Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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Who's in your gaggle? | Love + Sex - Yahoo! Shine

Adhering to the principles laid out in this thread is a perfect defense against this BS.

That's how entitled some of these modern women are. They actually think it's a legitimate way of dealing with men to have different men for different categories.

Boyfriend = guy she cuddles with and leeches off of... listens to her problems, helps pay for her school

"Hot Sex Guy" = guy that she cheats on her boyfriend with who does nothing but hits it and quits it. The guy she gives her boyfriend's money to and the person who she is with when 'she's busy'.

Self-Esteem Booster = Guy with no game who pretends to be a friend but has to listen to her problems

lol is it any surprise that these women are outwardly saying this is ok? This is one of the exact reasons why this thread was created. For some reason, a lot of these modern women think it's perfectly fine to use a man and discard him and depending on the knowledge you have and how you come at these women, you will be stuffed into one of these categories. NEVER be the 'favor guy', and you have to be very careful how you enter into the 'boyfriend' category. If you're the boyfriend because she begged to be in a relationship with you and she's doing all the right things, that's cool. If you were the one trying to be her boyfriend and you notice she keeps popping up busy, better get in motion and get outta there.
 

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lmfao is that what the article is about. i was saying the same shyt in an earlier post. crazy how the shyt we saying isnt even boosted or hyperbolic. smh
 

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As a man you need to reach a point where p*ssy does not effect your behavior at all. I'm talking about developing a p*ssy immunity. A man's greatest weakness is the desire to have sex with a woman. Sex may feel good but it can downright ruin your life or kill you even.

This is true
 

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That's how entitled some of these modern women are. They actually think it's a legitimate way of dealing with men to have different men for different categories.

Boyfriend = guy she cuddles with and leeches off of... listens to her problems, helps pay for her school

"Hot Sex Guy" = guy that she cheats on her boyfriend with who does nothing but hits it and quits it. The guy she gives her boyfriend's money to and the person who she is with when 'she's busy'.

Self-Esteem Booster = Guy with no game who pretends to be a friend but has to listen to her problems

lol is it any surprise that these women are outwardly saying this is ok? This is one of the exact reasons why this thread was created. For some reason, a lot of these modern women think it's perfectly fine to use a man and discard him and depending on the knowledge you have and how you come at these women, you will be stuffed into one of these categories. NEVER be the 'favor guy', and you have to be very careful how you enter into the 'boyfriend' category. If you're the boyfriend because she begged to be in a relationship with you and she's doing all the right things, that's cool. If you were the one trying to be her boyfriend and you notice she keeps popping up busy, better get in motion and get outta there.

There's nothing wrong with women and men building a team of people to fill roles in their lives. No one person is going to fill all the needs and roles in your life perfectly so why not build a team.

breaking away from the archaic conventional dating of one person being your partner and having to be committed in a monogamous relationship is the best way to be.

here you have several people in your life and they serve the purpose you need them to serve at your leisure and when you outgrow them you stop dealing with them and fill the role with someone else.
 

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That's how entitled some of these modern women are. They actually think it's a legitimate way of dealing with men to have different men for different categories.

Boyfriend = guy she cuddles with and leeches off of... listens to her problems, helps pay for her school

"Hot Sex Guy" = guy that she cheats on her boyfriend with who does nothing but hits it and quits it. The guy she gives her boyfriend's money to and the person who she is with when 'she's busy'.

Self-Esteem Booster = Guy with no game who pretends to be a friend but has to listen to her problems

lol is it any surprise that these women are outwardly saying this is ok? This is one of the exact reasons why this thread was created. For some reason, a lot of these modern women think it's perfectly fine to use a man and discard him and depending on the knowledge you have and how you come at these women, you will be stuffed into one of these categories. NEVER be the 'favor guy', and you have to be very careful how you enter into the 'boyfriend' category. If you're the boyfriend because she begged to be in a relationship with you and she's doing all the right things, that's cool. If you were the one trying to be her boyfriend and you notice she keeps popping up busy, better get in motion and get outta there.

