Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[Youseenmywork]

http://therationalmale.com/2015/03/24/betas-in-waiting/

@kevm3 @Emperor_ReinScarf @Turbulent @C.Holla


this dude is just the goat when it comes to talking about the physiological and behavioral aspect of these women and and patrice oneal just ....


"As I mentioned, the expectation is for her husband to accept “who she is today”, yet who she was ten years ago had a more genuine desire for less established, but sexually arousing, lovers".

 

[kevm3]

Focusing your attention elsewhere and not expecting much from your average modern woman is the only way to survive.

 

[DaRealness]

**sighs**

These chicks are something else. I recently signed up to do a block session of classes once a week. It's in another part of town and for me to get there wouldn't be too bad as it starts at 7pm. I get an email from the instructor this morning stating that some broad who lives in the same area wants to attend these classes too but she feels it may be "too far" for her. The instructor took it upon herself to mention me to this woman that I live in the same borough and that this woman wants to speak with me.

Bear in mind I don't even know what the fukk this broad even looks like. I ain't her man number one, number two I don't appreciate my name being brought up like that by the instructor. Even if she was to offer to pay for fuel, the fukk I look starting to do favours for some chick who don't even know me from a can of paint?? Ain't she got family, friends etc? If she feels it's too far, then she just shouldn't do it.

SMH

 

[RealAssanova]

**sighs**

These chicks are something else. I recently signed up to do a block session of classes once a week. It's in another part of town and for me to get there wouldn't be too bad as it starts at 7pm. I get an email from the instructor this morning stating that some broad who lives in the same area wants to attend these classes too but she feels it may be "too far" for her. The instructor took it upon herself to mention me to this woman that I live in the same borough and that this woman wants to speak with me.

Bear in mind I don't even know what the fukk this broad even looks like. I ain't her man number one, number two I don't appreciate my name being brought up like that by the instructor. Even if she was to offer to pay for fuel, the fukk I look starting to do favours for some chick who don't even know me from a can of paint?? Ain't she got family, friends etc? If she feels it's too far, then she just shouldn't do it.

SMH

i would speak to my instructor about that. That is fukked up.

while i understand the good nature of the professor to take care of their students, they should still speak to the person they're recommending BEFOREHAND to atleast make sure that they'd be alright with it. But to go ahead and do it as if the person will be like, "ya sure no problem" is messed up.

 

[DaRealness]

i would speak to my instructor about that. That is fukked up.

while i understand the good nature of the professor to take care of their students, they should still speak to the person they're recommending BEFOREHAND to atleast make sure that they'd be alright with it. But to go ahead and do it as if the person will be like, "ya sure no problem" is messed up.

I know! The instructor (it's for yoga class) was out of order for that. At best, she just wasn't thinking - I will probably bring that to her attention. She should have spoke to or emailed me first instead of putting me on front street like that. I had sent a reply earlier telling her it would be too inconvenient and that this person will have to get there via other means. It's as simple as that. If she thinks it's too far, then she shouldn't go. I'm not giving no explanations. After work, I wanna relax and get myself ready before I head out.

I could understand if this was a person I had already met and as a ONE OFF she needed a ride, I wouldn't have a problem with that. But for all I know, she might be a bytch who doesn't want to contribute towards petrol or even meet at mine before we head out. I'm right at the edge of my borough, so that would mean having to drive back on myself through rish hour traffic, pick her up then go to this place which would add at least half an hour to the journey. fukk I look like, Morgan Freeman? LOL at this broad even wanting to talk to me at all about it and she doesn't even know me. For all she knows, I might have a wife/girlfriend who wouldn't be cool with it. These chicks want red carpet, husband style treatment from total strangers when they're not even worth you looking in their direction. Then they seriously wonder why men nowadays are wary of doing anything for 'em. SMH.

 

[Ohene]

**sighs**

These chicks are something else. I recently signed up to do a block session of classes once a week. It's in another part of town and for me to get there wouldn't be too bad as it starts at 7pm. I get an email from the instructor this morning stating that some broad who lives in the same area wants to attend these classes too but she feels it may be "too far" for her. The instructor took it upon herself to mention me to this woman that I live in the same borough and that this woman wants to speak with me.

