This is exactly why you don't deal with these 'modern feminist' women. They want a traditional man but don't want to be a traditional woman.
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This is exactly why you don't deal with these 'modern feminist' women. They want a traditional man but don't want to be a traditional woman.
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DaRealness
I think very deeply
That's right and I'm surprised Tariq doesn't already know that.
DaRealness
I think very deeply
This broad will probably never get married anyway.
Some females you just have to leave them out there to rot as harsh as that might sound.
Niqqa You Gay
You fakkit coli nikkas disgust me
Im outside the theater waiting for my mom to come out and im blasting some Lil Wayne hard in the whip, windows down, not givin a fukk and outta nowhere it felt like somebody threw a glass bottle across my face. Im blinded by my own tears and can barely focus on whats going on. I finally look and see some 6'4" tall dude with dreads and tattoos walkin away from my car and he looking at me dead in my eyes. My mom runs in the car and tells me she saw dude haymaker the chit out my lips. I'm tryna talk but my words came out mumbled (my lips are swollen right now). I put the car in drive and got outta there
After seeing that he caught her in some nonsense before and she's doing it again, yeah, I agree. Punt. if she snaked you once, she'll do it again. Remember, cheaters cheat.
Now, for any girl you do meet, never immediately add her on social media. You always want to be able to observe how a woman is when she doesn't see you are looking. "Oh I'm so tired. I'm sorry I can't go out with you tonight."
*looks on her facebook
your new girl: me and the girlsss had such a fun night out tonight. so many fine onezzz out tonite!
Response from T. Jenkins: luv how u bakked it up on me ma
yo new girl: u so crazy boiii
LOL and yo sorry butt calling ma but she's not answering...the next day you get a hold of her and she says someting like, "I'm so sorry bae, I slept all night! that homework had me sooo tired."
If you catch mami in a lie, give her the boot. Last thing you want is a woman who only tells the truth when you press her for it after catching her in lies. No stress, more success.
Now, for any girl you do meet, never immediately add her on social media. You always want to be able to observe how a woman is when she doesn't see you are looking. "Oh I'm so tired. I'm sorry I can't go out with you tonight."
*looks on her facebook
your new girl: me and the girlsss had such a fun night out tonight. so many fine onezzz out tonite!
Response from T. Jenkins: luv how u bakked it up on me ma
yo new girl: u so crazy boiii
LOL and yo sorry butt calling ma but she's not answering...the next day you get a hold of her and she says someting like, "I'm so sorry bae, I slept all night! that homework had me sooo tired."
If you catch mami in a lie, give her the boot. Last thing you want is a woman who only tells the truth when you press her for it after catching her in lies. No stress, more success.
yup in front of you she may be the polite, humble, dressing conservative, going to church etc.
but on her instagram or twitter she's foul mouthed, abrasive, dressing like a slut, out clubbing
ive seen that numerous times
Rocket Scientist
Superstar
Also fellas we need to pay attention to what these women watch on tv.Some may say "C.Holla you thinking too hard" say what you want but these reality shows are also destroying women.TV&Media can influence.Im sure most of us grew up in households where we couldnt watch certain things and it was for a reason!As a child we were way more liable to repeat what we hear and imitate what we do.As men we have a choice.However these women eyes light up when you mention "Real Housewives" "Love&HipHop" and SOME are very influenced by these shows.If your woman is watching alot of reality shows like us men watch Sportscenter its a problem.
T-K-G
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Rocket Scientist
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One thing which I notice is why cant more women go out of their way for us? Think about it...we do the majority of the work in relationships.We have to initiate everything.Yes I know us men are suppose to sacrifice for women and back in day even give our lives.However times have changed and we must think "Would these women do the same"? "They want to be equal" "What sacrifices does she bring"? Some may say this is selfish thinking like I said if you dont look out for yourself who will?Give your heart all you want,but when you get hurt who will be listening to you?I notice thru out this thread all the energy and time we lost trying to get her back,or get her attention.Yet we arent getting anywhere but frustration and disappointing results.The dating game is just that a GAME.Our parents generation was the last golden when it came to Relationships. Male-Female relationships in 2013 going into 2014 are changing and arent getting better,time we start realizing before HER there was You.Me before WE mentality.
Aight brehs here I go 
I'm 20. Never been with anyone, relationship or sexually. I've grown outta being super shy but I'm not great at initiating conversations and I'm a dude of few words anyway till I been around someone enough.
Most numbers I've gotten been thru class, mutual friends, basically multiple interactions till I say fukk it try it. I've liked 2 girls in high school on a serious note but shyt ain't go thru for different reasons. I ain't been trying my luck since cause I haven't had the income to go out.
