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its really bad whats put out there. part of it is that the situations, personalities, and behaviors portayed in these shows are somewhat real, and that adds to the overall attraction. now while there are people who are just as foul as what we see on the shows out there, not all of the actors are necessarily as scandalous as they are shown. but, the thing about it is the shows do represent an undercurrence going on in society today. the family unit in general, relationships, and the lack of responsibility from both sides have fallen off hard . its not what it was before, and it feels like that attitude of being a selfish ass is getting even more purvasive

people like to say that entertainment doesnt effect them, which can be true to an extent, but every action has a thought behind it. and if your thoughts are being cluttered with immature attitudes, sick entertainment, and unhealthy words, youre feeding your brain too much junk food.
:damn:

people will say that music and the media does not control people ... but what it can do is influence. and those without any healthy influences, will more than likely just latch onto something that is constantly being shown to them. theres a danger in having too much of anything.

seriously, anyone who doubts the power of music can look at the devil worshippers that popped out during the 60s and 70s rock n roll era. people started abandoning their local churches and legitimately began worshipping the devil. later, there people all over the globe started to wear colors in the 90s to bang, yet these gangs they were representing had no origins or relevance to their area. all of a sudden everyone thought itd be cool to wear colors and bang for crip, or blood. we even had little white kids from little rock arkansas start gangbanging for real


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its crazy, but the more time someone spends actively listening to or following any type of media/form of entertainment, the closer their thoughts might start to resemble it. women have been acting out and being more loud these days, even repeating the stupid phrases and attitudes from these miserable reality stars. the problem is when these shows give out a lot of drama and ratchedness, many women find it alluring and start to imitate it.
:shaq2:


Im not saying that watching the show is going to corrupt you just because, dont get me wrong, but it gets dangerous when we see folks let entertainment become somewhat of a guide in their life. more people need to actively watch what theyre putting into their ears and brains all of the time, and instead see what else they could be doing with their energy. at the least, I would say minimize the foulness and dont treat it as a reflection of your life. people can only make changes for themselves when they realize what they want and how to get it, but it has to be a decision reached without a lot of outside influences. as for someone who focuses a lot on reality shows, I feel like it is a definite warning sign to look out for. peace
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People saying that television doesn't affect people are deluding themselves. They call television shows 'programs' and say back to your regularly scheduled programming for a reason. When you program a computer, you give it instructions. It's the same thing with these shows. People who watch these trash shows slowly, but surely start to adopt the habits they see. When people were brainwashed, they were forced to watch propaganda films over and over until their mentality changed. The only difference now is that people WILLINGLY watch this propaganda and have tricked themselves to believe that it doesn't have an affect on them.

Here is a verse from Mathew 6:22
The eye is the lamp of the body. So if your eye is sound, your entire body will be full of light.

In other words, depending on what you look at, you will fill your soul with light or darkness. If you're watching screwed up things over and over, eventually it will seep into your mind. Same with righteous things. That's one of the reasons I hardly watch television. So many trashy shows that brainwash.
 

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Eminem just apologized to his mother on his new album and thanked her for being "My Mom and my dad"

:beli:

We need to have a discussion about this nonsense of Single women playing "both roles" and brainwashing their sons in believing that.

I have a single mother and would never say something like that. The double standard is a shame, imagine if a Single Dad said he played the role of a Mom and a dad? He would be laughed and ridiculed.
 

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As for single women being called "Dads" I heard this quote and its true. Women can teach a boy how to be nice,how to act at dinner time etc.... but a MAN can teach a boy how to be a Man. I must say now that there are some women that are tough and show tough love and had to because that father role is crucial to a child, but outside of the closest male figure in a child without a father's life who is teaching the boy to be a man?In Eminem's case who was his father figure?Oh and best believe there are men who are better moms then the actual moms to a child.Not every woman can be a mother to their child.
 