Bear in mind I don't even know what the fukk this broad even looks like. I ain't her man number one, number two I don't appreciate my name being brought up like that by the instructor. Even if she was to offer to pay for fuel, the fukk I look starting to do favours for some chick who don't even know me from a can of paint?? Ain't she got family, friends etc? If she feels it's too far, then she just shouldn't do it.

SMH

The world panders to women man. I remember one day I asked this old professor in my psych class a question... he was one of the most loved professors at my school. Anyways, it was early in the semester and I wanted to know if it would be fine for me to use the old edition of the text book because I had a shorty that wouldve been willing to share/give hers to me. I walked up to him before class began and asked. Old head flat out says he strongly suggests that I get the new edition so I say cool. I'm a cheap nikka so I didnt cop...but cool.

During the term I meet another girl in that class (i've mentioned her before...Tanzanian, muslim chick). One day we agree to study together the day before a test so i can use her textbook and she can use my notes for days she missed. Bet. I come to find out she has the old textbook and mention how the professor told me that it wasnt adequate for the class. Shorty tells me she asked duke and he said that there wasnt much of a difference so she can use the old edition.

I'm fully sitting there like because being my critical I figure the old prick must be racist or something because he had no reason to lie to me. And as we all know...racism affects black males in a far different way than it affects females.

shyt irked the hell out of me man. Never looked at that man the same way again.

 

[DaRealness]

The world panders to women man. I remember one day I asked this old professor in my psych class a question... he was one of the most loved professors at my school. Anyways, it was early in the semester and I wanted to know if it would be fine for me to use the old edition of the text book because I had a shorty that wouldve been willing to share/give hers to me. I walked up to him before class began and asked. Old head flat out says he strongly suggests that I get the new edition so I say cool. I'm a cheap nikka so I didnt cop...but cool.

During the term I meet another girl in that class (i've mentioned her before...Tanzanian, muslim chick). One day we agree to study together the day before a test so i can use her textbook and she can use my notes for days she missed. Bet. I come to find out she has the old textbook and mention how the professor told me that it wasnt adequate for the class. Shorty tells me she asked duke and he said that there wasnt much of a difference so she can use the old edition.

I'm fully sitting there like because being my critical I figure the old prick must be racist or something because he had no reason to lie to me. And as we all know...racism affects black males in a far different way than it affects females.

shyt irked the hell out of me man. Never looked at that man the same way again.

Yeah and the thing is, these are black women in this instance. The old, simp ass me would want to be a gentleman and "prove" how much of a "good black man" I am. SMH. But let's be real, apart from a few ooohs and ahhs and a pat on the head, when are these types EVER truly respected nowadays? I was listening to that dude Alan Roger Currie on blogtalkradio the other day and he stated that women who claim to want these types are full of shyt, which no one can deny because the proof is in the pudding.

When you're a naturally good hearted dude some people misconstrue that as weakness thinking you have a lack of assertiveness. Then when they find out you ain't weak ass negro, they try those old shaming tactics to get you to fold. Nah, been there, done that. I knew that game a long time ago. It's these namby pamby, simp ass Farrah Gray type dudes who have fukked things up and put all kinds of fairytale b.s. in these women's heads instead of standing up like men and putting their foot down by saying NO to a woman without fear of what she's gonna think of you.

 

[DaRealness]

Any time you're tempted to simp and buckle under pressure, just take a lesson from my man Goku:

 

[Rocket Scientist]

I just gotta Thank God for stepping in the midst of my last relationship he surely knows best.

 

[DarkHorse23]

I was listening to that dude Alan Roger Currie on blogtalkradio the other day and he stated that women who claim to want these types are full of shyt, which no one can deny because the proof is in the pudding.

Alan Roger Currie makes a lot of valid points. His approach didn't work out for me, but nonetheless he knows women. Every man should read the "possibility of sex", it should be mandatory.

