On to the next one bro... how can you be with someone that doesnt want to start a family with you?
That's what i've been trying to tell her.
Im just really down right now
On to the next one bro... how can you be with someone that doesnt want to start a family with you?
Somethings can't be worked around. She isn't wrong and neither are you. Just not compatible.Coli brothers i need to let yall know about a situation.
Me and my girl be together for about 9months. We are both n our early 30's. She has two kids. I dont have any.. I told her im will be ready to have kids in the next year. She told me she wouldn't be ready. And i should not try to rush or pressure her into the situation. I told her if she's not ready were wasting each other time. I love her and the girls to death, and i planned on marriage. But i can't be with someone that is not vewing the future the same as i.
This shyt is really bothering today because it's Easter. I haven't talked to them since Tuesday.
What yall think?
If you're ready and she's not, than no need to waste any more time with her.Coli brothers i need to let yall know about a situation.
Me and my girl be together for about 9months. We are both n our early 30's. She has two kids. I dont have any.. I told her im will be ready to have kids in the next year. She told me she wouldn't be ready. And i should not try to rush or pressure her into the situation. I told her if she's not ready were wasting each other time. I love her and the girls to death, and i planned on marriage. But i can't be with someone that is not vewing the future the same as i.
This shyt is really bothering today because it's Easter. I haven't talked to them since Tuesday.
What yall think?
If you're ready and she's not, than no need to waste any more time with her.
So dont go to her daughter play tomorrow?
you gotta sit down together and talk about your goals. if neither of you will budge and your goals don't align, then thats not the person you should be with.
Why should i budge? She has kids i don't. I feel its selfish not to have children with me in the next year. I'm tired of talking to her about the same thing
At the end of the day,she's not your daughter, and she's not cooperating with your wishes and aspirations,, even after you treated her own kids as your own. Its a bit selfish, so don't make it harder on yourself by still being their for her kids and showing up to their plays and events when you know where you stand with the mother.So dont go to her daughter play tomorrow?
I swear Everytime shiit is going good with a new chick im dealing with, an ex pops up out the blue trying to be friendly. I haven't heard from you in months and here you go
I swear Everytime shiit is going good with a new chick im dealing with, an ex pops up out the blue trying to be friendly. I haven't heard from you in months and here you go