Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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I'm at a point where I feel like I don't even want to be in a relationship anymore. Sure my girl is great and treats me like a king and everything. But she's just so flawed as a person(as most women are) to the point where she doesn't really do anything for me emotionally. I mean I love her but it's not the kind of love where i'd dedicate my life to her like I pictured me doing for my future wife when I was younger. Maybe the veil of magic has been lifted from my eyes on the opposite sex. I see superwoman as nothing more than a pms'ing organism with a sense of entitlement too high for my taste. The shroud of mystery has been stripped away to reveal a cheap parlor trick that's not worth watching to me. Its hit or miss.
 

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I'm at a point where I feel like I don't even want to be in a relationship anymore. Sure my girl is great and treats me like a king and everything. But she's just so flawed as a person(as most women are) to the point where she doesn't really do anything for me emotionally. I mean I love her but it's not the kind of love where i'd dedicate my life to her like I pictured me doing for my future wife when I was younger. Maybe the veil of magic has been lifted from my eyes on the opposite sex. I see superwoman as nothing more than a pms'ing organism with a sense of entitlement too high for my taste. The shroud of mystery has been stripped away to reveal a cheap parlor trick that's not worth watching to me. Its hit or miss.

do u see ur girl everyday? do u do everything together? that may have been ur problem. before u let her go, re-read the posts in this thread and see if ur willing to deal with what the single life has to offer.
 

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I'm at a point where I feel like I don't even want to be in a relationship anymore. Sure my girl is great and treats me like a king and everything. But she's just so flawed as a person(as most women are) to the point where she doesn't really do anything for me emotionally. I mean I love her but it's not the kind of love where i'd dedicate my life to her like I pictured me doing for my future wife when I was younger. Maybe the veil of magic has been lifted from my eyes on the opposite sex. I see superwoman as nothing more than a pms'ing organism with a sense of entitlement too high for my taste. The shroud of mystery has been stripped away to reveal a cheap parlor trick that's not worth watching to me. Its hit or miss.
Leave her :manny:
 

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Everyone has flaws, thing is she may just not be right for you. Only you can decide though

I'm at a point where I feel like I don't even want to be in a relationship anymore. Sure my girl is great and treats me like a king and everything. But she's just so flawed as a person(as most women are) to the point where she doesn't really do anything for me emotionally. I mean I love her but it's not the kind of love where i'd dedicate my life to her like I pictured me doing for my future wife when I was younger. Maybe the veil of magic has been lifted from my eyes on the opposite sex. I see superwoman as nothing more than a pms'ing organism with a sense of entitlement too high for my taste. The shroud of mystery has been stripped away to reveal a cheap parlor trick that's not worth watching to me. Its hit or miss.
 

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Everyone has flaws, thing is she may just not be right for you. Only you can decide though
Yea breh but I already know how terrible it is out there for single brehs. Nothing but thots nowadays. I'm not gonna make any sudden decisions without good reason. I was talking about women in general more than my girl in my earlier post. Chicks are just wack these days. :yeshrug:
 

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Yea breh but I already know how terrible it is out there for single brehs. Nothing but thots nowadays. I'm not gonna make any sudden decisions without good reason. I was talking about women in general more than my girl in my earlier post. Chicks are just wack these days. :yeshrug:
It's sad b
 

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Yea breh but I already know how terrible it is out there for single brehs. Nothing but thots nowadays. I'm not gonna make any sudden decisions without good reason. I was talking about women in general more than my girl in my earlier post. Chicks are just wack these days. :yeshrug:


ya i agree but at same time if my happiness is better off not with that female no matter how good she is too me and I'm just happier alone i rather be alone to be honest

sometimes a good woman u have wont work for u and ur just better off alone or a different type of good man is what u need instead it happens

the hardest thing to do is let go of something good if its the right thing to do even tho u know u might not want to but its for the best for u and her even if she dont realize it till later
cuz eventually its gonna show ur unhappiness in the long run and u dont wanna bring that too her or urself
 

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Yea breh but I already know how terrible it is out there for single brehs. Nothing but thots nowadays. I'm not gonna make any sudden decisions without good reason. I was talking about women in general more than my girl in my earlier post. Chicks are just wack these days. :yeshrug:

Compared to what other days that you've lived in?
 

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One of the sad things I have realized is that the women I'm attracted to and that are attracted to me, aren't the type I can build with, aren't religious, nothing in common, and the ones that have those qualities I'm not attracted to.