 

[DaRealness]

We have these mandatory trainings for my job every 3-6 months or so. We see people we know from different offices in our classes sometimes. So I'm in class with a woman that I met a couple of trainings ago. She has a boyfriend but I can feel she has some sort of attraction to me. I'm not gonna lie, I want to fukk her. She is very sexy, the way she talks, moves, her body etc.. I never tried anything because she had a BF. So, lunchtime rolls around and she walks over to my desk and sits on it and ask me where I'm going for lunch. I tell her and she says "Let's go". I say "let's go then" we proceed to my car.

So we're having lunch, talking about our lives since we last seen each other. then she mentions she broke up with her BF. Then she says "well not really broken up yet" I ask her what she means. She says she knows she's going to leave him in six months, but she has to save her money up to get her own spot. Breh doesn't have the slightest idea. She's about to make this dude take her to a concert knowing she doesn't love him.

Her reason for leaving was she woke up one day and realized that he didn't deserve her and she didn't see a future with him. They had been dating for about 4 years. She says he's a good dude though.. needless to say I don't want to fukk anymore.

fukk these hoes..

"I let people talk who like to talk. It lets me know how full of shyt they are" - Jackie Chan in Rush Hour

It's always amazing how they end up hanging themselves with their own words, isn't it?

I've mentioned it on this thread a long time ago, but remember the scene with Marlo and Stringer in that house and how Stringer was doing all the talking thinking he was being smart, all the while Marlo just stood there listening closely and barely spoke but knew what he was all about just by that convo. It's the same with broads. They'll get comfortable and even end up telling you some foul shyt they plan to do to an unsuspecting guy, but then turn around and seriously expect you to fukk with them after that. SMH.

If that chick wasn't someone you work with, I would have said you should have given her the and told her how much of a lowlife she is. I'm glad you didn't fukk. Nothing hurts a nasty broad more than a dude with a code and integrity telling her about herself.

Lately, I've realised it behooves me to just play the silent role and let these broads expose themselves which, inevitably, they always end up doing.

 

[Mike Ock]

"I let people talk who like to talk. It lets me know how full of shyt they are" - Jackie Chan in Rush Hour

It's always amazing how they end up hanging themselves with their own words, isn't it?

I've mentioned it on this thread a long time ago, but remember the scene with Marlo and Stringer in that house and how Stringer was doing all the talking thinking he was being smart, all the while Marlo just stood there listening closely and barely spoke but knew what he was all about just by that convo. It's the same with broads. They'll get comfortable and even end up telling you some foul shyt they plan to do to an unsuspecting guy, but then turn around and seriously expect you to fukk with them after that. SMH.

If that chick wasn't someone you work with, I would have said you should have given her the and told her how much of a lowlife she is. I'm glad you didn't fukk. Nothing hurts a nasty broad more than a dude with a code and integrity telling her about herself.

Lately, I've realized it behooves me to just play the silent role and let these broads expose themselves which, inevitably, they always end up doing.

Funny you mention this....about 3 yrs ago before me and my current chik got together, I was dealing with this other chik. It was only for like 3 months and she was a straight headache. Was trying to play too many head games and I just wasn't with it. I ended up just telling her everything I didn't like about her and that I lost interest and I was dating another chik (who's now my girl). Fast forward till the present- this chik now works near me and from time to time we go to lunch, she pays for it most of the time or we'd go dutch. All I do is talk about how good my relationship is now and told her us never becoming something serious was probably the best move of my life. She's already told me she's dropped the ball with me and she regrets it. I told her I have no regrets about moving on. Though she feels insulted, I think in a strange way she's kinda addicted to it. Once i realized this it all made sense with her. She claims her ex was "mentally abusive" but she didn't know why he was like that towards her. This chik has a slick and loud mouth on her. She's def not my type cause I'm not with the constant battle for power in a relationship. But nowadays when we'd have lunch, it's just been about dudes smashing and dashing and not taking her seriously. I just laugh to myself about when i was being the nice guy to her and how she was acting towards me. As soon as I told her how much I had no interest in her, all of a sudden she wants to hangout whenever possible. She been single for like 4yrs now.