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dont cuff anyone, especially not to "just do it." dont do it just for experience, or whatever. its not something you take that lightly. you have to know the other person and be real about it yourself. when youre comfortable with yourself and what you want, shes at the same place in her mentality, and you two enjoy spending time together and learning about each other, then you can build something with her. that is a real relationship.

second of all, since you want to kick it with different girls and not be their man, you have to make it clear with who you talk to that you just wanna chill and enjoy being single. she will know what that means. she might not be down, in that case no big deal you move on. then if shes with it, get with her and you make your moves. theres no disparity in your words of actions, then no one is misled, and you did your job of being real with her. dont take many of these girls seriously with whatever they say, and never be desperate or shy with them. move on their actions. they come and they will go be cause it sounds like youre not trying to really spend a lot of time with em and build anything. so nothing is really going to keep them around for too long, know that and respect it.

so make sure she understands that youre getting at her for jump off status and will move on if shes not with the program. no ones hurt, no ones lied to. so thats what you should be doing if you want to start to get with all these modern girls out there.
Yeah I know relationships ain't light that's partially why I never went harder to be in one. People are pretty insincere these days and I figured fukk it why not be like them for a while but I feel you.

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People saying that television doesn't affect people are deluding themselves. They call television shows 'programs' and say back to your regularly scheduled programming for a reason. When you program a computer, you give it instructions. It's the same thing with these shows. People who watch these trash shows slowly, but surely start to adopt the habits they see. When people were brainwashed, they were forced to watch propaganda films over and over until their mentality changed. The only difference now is that people WILLINGLY watch this propaganda and have tricked themselves to believe that it doesn't have an affect on them.

Here is a verse from Mathew 6:22
The eye is the lamp of the body. So if your eye is sound, your entire body will be full of light.

In other words, depending on what you look at, you will fill your soul with light or darkness. If you're watching screwed up things over and over, eventually it will seep into your mind. Same with righteous things. That's one of the reasons I hardly watch television. So many trashy shows that brainwash.

Very true! Have you guys heard of Alan Watt? (ignore the crazy guy at the beginning) Check out this video:



Fast-forward it to 15:15 when he begins to talk about society/media.
 

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Very true! Have you guys heard of Alan Watt? (ignore the crazy guy at the beginning) Check out this video:



Fast-forward it to 15:15 when he begins to talk about society/media.


Yup, heard of him when I used to do research into a whole 'what's going on behind the scenes' thing a long time ago. It's sad when you realize all the institutions used to brainwash you.
 
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Bottom line, especially if you're young is that any girl you deal with, mentally you need to prepare for her walking out on you. Condition your mind and see yourself letting her go. Why do I say that? Because you never know what a woman is liable to do, especially in this day and age so you better be ready for them to walk out.

Honestly, I wouldn't even focus on women that much if I were you. Focus on handling your business, becoming a better man, get your passport, stack your money and get out of this country. This country is poisonous to relationships. if you happen to find a solid woman along the way, coo, give her a shot, but don't waste time chasing these women around. This country is going down the drain and you want to have the options to get out if you can.

It's not the country, it's the entire world. No matter where you go you'll find good and bad. The 21st century has created an abundance of narcissists who are hedonistic too, lol. People are either worshiping celebrities or themselves; accountability for one's own actions has been thrown out the window. The onus we used to share as a society no longer exists: Yolo has become the century's new slogan. If you pack your bags, you'll find similar sentiments elsewhere. Protect your family, close friends, and loved ones by educating them on the ills of society; however, running away from a place won't change the fact that Hollywood and other forms of media/propaganda are infecting our young people's mind on a global scale.
 

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It's not the country, it's the entire world. No matter where you go you'll find good and bad. The 21st century has created an abundance of narcissists who are hedonistic too, lol. People are either worshiping celebrities or themselves; accountability for one's own actions has been thrown out the window. The onus we used to share as a society no longer exists: Yolo has become the century's new slogan. If you pack your bags, you'll find similar sentiments elsewhere. Protect your family, close friends, and loved ones by educating them on the ills of society; however, running away from a place won't change the fact that Hollywood and other forms of media/propaganda are infecting our people's mind.