Now I got my first job and been thinking about trying to play the field a little but between school, work, and recording music I don't think I'll have time/energy to be dealing with 3-4 chicks at once. I've thought of scooping just one decent chick I like to cuff for some experience and let it rock till its time up, but my job is a revolving schedule (weekend-heavy though, movie theater) and I don't wanna worry about/find out she seeing other nikkas cause we can't chill every time she wants...
Advice brehs?
I'm 20. Never been with anyone, relationship or sexually. I've grown outta being super shy but I'm not great at initiating conversations and I'm a dude of few words anyway till I been around someone enough.
Most numbers I've gotten been thru class, mutual friends, basically multiple interactions till I say fukk it try it. I've liked 2 girls in high school on a serious note but shyt ain't go thru for different reasons. I ain't been trying my luck since cause I haven't had the income to go out.
Now I got my first job and been thinking about trying to play the field a little but between school, work, and recording music I don't think I'll have time/energy to be dealing with 3-4 chicks at once. I've thought of scooping just one decent chick I like to cuff for some experience and let it rock till its time up, but my job is a revolving schedule (weekend-heavy though, movie theater) and I don't wanna worry about/find out she seeing other nikkas cause we can't chill every time she wants...
Advice brehs?
this kind of stuff
is what had me posting THIS kind of stuff over the weekend
It really did seem like I couldn't get her to wrap her head around the fact that, yeah.. I walked out of a damn near 5 year relationship at what seemed like the drop of a dime....
But I did it because our relationship was ONE SIDED. It was all about her. It wasn't about US. And I had been stressing that fact for THREE YEARS. And as SOON as I said fukk it either meet me half way or not at all, she stopped talking.... and I stopped chasing.
And the VERY FIRST (okay not first. She accused me of lying about not drinking since the 8th first, which made me wanna spit in her face) thing she did was give me a list of demands that SHE wanted, things that SHE wanted to do and things she wanted done for HER... "because a woman has needs".
After a bunch of wasted time going back and forth and me pointing out to her how selfish she was, how she felt like she didn't make mistakes or ever apologized for shyt because of it and how she didn't contribute jack shyt to the relationship but herself except on them 4 holidays a year, she tells me I'm dark and bitter and need mental help (I'm not gonna confirm or deny that). Then she starts crying and says "All I did was tell you that I missed you".
After a lifetime of dealing with this type of trifling shyt from my mom til now, I got so much anger, bitterness and frustration buzzing in my head that I can't even function.
is what had me posting THIS kind of stuff over the weekend
Why did my last ex have to show up like that?
WHY!?
i know why.
i know why.....
It really did seem like I couldn't get her to wrap her head around the fact that, yeah.. I walked out of a damn near 5 year relationship at what seemed like the drop of a dime....
But I did it because our relationship was ONE SIDED. It was all about her. It wasn't about US. And I had been stressing that fact for THREE YEARS. And as SOON as I said fukk it either meet me half way or not at all, she stopped talking.... and I stopped chasing.
And the VERY FIRST (okay not first. She accused me of lying about not drinking since the 8th first, which made me wanna spit in her face) thing she did was give me a list of demands that SHE wanted, things that SHE wanted to do and things she wanted done for HER... "because a woman has needs".
After a bunch of wasted time going back and forth and me pointing out to her how selfish she was, how she felt like she didn't make mistakes or ever apologized for shyt because of it and how she didn't contribute jack shyt to the relationship but herself except on them 4 holidays a year, she tells me I'm dark and bitter and need mental help (I'm not gonna confirm or deny that). Then she starts crying and says "All I did was tell you that I missed you".
After a lifetime of dealing with this type of trifling shyt from my mom til now, I got so much anger, bitterness and frustration buzzing in my head that I can't even function.
this kind of stuff
is what had me posting THIS kind of stuff over the weekend
It really did seem like I couldn't get her to wrap her head around the fact that, yeah.. I walked out of a damn near 5 year relationship at what seemed like the drop of a dime....
But I did it because our relationship was ONE SIDED. It was all about her. It wasn't about US. And I had been stressing that fact for THREE YEARS. And as SOON as I said fukk it either meet me half way or not at all, she stopped talking.... and I stopped chasing.
And the VERY FIRST (okay not first. She accused me of lying about not drinking since the 8th first, which made me wanna spit in her face) thing she did was give me a list of demands that SHE wanted, things that SHE wanted to do and things she wanted done for HER... "because a woman has needs".