"Gaggles" can be very dangerous.
I used to have something like this, minus the "hotsexguy", but can't anymore... Most men know the deal and get real bitter about being in the friend zone. They start acting like bytches and who needs to deal with all that mess. It is much easier to just keep your man.

These days, if I want a male perspective, I either ask a male family member or if I'm looking for an unbiased opinion, I just post it on here. Lord knows y'all will give me answers from every perspective. And for a self esteem boost, I get my hair done or some ish.
 

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"Gaggles" can be very dangerous.
I used to have something like this, minus the "hotsexguy", but can't anymore... Most men know the deal and get real bitter about being in the friend zone. They start acting like bytches and who needs to deal with all that mess. It is much easier to just keep your man.

These days, if I want a male perspective, I either ask a male family member or if I'm looking for an unbiased opinion, I just post it on here. Lord knows y'all will give me answers from every perspective. And for a self esteem boost, I get my hair done or some ish.

A lot of those "nice guys" are sneaky and try to be 'friends' first and upgrade the relationship later, and that is their fault they get put in a zone. I have no problem when a woman has to 'friend zone' a guy because she isn't feeling him or he's trying to be sneaky.

On the other hand you have those slick women that like to use men and have different men for different purposes... one guy to cuddle with. another guy to fix her car or computer. another guy for some other purpose and she leads them all on so she can keep getting those favors. Anyone that keeps people around just to utilize them for favors using the fact that the other person likes them as leverage isn't a person to be around.
 

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A lot of those "nice guys" are sneaky and try to be 'friends' first and upgrade the relationship later, and that is their fault they get put in a zone. I have no problem when a woman has to 'friend zone' a guy because she isn't feeling him or he's trying to be sneaky.

On the other hand you have those slick women that like to use men and have different men for different purposes... one guy to cuddle with. another guy to fix her car or computer. another guy for some other purpose and she leads them all on so she can keep getting those favors. Anyone that keeps people around just to utilize them for favors using the fact that the other person likes them as leverage isn't a person to be around.

Yeah, found that out the hard way... Sneaky little fukkers.
 

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Yeah, found that out the hard way... Sneaky little fukkers.

do you actually think a guy just wants to be your friend?

this isn't elementary school, men just want to get in your pants for the most part unless he is gay, or the tiny percentage that is actually ok with a platonic friendship.

It's the same for both genders, when a male gets into a relationship his female friends disappear except the true ones, the same whena chick gets in a relationship all of her "guy friends" are gone
 

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do you actually think a guy just wants to be your friend?

this isn't elementary school, men just want to get in your pants for the most part unless he is gay, or the tiny percentage that is actually ok with a platonic friendship.

It's the same for both genders, when a male gets into a relationship his female friends disappear except the true ones, the same whena chick gets in a relationship all of her "guy friends" are gone

Exactly. Women aren't stupid. They know most guys want to hit.

They peep this and use dudes.
 

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Always do a thorough analysis of her friends. Especially her "best" friend.

Her "best" friend will constantly feed all types of sh!t to her.

If her "best" friend is a solid woman, you shouldn't have a problem.

But, if the "best" friend is anything other than solid, be prepared to deal with some BS.

It never fails.

Also peep how close she is to her mother. If she's too close, that's a red flag. Her mom will end up micromanaging the relationship on her daughter's part. Be up all in your sh!t.

You want a girl to have had a good relationship with her father. But, you don't want a girl who is a mama's girl...her mother's best friend. Don't do it, bros.
 

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Always do a thorough analysis of her friends. Especially her "best" friend.

Her "best" friend will constantly feed all types of sh!t to her.

If her "best" friend is a solid woman, you shouldn't have a problem.

But, if the "best" friend is anything other than solid, be prepared to deal with some BS.

It never fails.

Also peep how close she is to her mother. If she's too close, that's a red flag. Her mom will end up micromanaging the relationship on her daughter's part. Be up all in your sh!t.

You want a girl to have had a good relationship with her father. But, you don't want a girl who is a mama's girl...her mother's best friend. Don't do it, bros.
Avoid meeting her friends in the first place. Nothing good can come of it.
 
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