Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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It's taking everything in my being not to call this girl. Even though I made the decision.

Damn I have break-ups
 

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how did your trip go :lupe:
Oh wow I posted the details in that other thread but I'll post it again.

The trip was way better than I expected. When I arrived in Japan, I had to take a bus and 2 hour train ride to her city which she assisted me via text step by step. When I got to the train station by her house, she told me her AND her mother and sister were picking me up. I was suprised as I thought her Mom wasn't going to be cool to me. I got in the car, they drove me to my apt I rented and got me acquainted with the area. Her mom was really nice and even though we couldn't communicate as well since my japanese isn't proficient yet, we still talked. It was a pain finding my apt but we eventually did.

The next day ole girl and her mom picked me up from the train station which is 10 minutes by feet from my house and took me out to eat and sight seeing. I went back home and met up with shorty again alone later that night and we went out to eat. She came over my house and we did the thing :shaq: Almost everyday her mom took me out to eat and invited me to dinner. We was at her house eating Nabe and Udon noodles and playing N64 :laugh:.

Ole girl was sad when I was leaving and shyt but we still talk everyday just as before. Nothing really going wrong except us not being able to see each other but she talks to me everyday, texting at the same time(when she wakes up, during lunch at work and after work throughout the night.) :win:

I can't wait to go back.

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Oh wow I posted the details in that other thread but I'll post it again.

The trip was way better than I expected. When I arrived in Japan, I had to take a bus and 2 hour train ride to her city which she assisted me via text step by step. When I got to the train station by her house, she told me her AND her mother and sister were picking me up. I was suprised as I thought her Mom wasn't going to be cool to me. I got in the car, they drove me to my apt I rented and got me acquainted with the area. Her mom was really nice and even though we couldn't communicate as well since my japanese isn't proficient yet, we still talked. It was a pain finding my apt but we eventually did.

The next day ole girl and her mom picked me up from the train station which is 10 minutes by feet from my house and took me out to eat and sight seeing. I went back home and met up with shorty again alone later that night and we went out to eat. She came over my house and we did the thing :shaq: Almost everyday her mom took me out to eat and invited me to dinner. We was at her house eating Nabe and Udon noodles and playing N64 :laugh:.

Ole girl was sad when I was leaving and shyt but we still talk everyday just as before. Nothing really going wrong except us not being able to see each other but she talks to me everyday, texting at the same time(when she wakes up, during lunch at work and after work throughout the night.) :win:

I can't wait to go back.

:myman:
 

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Added some pics.

I forgot to mention, the people were very polite over there. Idk if it was a act or w/e but I always felt a geniune sense of welcoming when walking in stores or w/e. I know it must of been strange to see a young black dude with dreads in a quiet part of town in Japan walking alone or with a older lady(Girl's mom). Besides that though, we were good over there. So much fun over there(well because I had someone with me everyday.)

Oh and my ex moved out the house. :win:

It's not like she was a issue anymore as since January I was pretty done with her mentally so she didn't bother me in the slightest.
 

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Added some pics.

I forgot to mention, the people were very polite over there. Idk if it was a act or w/e but I always felt a geniune sense of welcoming when walking in stores or w/e. I know it must of been strange to see a young black dude with dreads in a quiet part of town in Japan walking alone or with a older lady(Girl's mom). Besides that though, we were good over there. So much fun over there(well because I had someone with me everyday.)

Oh and my ex moved out the house. :win:

It's not like she was a issue anymore as since January I was pretty done with her mentally so she didn't bother me in the slightest.

[emperor]life can change in a instant [/reinscarf]

travelling is the best man, its only sad when you leave and have to return to where you live. It's amazing how at home no one may look at you, smile at you, women are cold, but you go elsewhere and everyone is warm as hell, women look and smile at you.

jjust imagine if you were still pinning over the ex or with her you'd never be able to experience this.
 

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[emperor]life can change in a instant [/reinscarf]

travelling is the best man, its only sad when you leave and have to return to where you live. It's amazing how at home no one may look at you, smile at you, women are cold, but you go elsewhere and everyone is warm as hell, women look and smile at you.

jjust imagine if you were still pinning over the ex or with her you'd never be able to experience this.
Yeah man when I got back to NJ, I felt a little sad. I didn't even feel like working or going back to the daily life of how things were. I decided that i want to live in Japan soon so I may be there longer. I seriously don't like up here like that. Idk.
 

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Yeah man when I got back to NJ, I felt a little sad. I didn't even feel like working or going back to the daily life of how things were. I decided that i want to live in Japan soon so I may be there longer. I seriously don't like up here like that. Idk.

felt the same way when I went to vancouver, till this day best city I've ever been, going back next month again.

Theres nothing for me in the city I live minus family and a few friends and my job
 
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