 

[MikelArteta]

Funny you mention this....about 3 yrs ago before me and my current chik got together, I was dealing with this other chik. It was only for like 3 months and she was a straight headache. Was trying to play too many head games and I just wasn't with it. I ended up just telling her everything I didn't like about her and that I lost interest and I was dating another chik (who's now my girl). Fast forward till the present- this chik now works near me and from time to time we go to lunch, she pays for it most of the time or we'd go dutch. All I do is talk about how good my relationship is now and told her us never becoming something serious was probably the best move of my life. She's already told me she's dropped the ball with me and she regrets it. I told her I have no regrets about moving on. Though she feels insulted, I think in a strange way she's kinda addicted to it. Once i realized this it all made sense with her. She claims her ex was "mentally abusive" but she didn't know why he was like that towards her. This chik has a slick and loud mouth on her. She's def not my type cause I'm not with the constant battle for power in a relationship. But nowadays when we'd have lunch, it's just been about dudes smashing and dashing and not taking her seriously. I just laugh to myself about when i was being the nice guy to her and how she was acting towards me. As soon as I told her how much I had no interest in her, all of a sudden she wants to hangout whenever possible. She been single for like 4yrs now.

women will rarely admit it but they know when they pass up something good, i've mentioned my ex she now realizes but its to late.

And its the same song and dance for many women, worthless men after worthless men then they get a good man and don't realize it still think they can do better only for years down the road to realize. Women think good men grow on trees, nah simps do and worthless men.

They wanted to run with the hyenas and well its not all it seems to be, to bad I say.


As I always say be the man when she lies at night after a long fight with her husband or finding out her bf is cheating on her that she thinks about how good it would have been if she stayed with you.

 

[Mike Ock]

women will rarely admit it but they know when they pass up something good, i've mentioned my ex she now realizes but its to late.

And its the same song and dance for many women, worthless men after worthless men then they get a good man and don't realize it still think they can do better only for years down the road to realize. Women think good men grow on trees, nah simps do and worthless men.

They wanted to run with the hyenas and well its not all it seems to be, to bad I say.


As I always say be the man when she lies at night after a long fight with her husband or finding out her bf is cheating on her that she thinks about how good it would have been if she stayed with you.

With her also, I think it came down to daddy issues. She has 3 other siblings...3 which came from 2 other fathers. She was the youngest and her dad wasn't really in the picture neither. So her mom was 0-3 and it left a mark on them. She got 2 sisters- One is married and extra dedicated to her husband and barely speaks to the family (from what she tells me). I think that sister really appreciates that male figure. The other is single and pushing 40 with no serious or even boyfriend at all. Then there's the brother who's 40 single, with no kids. Then there's the girl I originally mentioned..30, wants to challenge very guy she meets...and then there's the mom- never been married, with 4 kids by 3 different dudes.

 

[RealAssanova]

I know! The instructor (it's for yoga class) was out of order for that. At best, she just wasn't thinking - I will probably bring that to her attention. She should have spoke to or emailed me first instead of putting me on front street like that. I had sent a reply earlier telling her it would be too inconvenient and that this person will have to get there via other means. It's as simple as that. If she thinks it's too far, then she shouldn't go. I'm not giving no explanations. After work, I wanna relax and get myself ready before I head out.

I could understand if this was a person I had already met and as a ONE OFF she needed a ride, I wouldn't have a problem with that. But for all I know, she might be a bytch who doesn't want to contribute towards petrol or even meet at mine before we head out. I'm right at the edge of my borough, so that would mean having to drive back on myself through rish hour traffic, pick her up then go to this place which would add at least half an hour to the journey. fukk I look like, Morgan Freeman? LOL at this broad even wanting to talk to me at all about it and she doesn't even know me. For all she knows, I might have a wife/girlfriend who wouldn't be cool with it. These chicks want red carpet, husband style treatment from total strangers when they're not even worth you looking in their direction. Then they seriously wonder why men nowadays are wary of doing anything for 'em. SMH.

exactly. Why does shorty even want to go to that class if its outta her way?

instructor was like, don't worry i got you when shorty asked what she could do.

you was like bytch come again? i don't even kno this chick women and their entitlementman, i got better shyt to do with my gas and time