I agree you will find good and evil no matter where you go. You can find gems of women here, but it's extremely difficult due to the programming women have been receiving through the media and via gov co-opted feminism. The original feminism wasn't about women turning into men and competing with men. It was about women getting equal pay for equal work and being able to get out of the household and being able to find work. I have no problem with that.

However, feminism got co-opted and instead of broadening the opportunities of women, it turned into a movement to make women competitive to men and to push their superiority over men. It also taught women to co-opt masculine traits and to diminish a woman's worth to a man via the 'sexual revolution.'

This was done to destabilize the family system. Women have been socially conditioned to rebel against male leadership and to look at males as unworthy of following. However, this is contrary to a woman's God given nature, because women will even say they want a 'strong man' that 'makes her feel safe' and 'knows how to take control.' On the other hand, men have been conditioned to become feminine or boyish and to never learn the lessons of manhood and thus become a positive leader. Thus women are unable to find a man worthy of her submitting to and allowing her to show her weakness, and men are stuck in a state of arrested development and never allowed to be a man that brings ultimate satisfaction to a woman.

Sometimes you have to get away from where you are to find an opportunity where it exists. If a ship has a minor leak, you can stick around and patch it up. However, if it has several major leaks that cannot be fixed, you can get in the lifeboat and get out or you can go down with the ship. If I find a great woman here, that would be great, but I'm not leaving America simply due to the women. The problem with America is that it is now a fundamentally unstable country... and there is no connection between the people. This is a culture that now promotes allowing boys to wear skirts and all kinds of other sick behavior. We are in a countless amount of debt and the constant surveillance going on here is unbearable. We are only a few steps away from a police state if you look at the constant surveillance going on and you look at all of the 'crowd control weaponry' being developed. The only thing that hasn't really happened is the police start kicking down doors en masse.

America is convenient to live in, in that it is easy to get what you need to live, but it's not satisfying. Sometimes you have to explore the world just to be able to see life in a completely different context. Obviously there is no utopia out there, but when you extrapolate the current trends and look at the direction America is headed in, I can't really say I like it.
 
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I agree you will find good and evil no matter where you go. You can find gems of women here, but it's extremely difficult due to the programming women have been receiving through the media and via gov co-opted feminism. The original feminism wasn't about women turning into men and competing with men. It was about women getting equal pay for equal work and being able to get out of the household and being able to find work. I have no problem with that.

However, feminism got co-opted and instead of broadening the opportunities of women, it turned into a movement to make women competitive to men and to push their superiority over men. It also taught women to co-opt masculine traits and to diminish a woman's worth to a man via the 'sexual revolution.'

This was done to destabilize the family system. Women have been socially conditioned to rebel against male leadership and to look at males as unworthy of following. However, this is contrary to a woman's God given nature, because women will even say they want a 'strong man' that 'makes her feel safe' and 'knows how to take control.' On the other hand, men have been conditioned to become feminine or boyish and to never learn the lessons of manhood and thus become a positive leader. Thus women are unable to find a man worthy of her submitting to and allowing her to show her weakness, and men are stuck in a state of arrested development and never allowed to be a man that brings ultimate satisfaction to a woman.

Sometimes you have to get away from where you are to find an opportunity where it exists. If a ship has a minor leak, you can stick around and patch it up. However, if it has several major leaks that cannot be fixed, you can get in the lifeboat and get out or you can go down with the ship. If I find a great woman here, that would be great, but I'm not leaving America simply due to the women. The problem with America is that it is now a fundamentally unstable country... and there is no connection between the people. This is a culture that now promotes allowing boys to wear skirts and all kinds of other sick behavior. We are in a countless amount of debt and the constant surveillance going on here is unbearable. We are only a few steps away from a police state if you look at the constant surveillance going on and you look at all of the 'crowd control weaponry' being developed. The only thing that hasn't really happened is the police start kicking down doors en masse.