After a bunch of wasted time going back and forth and me pointing out to her how selfish she was, how she felt like she didn't make mistakes or ever apologized for shyt because of it and how she didn't contribute jack shyt to the relationship but herself except on them 4 holidays a year, she tells me I'm dark and bitter and need mental help (I'm not gonna confirm or deny that). Then she starts crying and says "All I did was tell you that I missed you".
After a lifetime of dealing with this type of trifling shyt from my mom til now, I got so much anger, bitterness and frustration buzzing in my head that I can't even function.
Sounds like you've been emotionally manipulated by women for a long time... they have a great way of 'flipping the script', and even though THEY did something wrong, they have a way of making you seem like you're doing wrong. Your job is not to cater or serve women or look for their approval, but through this simped-out culture full of captain save-ems and single mother households, men have been covertly taught to worship women and put them on the pedestal. The one thing a woman can do is emotionally abuse you if you let her. Insinuate things here or there, yell and scream at you and all kinds of other things to constantly make you feel like you're at fault for not giving her her way. Best thing to do is give these type of women the boot.
Best thing to do is to take some time off from women and you'll begin to realize how much you've been emotionally manipulated when you are out of the haze.
The reality of the situation is that you can't control what someone else does. You can, however control what YOU do, and you can control the behavior you allow if someone is to be in your company and how you structure your interactions with others.
Here is why I recommend focusing on yourself first and foremost. The more you focus on yourself, the more you build up your natural, inherent worth. The less thirsty you will be because you have things going on in your life... and you are also building long-term structural solidity. What do I mean by that? You are building the attitude that prevents you from becoming overly reliant on one woman. When you become such a man of value that you have all kinds of women wanting you, if you find one acting up and starting to play around in your life, you give her the boot a lot easier because you know there are other women waiting to take her place. When you are really mentally strong, you can give her the boot even if you don't have another woman wanting to step in immediately.
The key is to not deal with women just to deal with women. They need to add VALUE to your life and if they can't do that, don't deal with them. Letting a woman step in and add all kinds of stress and drama when that doesn't have to realistically exist is playing the game backwards. In Japan, you actually have women going to 'hostess bars' where they pay men to talk and interact with them. Why is that happening? Because there are a large population of men who simply refuse to deal with women over there. I'm not telling you to 'not deal with women', but I'm illustrating the power of scarcity. When you have high value and you don't give out your time and attention easily, you are in a much better position to deal with women. When women know they are in a situation of dealing with a high-value man who plays no games, she will be a lot less likely to screw around because she doesn't want to lose her chance. Remember, women will do what you allow them to do.
So then, if a woman is going to deal with you on any serious level, make sure she brings something to the table and do not accept disrespect. Chop it up with a woman when you have time, but be way more focused on other endeavors... improving your relationship with God, handling business, chilling with friends, etc. You have to get your life to a point where if a woman leaves you or if you aren't getting female at any particular point in time, you're not missing a beat and don't have an iota of concern because you have so much else going on for you. This eliminates desperation and improves your standing.
Here is why I recommend focusing on yourself first and foremost. The more you focus on yourself, the more you build up your natural, inherent worth. The less thirsty you will be because you have things going on in your life... and you are also building long-term structural solidity. What do I mean by that? You are building the attitude that prevents you from becoming overly reliant on one woman. When you become such a man of value that you have all kinds of women wanting you, if you find one acting up and starting to play around in your life, you give her the boot a lot easier because you know there are other women waiting to take her place. When you are really mentally strong, you can give her the boot even if you don't have another woman wanting to step in immediately.
The key is to not deal with women just to deal with women. They need to add VALUE to your life and if they can't do that, don't deal with them. Letting a woman step in and add all kinds of stress and drama when that doesn't have to realistically exist is playing the game backwards. In Japan, you actually have women going to 'hostess bars' where they pay men to talk and interact with them. Why is that happening? Because there are a large population of men who simply refuse to deal with women over there. I'm not telling you to 'not deal with women', but I'm illustrating the power of scarcity. When you have high value and you don't give out your time and attention easily, you are in a much better position to deal with women. When women know they are in a situation of dealing with a high-value man who plays no games, she will be a lot less likely to screw around because she doesn't want to lose her chance. Remember, women will do what you allow them to do.
So then, if a woman is going to deal with you on any serious level, make sure she brings something to the table and do not accept disrespect. Chop it up with a woman when you have time, but be way more focused on other endeavors... improving your relationship with God, handling business, chilling with friends, etc. You have to get your life to a point where if a woman leaves you or if you aren't getting female at any particular point in time, you're not missing a beat and don't have an iota of concern because you have so much else going on for you. This eliminates desperation and improves your standing.
