Something I found out is the kind of man a woman constantly complains about is the type that she loves dealing with. If she says she's dealt with nothing but thugs who caused her problems, that's the type of man she loves. If she has dealt with nothing but players who sexed her up and left her, that's the kind of man she actively likes to deal with until she gets left.
Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women
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darius19
R.I.P. Kobe and Nip, that’s off the rip
I know this point has been mentioned before, but remember brehs, there's no shame in taking a step back, realizing that you ain't in the proper mind state to be dealing with women for whatever reason, and say "I'm gonna take the next little while to focus on myself and build my hobbies/interests, become better at my craft" etc. Women will always be around!
yup, its not even worth it, just going to cause you headaches and stress.
ive said before I used to get frustrated or angry now i make sure to vet and check and dont even allow women like that in my presence.
its only when they are old and washed up thats when they want the nice guy, just head to any dating site punch in 30 and above and you'll see it
Yeah exactly. It's only when they fall off do you hear the spiel about men are dogs this and that. It's when you realize the times we're in do you stop stressing over it and say oh well and just learn to enjoy your life otherwise. Women are going to do what they want to do, and getting angry or mad over it is pointless. Just avoid the women who wasted their youth whoring it up and are looking for nice guy to fall back on... because you know if they still had 5 more years until 30, they'd still be chasing the same kind of dudes they are complaining about now.
I think another major thing is the way people are raised. Look around at many of these women and how they act and it goes back to their childhood, lack of love, lack of attention, home of discord, molestation, broken family. Train up a child in the way he should go, And when he is old he will not depart from it.
All i ever experienced was love, and saw commitment and respect and my parents taught and showed me from a young age the values and lessons required for patience, communication, and boundaries. But now so many people are brough tup in households of selfishness, add and instant gratification.
All i ever experienced was love, and saw commitment and respect and my parents taught and showed me from a young age the values and lessons required for patience, communication, and boundaries. But now so many people are brough tup in households of selfishness, add and instant gratification.
yep, funny thing that's usually when you will meet a woman you vibe with effortlessly. I always say focus on what you have in the here and now. And keep striving for what you want. And never let anyone else define what your life should be. It's yours - and you can live it however you want.
Many times we put too much stock into someone else's perception of how you should be living your life when in reality it doesn't matter.
yup i don't even mean to be harsh but the reality is how many men out there are chasing after women 30, 35 and up?
I know that beauty is fleeting but for many women that's all they offer. I work in a hospital and it's like 90% women, and many are in their 30s and 40s, many are married many I don't see a ring, but few if any are even above average looking at their age. It's remarkable, women think the gravy train won't run out. It's really amazing that even the flyest woman out there only has like a 15 year shelf life of her beauty.
But they waste it
CrossBones
Louder than words
I think that whatever is constantly running through a woman's mind is what she will gravitate to. if shes spending a lot of time talking about certain someone, or a certain type of person, then really what she's telling you, is that is what she is most passionate about. these women aren't thinking all day about how much they'd like to avoid these types. theyre probably not even thinking about a solution. you ever offer a solution to a problem, and they dont want to do it? patrice o'neil once said it, that love is like hate in a woman's mind. if she dwells or spends too much time on someone/something for too long, then it's like she's spending energy on it, and beginning to bond with that thing. shes investing her emotions and time into that person. so in essence it turns into, or is, something that she becomes involved with and doesnt want to let go. she eventually will want some kind of release from it, and its usually sex or a lot of drama in the form of a big argument. or one after the other
so when a girl is stuck on one mode, and talking about something all the time, whether she is bad mouthing it or not, you have to look at it like, this is obviously what she is drawn to. then once you look at her history, and look at her actions, youll see it and be able to see what is going on
unstable women like that simply love the rush. anything that makes her feel an extreme emotion will get her involved. whether it's anger or lust, if it affects her strongly then it has a good chance of bringing her closer. its the female equivalent to the guy who only thinks with his dikk. he might already have a girl, he might be working with this chick, she might be his boys girlfriend, or whatever. he would be chasing the p*ssy regardless if the woman is ugly, already taken, or somehow unfit for him. because the only thing he cares about is the nut
so thats on the one side of the coin, and on the other side you have the irresponsible women who are the emotional drama junkies. those girls who want their life to be like a soap opera or like in the notebook, doing things only concerned with the rush. both sides are generally all about smoke and mirrors, and the result ends up being a lot of games and strife
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Yep, an emotionally unstable chick I dated for years had me contemplating suicide at one point. No simp
. I was addicted to the extreme highs and make up and then those lows were the craziest thing Ive ever been in.Chick was such a charmer and sweet person, and without being ugly or mean or violent could make you feel like the worst nikka in the world with her actions.
