Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[360dagod]

a chick got friend zoned today brehs

That shyt infuriates them...espically ones with no kids....

Single moms for the most part don't even care

 

[JackM]

Don't over think it when it comes 2 relationships, interaction, etc., wit females.

Just be ya self, don't chase, don't be all up under em', and everything is everything.

 

[Flay Mayweather]

That shyt infuriates them...espically ones with no kids....

Single moms for the most part don't even care

she don't have kids
Caught her off guard and was like we friends, nothing more
I know she was like

Friend zone a chick brehs

 

[360dagod]

she don't have kids
Caught her off guard and was like we friends, nothing more
I know she was like

Friend zone a chick brehs

Did that to two chicks...

They will try even harder until they just stop dealing with you...

 

[MBwithadream]

@kevm3 A question I gotta ask?

Is it wise to to ask a favor from a girl to send to girl who neccessary ain't in the right terms with now?

I was full of shyt when typed that, I feel a bit better now.

 

[Loud Still Coolin]

dumb bytches

 

[WEED]

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[kevm3]

This is a pretty interesting read

http://voices.yahoo.com/women-control-men-128757.html?cat=41
I must start with first saying, "Stand up and be a man!" Women can only control a man who allows himself to be controlled. Love does not mean giving up your friends or only talking to the friends she chooses for you to talk to. It also doesn't mean she gets to make all of the decisions in your life. If you are a man being controlled and you can't see that, you most likely need some serious help.
Women who control their men are in a much larger power struggle within themselves than they are with the men they control. The man is not the issue and what he does right or wrong, assuming he does anything right, is also not the issue. She has problems that need to be dealt with and controlling her man certainly doesn't need to be a part of it. Again, as the man being controlled, you are allowing it. Stop already!

If you are a man in this type of relationship and you think for one moment you're going to change her, you're sadly mistaken. She is the only one that can change her. That is one decision she most certainly must make for herself. You will not find some magic potion to suddenly make her share the decision making with you. The problem is much, much deeper.

Typically, controlling women break down a man's confidence in himself little by little until the man begins to believe he is nothing without her. Controlling women are manipulative and intimidating. They are often so good at this; they make the man feel he is the one responsible for making her angry or upset. She may often accuse him of be uncaring or insensitive to her feelings. Often, the man begins to feel it was indeed all his fault. Many men with low self-esteem will continue to allow this to happen. Often, he will change his behavior to "keep the peace" or simply to escape the circumstance causing the current episode. Along with this, his self-esteem plummets even further.

Controlling relationships tend to come in phases. Did she take your breath away? Did she sweep you off of your feet? Many times, this is how it all begins. Then she finds small ways to be manipulative and break down self-confidence. She can turn every conversation into something he has done, such as being uncaring or hurting her feelings.
Suddenly, he finds himself completely in love with this control freak and wants to believe the woman that swept him off of his feet will return. Sadly enough, without some serious intervention, that most likely will never happen.

In all relationships, there are leaders and there are followers. For the most part, that's quite healthy. However, when the woman spends most of her energy trying to control her man, she needs to look deep within herself and find out where this issue comes from. These women must learn to understand that you can't gain control of your own life by controlling others. You can only gain control on your own life by controlling yourself.

Until the controlling woman faces this fact and deals with it, she will not change. She will continue to prey upon those men with low enough self-esteem to suck them into her controlling way of life and she will continue to feed on these men for as long as they will allow it.

 

[MikelArteta]

sometimes i just look around myself see relationships end left and lright and think about my own past relationships and i think love never works:many:. Sure there is the occasional success story (but often times with those, one person secretly wants out), but for the most part it seems impossible for two people to stay in love.

It either seems someone gets their heart broken and/or someone wants out. I have been on both sides of the equation and I still can't decide which is worse.

But but there is the fabled one that special someone. That special someone will never find you because they don't exist. If they do, they will end up leaving you anyway. Why put yourself through the pain when the end result is always the same?

why

 

[twan83]

sometimes i just look around myself see relationships end left and lright and think about my own past relationships and i think love never works:many:. Sure there is the occasional success story (but often times with those, one person secretly wants out), but for the most part it seems impossible for two people to stay in love.

It either seems someone gets their heart broken and/or someone wants out. I have been on both sides of the equation and I still can't decide which is worse.

But but there is the fabled one that special someone. That special someone will never find you because they don't exist. If they do, they will end up leaving you anyway. Why put yourself through the pain when the end result is always the same?

why

my scar will never heal from her and she changed me too a somewhat of an a$$hole too majority of being an a$$hole too them then again it does benefit being one if she gets out of line

 

[twan83]

This is a pretty interesting read

that article you posted says it all and that was the way i was with my first love but it was like that blind love you lose yourself in that love your control and whole being cuz ur clouded of how she makes you feel and u never felt that way before u just know all u want is too be with her no matter what it takes or how much shyt she gives or the lies she tells or when she is wrong even when ur right u just agree with her and apologize

u should never go into love blind

fukk i hated that feeling just remembering makes me



on the bright side a mistake i never made again since then

 

[MikelArteta]

my scar will never heal from her and she changed me too a somewhat of an @sshole too majority of being an @sshole too them then again it does benefit being one if she gets out of line

which girl was this? that asian?

but your married now is she?

 

[twan83]

which girl was this? that asian?

but your married now is she?

ya the asian

i dont know if she is married rather not know too be honest

at me feeling the scar burn everytime our song comes on which was alicia keys if i aint got you

 

[kevm3]

When it's said and done, all men have to realize that women will push the boundaries with you and see how far they go and a woman will only do what she senses you will let her do. So set them boundaries real quick and real fast. I wish this was a lovely, perfect world where you could be happy and joyous and everything will magically set in place, but if you don't set up some boundaries and create some real repercussions for her breaking them, then she will roll all over you and then leave you for 'being weak.'

So one of the main rules to keep in mind is you don't have to put up with a woman's nonsense, and in fact, you will be rewarded if you don't. For one, she could peel off and that's a blessing because you wont' have a drama monger creating all sorts of havoc in your life, or two, she can get it right and stop acting in that foul fashion, which is also a blessing, because you won't have to deal with a woman bringing all kinds of disarray in your life.

As a man, you are accountable for YOUR life and it is up to you to determine how people around you treat you. If they are disrespectful, get them up from around you.

 

[MBwithadream]

sometimes i just look around myself see relationships end left and lright and think about my own past relationships and i think love never works:many:. Sure there is the occasional success story (but often times with those, one person secretly wants out), but for the most part it seems impossible for two people to stay in love.

It either seems someone gets their heart broken and/or someone wants out. I have been on both sides of the equation and I still can't decide which is worse.

But but there is the fabled one that special someone. That special someone will never find you because they don't exist. If they do, they will end up leaving you anyway. Why put yourself through the pain when the end result is always the same?

why

well damn, Reincar why you tell how you really feel?