well damn, Reincar why you tell how you really feel?
breh sometimes i just grab a donut and coffee and read marriage forums and see my husband left me after 15 years, my wife left me for a co worker and your just like damn
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breh sometimes i just grab a donut and coffee and read marriage forums and see my husband left me after 15 years, my wife left me for a co worker and your just like damn
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Malikthegod
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Told this chick I've been talking to I copped us 2 tickets to go to the food truck festival. She was like cool but it's the same day as this clippers game she wanted me to go to with her, so she was like we can do both. This was yesterday...and now today she hits me like I have to buy my own tickets to the game she wanted me to go to her with 
Kenny West
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Told this chick I've been talking to I copped us 2 tickets to go to the food truck festival. She was like cool but it's the same day as this clippers game she wanted me to go to with her, so she was like we can do both. This was yesterday...and now today she hits me like I have to buy my own tickets to the game she wanted me to go to her with
I woulda text back like "welp
food truck it is"
Sounds like she found someone else to go.
Respond back, "Nah, I'm coo"
and keep it pushing and take someone else. No use in dealing with someone who renegs on you. That's very disrespectful and maintaining respect is paramount. Imagine if you asked a girl out to dinner to an expensive restaurant and told her you had everything paid for, but on the day of, you said, if you want to come, you're going to have to pay for yourself. She would blow up. Women don't accept that, so why should men? Remember, we as men have to always hold our self-respect over the company of a woman. Women that pull stunts like that are out the door anyways. It's up to you whether you want to leave with your self-dignity intact or ruined by giving her a free experience and then have her jet to the left on you.
Respond back, "Nah, I'm coo"
and keep it pushing and take someone else. No use in dealing with someone who renegs on you. That's very disrespectful and maintaining respect is paramount. Imagine if you asked a girl out to dinner to an expensive restaurant and told her you had everything paid for, but on the day of, you said, if you want to come, you're going to have to pay for yourself. She would blow up. Women don't accept that, so why should men? Remember, we as men have to always hold our self-respect over the company of a woman. Women that pull stunts like that are out the door anyways. It's up to you whether you want to leave with your self-dignity intact or ruined by giving her a free experience and then have her jet to the left on you.
ya the asian
i dont know if she is married rather not know too be honest
at me feeling the scar burn everytime our song comes on which was alicia keys if i aint got you
Ha i have the alicia keys-fallin on my ipod for when i go to the gym. That rage n intensitie it brings, my heart burns while my mucles burn.
Desirous
Action expresses priorities
Cause people don't really post in forums like that when they're happy...they go to vent when they're heartbroken or hurt (so that they don't feel like they're the only ones going through it)...when they're happy and together, they communicate to each other and not to everyone else...so you probably only see the negative side of things. I don't see my parents on fb talking about "omg we are so happily married blah blah" lol they keep their personal business off the net.
I agree to an extent that the happy people are rarely featured, but on the other hand I also feel that there's a lack of morality with a lot of people, making a long-term commitment a lot harder to find. They weren't perfect in our parents generation, but overall, the attitudes are much different in general. Back then, you had songs about love playing, but now you have songs about lust playing. There's a lot of small factors as well as large that creates a huge divergence in mindsets between now and then... and if you aren't savvy, things won't be pretty.
So, long story short I met this chick for the first time 2 years ago. She's my homegirl's best friend and room mate. We been flirting on and off since that time. We rarely see each other but when we do we always have a good time together. We've laid up together watching movies and what not but nothing sexual has happened. Last time I saw her was February because our schedules have been so busy.
Over this summer she texted me and told me she really liked me.
This woman is ideal for me. Tall, smart, beautiful, conscious Black woman with a Biology degree. I could easily see myself locking her down.
I see her for the first time since February this Friday and I'm contemplating telling her how I feel about her. Is that a bad idea brehs? I don't want to play it overly cool and I dont want to spill my guts. I'm not sure which way to go with this. I want to cuff her, pickings are slim out here these days when you're looking for a certain kind of Black woman.
Maybe ill just read this thread to see if any ideas catch my eye, but any advice would be helpful.
Over this summer she texted me and told me she really liked me.
This woman is ideal for me. Tall, smart, beautiful, conscious Black woman with a Biology degree. I could easily see myself locking her down.
I see her for the first time since February this Friday and I'm contemplating telling her how I feel about her. Is that a bad idea brehs? I don't want to play it overly cool and I dont want to spill my guts. I'm not sure which way to go with this. I want to cuff her, pickings are slim out here these days when you're looking for a certain kind of Black woman.
Maybe ill just read this thread to see if any ideas catch my eye, but any advice would be helpful.