Brehs, do yourself a favor, and find a woman who is in control of herself, her emotions, and her life.
Or else,... The real reason I've been "single" for 4 years now, i def date chicks for months at a time but then it just fades out, is that without the addicted feeling and intensity of highs and lows its hard to decipher where I want them in my life.
A lot of women I currently date, I would have cuffed in a heartbeat before that unstable ex. But after, it's hard to even stay interested without the craziness.
Not becauze I love the craziest, I'm just accustomed and used to it
So I just stay away from committment at this point til I've settled in my new norm.Just moved home and back to my own country, been a year since i was here only been here a little over than 24 hours and already feel like moving away from this country 
Probably going to stay here a week or so and bounce. I need another clean run pray for me brehs
Probably going to stay here a week or so and bounce. I need another clean run pray for me brehs
Yep, an emotionally unstable chick I dated for years had me contemplating suicide at one point. No simp
Chick was such a charmer and sweet person, and without being ugly or mean or violent could make you feel like the worst nikka in the world with her actions.
Brehs, do yourself a favor, and find a woman who is in control of herself, her emotions, and her life.
Or else,... The real reason I've been "single" for 4 years now, i def date chicks for months at a time but then it just fades out, is that without the addicted feeling and intensity of highs and lows its hard to decipher where I want them in my life.
A lot of women I currently date, I would have cuffed in a heartbeat before that unstable ex. But after, it's hard to even stay interested without the craziness.
Not becauze I love the craziest, I'm just accustomed and used to it
I don't think people realize how bonding with the wrong person can affect you even for life, its like having a criminal record
It's somewhat crazy to me that in your late teens/early twenties your expected to go to school and basically decide what you want to do for the rest of life. And then your early to mid twenties start your career, be saddled with a 25 year mortgage and "settle down" in terms of marriage and kids. If you shun society norms ala not following the script and checking off the pc checkpoints in a certain timeframe people will think your lost, selfish and even damaged.
In general I've noticed in life that people want you to live the life they are living and many times that's a life of settling and living in a stagnant daily routine. I'm 29 but at this moment in my life I have never felt in such total control of my existence in the here and now. I follow my passions rigorously and my whole world has been flipped on its axis in such an remarkable way, finally living a life I did not think was ever possible. Right now, I know myself more that I have ever did, I know my head, I know my heart and most of all I know what I desire.
So especially for you younger folks, be patient and always be kind to yourself. We all only have one life, people will test you, screw you over, judge you and gloat when you are in the muck however whenever you are knocked down use that time to ponder, heal, grow wiser and focus on yourself.
Because desperation of any form breeds unhappiness and unfulfillment, trust me everything happens at the right moment, not before and not after.
Stop putting too much stock into whatever anyone else's perception of how you should be living is...it doesn't matter.
In general I've noticed in life that people want you to live the life they are living and many times that's a life of settling and living in a stagnant daily routine. I'm 29 but at this moment in my life I have never felt in such total control of my existence in the here and now. I follow my passions rigorously and my whole world has been flipped on its axis in such an remarkable way, finally living a life I did not think was ever possible. Right now, I know myself more that I have ever did, I know my head, I know my heart and most of all I know what I desire.
So especially for you younger folks, be patient and always be kind to yourself. We all only have one life, people will test you, screw you over, judge you and gloat when you are in the muck however whenever you are knocked down use that time to ponder, heal, grow wiser and focus on yourself.
Because desperation of any form breeds unhappiness and unfulfillment, trust me everything happens at the right moment, not before and not after.
Stop putting too much stock into whatever anyone else's perception of how you should be living is...it doesn't matter.
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unless she's the "one"
random women should never be brought around your family imo