Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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she lying to you? that's your girl, so give her the warning i guess, but she's flirting with :camby:status shortly
yeah, i already caught her in some fukk shyt before. the other day she said i better not be talking to no other girls, so someone feeling guilty:pachaha:
This.

What you really need to do is make a troll account & spit game to her and see what she does. Find some handsome ass nikka from the bodybuilding forum (n/h). Add a bunch of people before adding her though, to make it look legit.(i dont know if people can see who you're friends with) Theres a thread in the arcadium with alot of ppl posting their bbm pins, add them all.
Yeah i learned dark eventually comes to light with girls these days :youngsabo:
 

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yeah, i already caught her in some fukk shyt before. the other day she said i better not be talking to no other girls, so someone feeling guilty:pachaha:

Yeah i learned dark eventually comes to light with girls these days :youngsabo:


whenever someone accuses you of cheating, or brings up you better not be talking to girls etc. they are the ones knee deep in dirt
 

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Where there's smoke, there's fire. You heard the saying. Once you get that feeling your woman is doing something shady and you start seeing little things, it's usually way deeper than you know about or it's about to escalate. With social media, don't add your girl. Just keep tabs on her without you saying anything. One of the most important things to do is to see how your girl acts when you aren't around. Never consider a girl seriously if you don't know how she acts when she isn't around you.
 

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fukk all that, either fire her or demote her to j/o status for lying. fukk what she's doing at this point. all that time and energy spent on trying to figure out what it is could be spent on trying to be happier. you already said you caught her once in some fukk shyt. If i caught my chick in some shady shyt and by some miracle i give her a chance, she better not even give me a reason for me to suspect something cause i wouldnt give a fukk if she could be innocent. at this very moment, why do you still want her to be your girl? at this very moment why isn't she in the bushes yet?

at this very moment, why does she still get to benefit from what you provide for her when she has repeatedly show you disrespect? If you don't value what you provide to her, she will not value it either and will keep disrespecting your sacrafice.
 

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If your worrying about any woman that isnt related to you,you need to re-evaluate yourselves.One thing about women is they always have or find a way or have multiple options.See SOME women will play dumb with you,they have their ways and know what they are doing. 99% of time.Gotta watch for patterns.Ol girl acting funny and is changin its for a reason.
 

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fukk all that, either fire her or demote her to j/o status for lying. fukk what she's doing at this point. all that time and energy spent on trying to figure out what it is could be spent on trying to be happier. you already said you caught her once in some fukk shyt. If i caught my chick in some shady shyt and by some miracle i give her a chance, she better not even give me a reason for me to suspect something cause i wouldnt give a fukk if she could be innocent. at this very moment, why do you still want her to be your girl? at this very moment why isn't she in the bushes yet?

at this very moment, why does she still get to benefit from what you provide for her when she has repeatedly show you disrespect? If you don't value what you provide to her, she will not value it either and will keep disrespecting your sacrafice.
Yall nikkaz bring that piff game:wow:
 

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Bottom line, especially if you're young is that any girl you deal with, mentally you need to prepare for her walking out on you. Condition your mind and see yourself letting her go. Why do I say that? Because you never know what a woman is liable to do, especially in this day and age so you better be ready for them to walk out.

Honestly, I wouldn't even focus on women that much if I were you. Focus on handling your business, becoming a better man, get your passport, stack your money and get out of this country. This country is poisonous to relationships. if you happen to find a solid woman along the way, coo, give her a shot, but don't waste time chasing these women around. This country is going down the drain and you want to have the options to get out if you can.
 

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I meant to post this a month ago when it first went up.

The first point he made about not dealing with a woman who calls you a "gentleman" is totally on point. If you ain't my grandma then don't come at me with the "aww you're a real gentleman/nice guy" bullshyt, because I know what that means so you can take that shyt elsewhere to those simps and manginas you have on a leash. I'm not the one for that, so don't try me.

But as for that point he made about not trusting a woman who doesn't use social media, I don't know what the fukk he's talking about and frankly that shyt is just backwards. The reasons he gave were pretty immature and downright silly if I'm going to be honest. The woman who doesn't bother with the attention whoring on social media is the real gem as far as I'm concerned. Maybe she's content with e-mail, skype and using her mobile phone and actually socialising in person. The women he's referring to must only be western women, cos in other countries where the women are simply better quality in every way overall in general, they don't fukk with social media nearly as much as they do where we are. So is he saying we shouldn't trust them too? Apart from a twitter that I use to follow the company I'll be working for as well as music, electronics, sporting and social events, I don't bother with FB either because I just don't have a need to at this moment in time. If a chick wasn't into social media too tough, then I'd go for her more than I would with a chick who is on every single damn social media site on the web.
 

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Need some help.