America is convenient to live in, in that it is easy to get what you need to live, but it's not satisfying. Sometimes you have to explore the world just to be able to see life in a completely different context. Obviously there is no utopia out there, but when you extrapolate the current trends and look at the direction America is headed in, I can't really say I like it.

I don't live in America so I can't really comment on the situation over there. Well I hope you find what you're looking for. The powers in be are trying to make the whole world conform to their sick ideals. I haven't watched TV in over 3 years and I'm meeting more and more people who aren't wasting their lives living vicariously through hoes lost souls that have taken over all major channels.

One thing I love about Alan Watt is how he goes into details about how nothing is ever truly grassroots. People look at celebrities, actors/actresses, and believe that they're receiving genuine/original piece of art. When in reality everything we see on TV has been cleverly manufactured to test our reaction. For instance, the Miley Cyrus fiasco was just a stretch to see how much more programming they need to do before acts like Miley's become completely normal to the majority of society. That level of shock will soon go away as children are gradually becoming more and more desensitized to seeing images like that. Ipads are being used by children as young as 3. Of course the parents would argue that it's all educational, but the child will become so internet savy by the age of eight, that we can only imagine what he'll be able to unlock.

Keep your family safe.

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I don't live in America so I can't really comment on the situation over there. Well I hope you find what you're looking for. The powers in be are trying to make the whole world conform to their sick ideals. I haven't watched TV in over 3 years and I'm meeting more and more people who aren't wasting their lives living vicariously through hoes lost souls that have taken over all major channels.

One thing I love about Alan Watt is how he goes into details about how nothing is ever truly grassroots. People look at celebrities, actors/actresses, and believe that they're receiving genuine/original piece of art. When in reality everything we see on TV has been cleverly manufactured to test our reaction. For instance, the Miley Cyrus fiasco was just a stretch to see how much more programming they need to do before acts like Miley's become completely normal to the majority of society. That level of shock will soon go away as children are gradually becoming more and more desensitized to seeing images like that. Ipads are being used by children as young as 3. Of course the parents would argue that it's all educational, but the child will become so internet savy by the age of eight, that we can only imagine what he'll be able to unlock.

Keep your family safe.

:wow:

What is so sick is people have no idea how far the delusion goes. Television, the school system. In fact, I've been making long posts on my blog about how the school system is used to create a certain mindset in people. I'm working on one right now that details all the different aspects of 'slave mind' that school puts into you. Television is one means of programming and the 'educational' system is another. If you notice, some schools look very similar to prison and you have little to no autonomy. This is why I keep it simple, reaffirm my faith in Jesus and continually analyze my mind to see where my thoughts are coming from. Are the thoughts you thinking something that you honestly thought of yourself or were they covertly planted? That's a crucial question we must all ask. I may even give up the net for a little while... maybe a few days and see how my mind reacts.
 
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What is so sick is people have no idea how far the delusion goes. Television, the school system. In fact, I've been making long posts on my blog about how the school system is used to create a certain mindset in people. I'm working on one right now that details all the different aspects of 'slave mind' that school puts into you. Television is one means of programming and the 'educational' system is another. If you notice, some schools look very similar to prison and you have little to no autonomy. This is why I keep it simple, reaffirm my faith in Jesus and continually analyze my mind to see where my thoughts are coming from. Are the thoughts you thinking something that you honestly thought of yourself or were they covertly planted? That's a crucial question we must all ask. I may even give up the net for a little while... maybe a few days and see how my mind reacts.

Co-sign everything you've just said!

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I agree you will find good and evil no matter where you go. You can find gems of women here, but it's extremely difficult due to the programming women have been receiving through the media and via gov co-opted feminism. The original feminism wasn't about women turning into men and competing with men. It was about women getting equal pay for equal work and being able to get out of the household and being able to find work. I have no problem with that.

However, feminism got co-opted and instead of broadening the opportunities of women, it turned into a movement to make women competitive to men and to push their superiority over men. It also taught women to co-opt masculine traits and to diminish a woman's worth to a man via the 'sexual revolution.'

