Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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I don't live this lifestyle any more but its just what i was telling you when a woman likes you, you dont have to do anything.

Like I said i've only made the first move once and i've still "ate" quite well.

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And like i said some guys just have "it" like that. Im the type if i see something that seem intriguing to say the least ill approach. Im not the guy thats going to stare at you for 30 minutes either :lolbron:.
 

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And like i said some guys just have "it" like that. Im the type if i see something that seem intriguing to say the least ill approach. Im not the guy thats going to stare at you for 30 minutes either :lolbron:.

I wouldn't even say I "have it", its just who I am, my demanour is quiet and I already know if a chick likes you she likes you if she doesn't she doesn't. Every girl I've been with cept one has kissed me first, made moves sexually. The same types of women roclaiming they want a aggressive "confident" breh. Just who I am, I also don't text women first
 

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I really need some help on dealing with a situation...

I been dating my girl for about 5 months...

Problem is it seems like at least once or twice a week my girl catches an attitude for the whooole day...

Now I work with her so I kinda gotta interact with her..


What's the best way to deal with a crabby azz gf lol
The best way is to break up with her and never get involved with a coworker again, but I've been in this situation so I know it's way easier said than done.
 

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Been dealing with this nice Kenyan girl for the past few months that I've been here in Qatar. She is completely different from women that I've been with in the past. Everything between us is easy man. Had a little turbulence in the beginning because she didn't understand that my work schedule was continuously changing and so was my availability. Had to just let her know that this is what it is and if you can't roll with it I fully understand. That just made her want to stick with me more. After that, smooth sailing. She doesn't like to party much and has the traits of a great mother. I'm taking it slow but I think I found a gem.

Told a female friend about her and the first thing out of her mouth was I bet she's looking for US citizenship. All I could do was laugh. The topic has literally never even come up in conversation before. She actually wants to save her money to buy land back in Kenya. It has been said time and time again, TRAVEL. Get your money right and get out there. I'm not so jaded that I don't think you can find great women stateside. However, you won't have to deal with as much trash to find what you're looking for. Gentlemen.

:salute: i am from there so i can vouch for the type of women out there, though some are catching on to american ways :patrice:
 

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Been dealing with this nice Kenyan girl for the past few months that I've been here in Qatar. She is completely different from women that I've been with in the past. Everything between us is easy man. Had a little turbulence in the beginning because she didn't understand that my work schedule was continuously changing and so was my availability. Had to just let her know that this is what it is and if you can't roll with it I fully understand. That just made her want to stick with me more. After that, smooth sailing. She doesn't like to party much and has the traits of a great mother. I'm taking it slow but I think I found a gem.

Told a female friend about her and the first thing out of her mouth was I bet she's looking for US citizenship. All I could do was laugh. The topic has literally never even come up in conversation before. She actually wants to save her money to buy land back in Kenya. It has been said time and time again, TRAVEL. Get your money right and get out there. I'm not so jaded that I don't think you can find great women stateside. However, you won't have to deal with as much trash to find what you're looking for. Gentlemen.

That's the thing right there. Dudes won't realize how messed up things are here and how little they are accepting in terms of value until they've got some outside metric to compare it to. Westerners accept what little the average western woman brings to the table because they were raised in it and don't know any better.

It's like if you have a dog and feed the dog only dog food, the dog will have no problem eating it. however, you start giving that dog human food like steak, etc., and the dog won't eat that dog food because he knows there is something much better out there.
 

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Coli brothers i need to let yall know about a situation.

Me and my girl be together for about 9months. We are both n our early 30's. She has two kids. I dont have any.. I told her im will be ready to have kids in the next year. She told me she wouldn't be ready. And i should not try to rush or pressure her into the situation. I told her if she's not ready were wasting each other time. I love her and the girls to death, and i planned on marriage. But i can't be with someone that is not vewing the future the same as i.

This shyt is really bothering today because it's Easter. I haven't talked to them since Tuesday.

What yall think?
 

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Coli brothers i need to let yall know about a situation.

Me and my girl be together for about 9months. We are both n our early 30's. She has two kids. I dont have any.. I told her im will be ready to have kids in the next year. She told me she wouldn't be ready. And i should not try to rush or pressure her into the situation. I told her if she's not ready were wasting each other time. I love her and the girls to death, and i planned on marriage. But i can't be with someone that is not vewing the future the same as i.

This shyt is really bothering today because it's Easter. I haven't talked to them since Tuesday.

What yall think?

On to the next one bro... how can you be with someone that doesnt want to start a family with you?
 
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