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Told this chick I've been talking to I copped us 2 tickets to go to the food truck festival. She was like cool but it's the same day as this clippers game she wanted me to go to with her, so she was like we can do both. This was yesterday...and now today she hits me like I have to buy my own tickets to the game she wanted me to go to her with
huh? she wants you to pay for the ticket?
edit: NM seems like she got someone else to go. that's lame - and it's probably your fault for having the gall to have something else for yall two to do. i'd just go to the festival and tell her to show up if she wants. even that seems generous, but food puts me in a good mood brehs
In the documentary The Last Days of Left Eye, TLC member Lisa "Left Eye" Lopes said she was 100% against the release of "Creep" as a single, and threatened to wear black tape over her mouth in the music video. She thought that when a girl finds out that her man is cheating on her, the girl better leave rather than cheat back.
CrossBones
Louder than words
dont tell her too much. youre right, dont spill your guts. just step to her and see if shes down. dont ever let it slip out that shes worthy of cuffing, or try to start cupcaking with her and being extra nice to her or whatever. you have to remain on top and never be under her thumb. it is a battle of the sexes, but its all give and take. so you absolutely should let her know your intentions of getting to know her better, but dont let it out that you think shes wifey material. dont come out the gate way too strong with your feelings. thats gonna gas her up, so say the least. you dont even know if she feels the same way about you, so that would make things awkward on her end if you come out strong like that and she doesnt even see you the same.
also, men who talk about how they feel all the time, arent really liked by women like that. women like that men are cooler than them and can use their heads better. that stability is what they secretly want. so you need to keep your upper hand and be good on your end no matter what she says or wants to do. youre still about yours. also, you both need to get to know each other through a relationship before you decide if anyone is worthy of a serious committment.
see one of the biggest dangers in life is when a woman starts thinking that youre already locked in ... because she could take it as, you will always be there for her. no matter what.
women, no matter how nice they are, can get gassed up and start to take liberties with their situation. give em too much, and they tend to put men in certain "spaces", and will see them differently when they hear too much come out of his mouth. they might put a good man on the backburner, when they think theyve already got him in their pocket. theyll go out, look around while knowing that this man be there for her anyways.
its something thats in romantic comedies and romance movies but it happens a lot, where the woman feels that she can do whatever she wants in the meantime before she settles for with this one particular guy, because she knows that man will be there in the end and he "will wait for her" regardless
dont put yourself in that place by saying too much. keep your pimp hand strong, and let your actions speak louder than your words. in short, Id say just step to her and tell her that youre interested. it shouldnt have to be any more than that. if shes interested in you too, then there really shouldnt be any more issue and you dont have to worry about saying too much anyways. you get with her, see if her habits and attitude is cool with you, find out what shes like in a relationship, and then keep going from there.
saying too much, is like leaving yourself open. dont ever leave yourself open and advertise your willingness to commit to her. committment is something she has to work for anyways. see your commitment to her is something that you hold over her, just like how women hold their p*ssy over men. breh, dont give all that up too early, just holla and see if shes down. good luck, playa
dont tell her too much. youre right, dont spill your guts. just step to her and see if shes down. dont ever let it slip out that shes worthy of cuffing, or try to start cupcaking with her and being extra nice to her or whatever. you have to remain on top and never be under her thumb. it is a battle of the sexes, but its all give and take. so you absolutely should let her know your intentions of getting to know her better, but dont let it out that you think shes wifey material. dont come out the gate way too strong with your feelings. thats gonna gas her up, so say the least. you dont even know if she feels the same way about you, so that would make things awkward on her end if you come out strong like that and she doesnt even see you the same.
also, men who talk about how they feel all the time, arent really liked by women like that. women like that men are cooler than them and can use their heads better. that stability is what they secretly want. so you need to keep your upper hand and be good on your end no matter what she says or wants to do. youre still about yours. also, you both need to get to know each other through a relationship before you decide if anyone is worthy of a serious committment.
see one of the biggest dangers in life is when a woman starts thinking that youre already locked in ... because she could take it as, you will always be there for her. no matter what.
women, no matter how nice they are, can get gassed up and start to take liberties with their situation. give em too much, and they tend to put men in certain "spaces", and will see them differently when they hear too much come out of his mouth. they might put a good man on the backburner, when they think theyve already got him in their pocket. theyll go out, look around while knowing that this man be there for her anyways.
dont put yourself in that place by saying too much. keep your pimp hand strong, and let your actions speak louder than your words. in short, Id say just step to her and tell her that youre interested. it shouldnt have to be any more than that. if shes interested in you too, then there really shouldnt be any more issue and you dont have to worry about saying too much anyways. you get with her, see if her habits and attitude is cool with you, find out what shes like in a relationship, and then keep going from there.
saying too much, is like leaving yourself open. dont ever leave yourself open and advertise your willingness to commit to her. committment is something she has to work for anyways. see your commitment to her is something that you hold over her, just like how women hold their p*ssy over men. breh, dont give all that up too early, just holla and see if shes down. good luck, playa
Fam....thank you. You are now "dap on sight" status for me.
I had sex with my ex last night, brehs. Might've just heaved myself into another realm of fukkery.
commitment is the male vagina