This was done to destabilize the family system. Women have been socially conditioned to rebel against male leadership and to look at males as unworthy of following. However, this is contrary to a woman's God given nature, because women will even say they want a 'strong man' that 'makes her feel safe' and 'knows how to take control.' On the other hand, men have been conditioned to become feminine or boyish and to never learn the lessons of manhood and thus become a positive leader. Thus women are unable to find a man worthy of her submitting to and allowing her to show her weakness, and men are stuck in a state of arrested development and never allowed to be a man that brings ultimate satisfaction to a woman.

Sometimes you have to get away from where you are to find an opportunity where it exists. If a ship has a minor leak, you can stick around and patch it up. However, if it has several major leaks that cannot be fixed, you can get in the lifeboat and get out or you can go down with the ship. If I find a great woman here, that would be great, but I'm not leaving America simply due to the women. The problem with America is that it is now a fundamentally unstable country... and there is no connection between the people. This is a culture that now promotes allowing boys to wear skirts and all kinds of other sick behavior. We are in a countless amount of debt and the constant surveillance going on here is unbearable. We are only a few steps away from a police state if you look at the constant surveillance going on and you look at all of the 'crowd control weaponry' being developed. The only thing that hasn't really happened is the police start kicking down doors en masse.

America is convenient to live in, in that it is easy to get what you need to live, but it's not satisfying. Sometimes you have to explore the world just to be able to see life in a completely different context. Obviously there is no utopia out there, but when you extrapolate the current trends and look at the direction America is headed in, I can't really say I like it.

don't forget canada and most of europe too.

when i was in africa dis past summer, i lived an entirely different lifestyle. No taxes and submissive yet naturally :takedat: women. Some things made me actually appreciate what i had here and some not so much. But as soon as i landed back here, everything felt :scusthov: . My n!gga from around da way, called me da same night i got back stressed about a chick..talmbout she wasn't really respondin to his texts. I'm like texts? :dahell: In 2.5 months, i never once texted. :heh: Even with the broads that came from abroad, i spoke to em over the phone. Shyt felt so refreshing and normal. During my whole time there, i only encountered one chick that was on dat shady tip. She fukked a dude and then wanted to fukk me dat same night bout 2 hours later and thought she could be slick about it. :rudy:

Then i come back here and it took me no longer then 1 month before i regressed back into this gay azz state.

Life is so simple back home. :noah:Plan on goin back again next year and takin my younger american cuzzin wit me. Showin dat n!gga da life :blessed:
 

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"accept me for who I am" is a womans way of excusing her bullshyt behavior in the past present and future...once you hear that shyt, give her the directions to the next door available...

accept what? you being a fukking cheating bytch? yea ill pass on that..ill be the big meanie who cant accept being cheated on or lied to..ill play that role with 100 percent comfort.
 

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don't forget canada and most of europe too.

when i was in africa dis past summer, i lived an entirely different lifestyle. No taxes and submissive yet naturally :takedat: women. Some things made me actually appreciate what i had here and some not so much. But as soon as i landed back here, everything felt :scusthov: . My n!gga from around da way, called me da same night i got back stressed about a chick..talmbout she wasn't really respondin to his texts. I'm like texts? :dahell: In 2.5 months, i never once texted. :heh: Even with the broads that came from abroad, i spoke to em over the phone. Shyt felt so refreshing and normal. During my whole time there, i only encountered one chick that was on dat shady tip. She fukked a dude and then wanted to fukk me dat same night bout 2 hours later and thought she could be slick about it. :rudy:

Then i come back here and it took me no longer then 1 month before i regressed back into this gay azz state.

Life is so simple back home. :noah:Plan on goin back again next year and takin my younger american cuzzin wit me. Showin dat n!gga da life :blessed:

My homeboy bought land out in Kenya and he ain't even black. I thought that was real cool for him to do, which is something different than the norm.

At the 17:58 mark Nipsey tells you what it is

I got it from this thread:
http://www.thecoli.com/threads/rapp...they-make-you-want-to-be-a-better-man.160176/
 
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