awkward use that to your advantage, tell the girl you feel awkward about approaching her and that you don't do this a lot. If she is receptive then you'll know and you can chop it up, get the numbers

 

[MikelArteta]

Why shouldn't you be picky?

The wrong woman can destroy your life financially, physically, emotionally, mentally.

I am extremely picky

 

[Atlrocafella]

the brehs helping other brehs. Dope shyt to see Everytime I come in here.

 

[Rocket Scientist]

A woman is like a stock.Invest in wrong one and damage will be done.Short term or long term investment

 

[Rocket Scientist]

the brehs helping other brehs. Dope shyt to see Everytime I come in here.

We brothers in here we will all try to help another one from making mistakes we made.

 

[twan83]

offer sex as ur best option thinking thats all we want
kick rocks with that shyt

dont care how bad u are how big ur ass and t*ts are
for us males that know ourselves and know what we want from a partner shyt wont work in the slightest

 

[eerieBell]

why do every time you get a girl a flock of ex bytches suddenly appears out of nowhere

If my ex girl starts seeing other man I don't feel a need to go out of my way and try to win her back for whatever reason, but women do that all the time it's like they can't fathom the fact that you're giving your attention to someone else or some shyt it's complicated

 

[kevm3]

Mainly because it's a game. women typically want what they can't have or what another woman has. They won't pay you any attention, but as soon as you get a new girl, they see it and it's a sort of game to them to see if they can pull you away from her. An ego thing. As soon as one of them 'gets' you, she'll most likely disappear.

 

[kevm3]

A lot. Style. Health. Discipline.

The key to reinventing yourself is first and foremost getting an idea of what you want to do. When it comes to health, what do you want to look like? When it comes to sports, what are you trying to accomplish? If you have no idea what you want, there is no such thing as reinventing yourself. You're simply swimming in the dark.

So once a man has discovered an idea of what he wants, he has to formulate a gameplan of how to get there. If you want to lose weight, look up different things about diet and exercise. if you want to get better with your finances, buy different books on finance and read them. This second step is accumulating the necessary knowledge to accomplish your goal and to make a plan.

The final step is to actually DO it. Put the plan in motion. When it comes down to it, there's nothing magical or no hidden, secret knowledge. People who aren't afraid to get up and put in the work end up getting their results. If you want something, you simply have to get up and go after it. Persistence and learning to bounce back from failure is the key. If one way doesn't work, try another way, and then try another way, and keep on going until it works.

Accomplishing things in life is simple, but it's not easy. Anyone who wants to reinvent themselves HAS to be willing to get up off the couch and get to work.

 

[TheArchitect]

To go a little deeper.....

A certain store I work at for my vending job has a couple females with potential (looks wise). It's not even that I necessarily even want to holla right away, because I don't even know them like that; I may have spoken no more than 1-2 words to them. I really just want to gain that level of familiarity, enough so we can at least associate with each other on a more casual basis. Then I can see if it would be worth my while. Problem is that:

-I may be on my last week or two working that store.
-If this makes any sense, I'm not necessarily an open book. IDK if it's my character or what, but females don't usually warm up to me as quick as they do others for some reason. I'm not weird or anything (at least not in a BAD way), but I'm just one of those people.....

Good thing is if anything, I might not even have to go to that store anymore. But if I do, that would kind of suck having to avoid them....

Maybe I should just start going out again....

 

[twan83]

why do every time you get a girl a flock of ex bytches suddenly appears out of nowhere

If my ex girl starts seeing other man I don't feel a need to go out of my way and try to win her back for whatever reason, but women do that all the time it's like they can't fathom the fact that you're giving your attention to someone else or some shyt it's complicated

I hit em with this shyt in a nutshell
Song says it all

 

[kevm3]

To go a little deeper.....

A certain store I work at for my vending job has a couple females with potential (looks wise). It's not even that I necessarily even want to holla right away, because I don't even know them like that; I may have spoken no more than 1-2 words to them. I really just want to gain that level of familiarity, enough so we can at least associate with each other on a more casual basis. Then I can see if it would be worth my while. Problem is that:

-I may be on my last week or two working that store.
-If this makes any sense, I'm not necessarily an open book. IDK if it's my character or what, but females don't usually warm up to me as quick as they do others for some reason. I'm not weird or anything (at least not in a BAD way), but I'm just one of those people.....

Good thing is if anything, I might not even have to go to that store anymore. But if I do, that would kind of suck having to avoid them....

Maybe I should just start going out again....

The key is to just enjoy yourself, but always be cognizant of how a woman can affect you when you deal with them. God didn't create man so we could be alone, so we'll always have a desire for female company. You simply have to get out there, but only deal with quality females who fit the criteria of what you are looking for. Don't talk yourself out of this or that female. Let her actions talk her into or out of your life.

 

[kevm3]

Something I found? NEVER wait up on a woman. If she's playing that busy nonsense, keep it pushing. You invite her out and she's questionable on it? Keep it pushing and do whatever activity you were going to do and potentially invite another woman. All of that sitting around hoping and waiting up on a woman will have you taking L's. If a woman is really about you, ain't no uhhh I'm busys or maybes. If she ain't ready to move, move on.

 

[MikelArteta]

Something I found? NEVER wait up on a woman. If she's playing that busy nonsense, keep it pushing. You invite her out and she's questionable on it? Keep it pushing and do whatever activity you were going to do and potentially invite another woman. All of that sitting around hoping and waiting up on a woman will have you taking L's. If a woman is really about you, ain't no uhhh I'm busys or maybes. If she ain't ready to move, move on.

yup, it makes it so simple, if a woman is into you, you will know, if she's not just cut your losses, will save you time, heartache, money everything in the long run

 

[MikelArteta]

the beauty of life though is that you never know when you might meet a quality woman, I believe in timing. You can meet women anywhere, going for a walk, going out for lunch etc., you can go out tomorrow and meet the women off your life. People can call me any word in teh dictionary, but I've never chided good quality women