Chick at work is digging me and just begging for me to make a move on her.:lupe:

Thing is she not that cute plus she has 2 kids.:merchant:

She thinks im this young nikka driving a pathfinder who don't talk much and is melo.:takedat:

But on the real im broke,that my moms car,and i don't like to talk because i have a loud voice and mom always told me to talk slower and softer..........:wow:

Today i guess she got fed up with me not asking for her number or just making small talk so she yelled at me in a joking way .:rudy:

I guess this was her shyt test to see if i was going to man up i just lol at her and said is that it?:stopitslime::russ:

She say im just joking mike ,then blushed......:whew:

After that she just try to hang around me some more making small talk.:camby:

Thing is i don't want to even smash her she don't make my dikk hard nh even when i look at her ass.:ehh:

But these two young white chicks be giving me the eyes i want to talk to them to smash but i don't want to seem like a c00n.
:mjpls::mjpls:
 

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Need some help.

Chick at work is digging me and just begging for me to make a move on her.:lupe:

Thing is she not that cute plus she has 2 kids.:merchant:

She thinks im this young nikka driving a pathfinder who don't talk much and is melo.:takedat:

But on the real im broke,that my moms car,and i don't like to talk because i have a loud voice and mom always told me to talk slower and softer..........:wow:

Today i guess she got fed up with me not asking for her number or just making small talk so she yelled at me in a joking way .:rudy:

I guess this was her shyt test to see if i was going to man up i just lol at her and said is that it?:stopitslime::russ:

She say im just joking mike ,then blushed......:whew:

After that she just try to hang around me some more making small talk.:camby:

Thing is i don't want to even smash her she don't make my dikk hard nh even when i look at her ass.:ehh:

But these two young white chicks be giving me the eyes i want to talk to them to smash but i don't want to seem like a c00n.
:mjpls::mjpls:



It doesn't seem complicated to me at all, dude. What is there to think about? If you don't like her like that, you don't like her. :yeshrug: She probably sees you as a naive and easy target cos you're young and quiet and seemingly trouble free. From what you described she sounds like a fukking headache and borderline nutcase.

Just be professional and keep it moving. Despite what a lot of these simp dudes say (in this thread for example: http://www.thecoli.com/threads/keep-bein-scared-to-talk-to-women-brehs.158691/) , you're not obligated to do anything else. I've said it many times on this board, I'm not a fan of messing with chicks at work anyway. Times are way too hard to jeopardise your standing in the workplace, especially as a black male.
 

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Need some help.

Chick at work is digging me and just begging for me to make a move on her.:lupe:

Thing is she not that cute plus she has 2 kids.:merchant:

She thinks im this young nikka driving a pathfinder who don't talk much and is melo.:takedat:

But on the real im broke,that my moms car,and i don't like to talk because i have a loud voice and mom always told me to talk slower and softer..........:wow:

Today i guess she got fed up with me not asking for her number or just making small talk so she yelled at me in a joking way .:rudy:

I guess this was her shyt test to see if i was going to man up i just lol at her and said is that it?:stopitslime::russ:

She say im just joking mike ,then blushed......:whew:

After that she just try to hang around me some more making small talk.:camby:

Thing is i don't want to even smash her she don't make my dikk hard nh even when i look at her ass.:ehh:

But these two young white chicks be giving me the eyes i want to talk to them to smash but i don't want to seem like a c00n.
:mjpls::mjpls:


not sure what help you need just keep it moving like the other poster said if u don't wanna smash or anything like just go about your business

if u wanna be blount and be an ass which is up too you . this is what i tend too do if a female i know i aint thinking bout keep bothering me

i say you like me or wanna go out sometime regardless of her answer i just say.

first the nice way say i appreciate the flirting and small talk but its not gonna happen cuz i aint feeling u like that

when she don't wanna listen.

seriously chill the fukk out I'm not playing go fukk with somebody who will give you the time of day cuz i sure the hell aint deuces
 

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I meant to post this a month ago when it first went up.

The first point he made about not dealing with a woman who calls you a "gentleman" is totally on point. If you ain't my grandma then don't come at me with the "aww you're a real gentleman/nice guy" bullshyt, because I know what that means so you can take that shyt elsewhere to those simps and manginas you have on a leash. I'm not the one for that, so don't try me.

But as for that point he made about not trusting a woman who doesn't use social media, I don't know what the fukk he's talking about and frankly that shyt is just backwards. The reasons he gave were pretty immature and downright silly if I'm going to be honest. The woman who doesn't bother with the attention whoring on social media is the real gem as far as I'm concerned. Maybe she's content with e-mail, skype and using her mobile phone and actually socialising in person. The women he's referring to must only be western women, cos in other countries where the women are simply better quality in every way overall in general, they don't fukk with social media nearly as much as they do where we are. So is he saying we shouldn't trust them too? Apart from a twitter that I use to follow the company I'll be working for as well as music, electronics, sporting and social events, I don't bother with FB either because I just don't have a need to at this moment in time. If a chick wasn't into social media too tough, then I'd go for her more than I would with a chick who is on every single damn social media site on the web.


probably thinks if she uses social media, she'll be easier to track/investigate etc. that's a defeatist attitude from the jump. fact is, people are going to hide what they want to - even the ratchet ones on social media probably doing even worse offline. i might use social media to do some vetting, but it's only going to serve as confirmation or additional evidence of something i pretty much already know to be true.
 
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