Need to do a captain ginyu
 

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so if 50% of marriages end in divorce, I wonder out of the other 50% that stay together how many of them are in happy relationships

when you think of it half end in divorce

and then in the other half you have sexless marriages, marriages where they fight every day, separations, marriages filled with verbal and physical abuse, marriages where a man is raising a kid he thinks it's his but it's not, marriages where a spouse hs forgiven infidelity, marriages where a spouse is being cheated on and doesn't know, marraiges whre the wife views the man as a starter husband, arranged marriages, marriages in counselling.


However like I always said I can do marriage, I can keep my vows be a provider, be a loving husband and father. Work hard for my family, be faithful no wandering eye, I just seen to many things in my life to put the faith of all that in someone else.
 
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when you think of it half end in divorce

and then in the other half you have sexless marriages, marriages where they fight every day, separations, marriages filled with verbal and physical abuse, marriages where a man is raising a kid he thinks it's his but it's not, marriages where a spouse hs forgiven infidelity, marriages where a spouse is being cheated on and doesn't know, marraiges whre the wife views the man as a starter husband, arranged marriages, marriages in counselling.


However like I always said I can do marriage, I can keep my vows be a provider, be a loving husband and father. Work hard for my family, be faithful no wandering eye, I just seen to many things in my life to put the faith of all that in someone else.




I dont have hope in this area as i have previously stated. Funny thing is I went on a date last month on the...20th. I just havent posted about it because i believe whats starting to happen to me is each year I live I lose value for women and their antics. I also think subconsciously is the reason i dont want kids is because the inconsistencies with woman and how they act hot/cold. In my heart thoe i feel this makes me "hypocritical" i have faith in so many other things but not women. Hell ive even been homeless before and i knew jesus would pull me threw. I just dont feel that way about women at all.

P.S. I will post how my date last month went last month its going to be a long read and some what inresting to say the least.
 

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i was listening to sirus radio this evening on my way back home...and the dj on "TheHeat" station was like..."women, there are still good guys left...they're just not at clubs and bars"....and i'm just sittin there thinkin :why:

women out here talkin about there ain't no good guys....when they out here slangin they puzzies for free, gettin knocked up by a nikka that don't want nothing to do with them or the baby, contracting std's, etc.....and yet a good guy is just supposed to accept that? :wtf:

i mean, why the fukk does this society cater to woman so much? :dahell: it is fukkin sickening. Nikkaz need to wake up, work hard for YOURS and do not give your time, money and energy away for free :birdman:DEMAND MORE FROM THESE WOMEN! put them on the spot where she has to stop and realize that she can't only offer just her puzzy....but rather something greater and more valuable.

that is the problem this generation are facing; men are too thirsty and focused on pleasing women. Media is a huge reason for this, but i mean where is the self-control? :dahell:

nikkaz out here getting tattoos, piercings, dressing like females, competing with females, just to appease them and get sex :why:....and its only going to get worst. :snoop:
 

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i was listening to sirus radio this evening on my way back home...and the dj on "TheHeat" station was like..."women, there are still good guys left...they're just not at clubs and bars"....and i'm just sittin there thinkin :why:

women out here talkin about there ain't no good guys....when they out here slangin they puzzies for free, gettin knocked up by a nikka that don't want nothing to do with them or the baby, contracting std's, etc.....and yet a good guy is just supposed to accept that? :wtf:

i mean, why the fukk does this society cater to woman so much? :dahell: it is fukkin sickening. Nikkaz need to wake up, work hard for YOURS and do not give your time, money and energy away for free :birdman:DEMAND MORE FROM THESE WOMEN! put them on the spot where she has to stop and realize that she can't only offer just her puzzy....but rather something greater and more valuable.

that is the problem this generation are facing; men are too thirsty and focused on pleasing women. Media is a huge reason for this, but i mean where is the self-control? :dahell:

nikkaz out here getting tattoos, piercings, dressing like females, competing with females, just to appease them and get sex :why:....and its only going to get worst. :snoop:


the shyt makes my head hurt it does :snoop: :mindblown:
no matter the situation marriage or gf/bf
its sickening to know u do so much and get little in return and when ur an ass u get so much back from her and u dont want her ass in return cuz u got made that way due to the damn games they play or heart break

hell I'm married and i sit here like :camby: with that shyt ur ass is replaceable as far as I'm concerned but my kids aren't
im in a real rough patch now no fukks given shape up or ship out is my thing best believe that
 
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