Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[MikelArteta]

Word. For anyone who wants to see the life of a former bad b!tch who's past her prime, yet trying to reform herself and rebuke her past stank demons - just tune into VH1...

Yup and the thing women don't understand most guys in their 30s without the baggage of kids or a prior marriage are not going to want to settle down.

A chicks number one asset is her beauty and once thats gone.

Every day chicks are turning 18 and 19, chicks who of you have a car and in shape will throw themselves at you because they are so delusional.

Men don't care about settling down, the Internet has open doors and men realize the divorce rates, te infidelity, how easily attainable sex is.

I'm not even bragging but in a short span Im talking a few months I slept with like 10 women after just having one partner prior my whole life, and it was so easy, just create a dating profile throw my pic up, make a desirable description, sit back and eat.

These chicks were giving it up the first night or second, I never asked ne'er pressured, but women know how all try have I their vagina to offer an the market is overpopulated with chicks handing it out that if they withhold.

The only reason I stopped my plow was because I went back to God , but it was so easy brehs, and that changed my philosophy on settling.


It's literally a gold mine out there, were any of these girls wifeable though? Nope

It's funny whenever I re activate my dating profile I still see them on there, new pictures, same old lies about wanting a good man and of your only interested in sex, acting all happy lol.

And as a male you can do this for ever if you want slores of all age exist.

 

[kevm3]

+Pretty much the women want that 'nice guy' to support them. They are only really sorry for their actions because the weight of all of their actions is finally catching up to them. They've had their legions of yes men and simps supporting and affirming their nonsense until they've lost the one thing that kept the whole charade going--their beauty. Really no different than some rapper filled with a crew of yes men who say how down they are until that rapper loses all of his money. When these women run off that last decent dude they had because they thought they were so fly, cheated, etc., and she's stuck alone with 3 or 4 kids all by different guys and alone... and each time a dude DOES interact with her it's at the hotel room and he's gone in the wind, then she starts really changing her tune looking for a man to 'hold her' and that will just 'be there'. That is until she snags one and many get right back to that ol sneaky routine, dealing with the 'bad boys.'

Perfect time if you want to be the eternal bachelor... but if you want to be a man raising a strong family? You better do your research. This is why I see all the playa dudes settling down with women that don't have the looks you would expect.

 

[Schmoove]

That article is real talk.

Like a flower in September... i was also a late bloomer.

Joined SOHH when i was 20 (in 2002) and most of my posts were either

1. Jokes/bantering

2. Venting about my female woes (i was an average frustrated chump who was constantly comparing himself to the guys who were getting more lays than a potato chip company).

So in my mid twenties, consummated my collegiate career (where even then, i struggled with women, yeah, how pathetic) and said F IT! I'ma step my game up!

My confidence was high, and i began approaching beautiful women off the bat. Had an out going personality, a steady job, nice whip, dressed freshed and my game was tight.

Well, supposedly, i assumed my ability to swoon and swoop up women was up to par because of shiit i read.

And that was the problem. I kept getting flaked on and rejected by 98 percent of the women i interacted with and didn't know why.

The dilemma?

I didn't have enough experience under my belt.

You literally have to deal with the 3's, 4's and average chicks before you get the 8's, ninas and dime pieces.

So i reformatted my game, restructed my approach and focused on girls that i would have never considered (and "thinking" you're comfortable with women because you have female siblings and a bevy of homegirls isn't enough - dating is A WHOLE NOTHER BALL GAME! - but i learned that late - missed period).

The last 5 years of my life, i spent fine-tuning my sex life. What i needed to change, how to not simp, accountability, timing, approach, charm, wit, sex appeal, style, mystifying my personae, etc.

Turned that dirty 30 in May and since then...

I've just been on a roll. Dinner bread.


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[Schmoove]

10 star thread. This just may be the GOATest of the GOATs.

Give yourselves a pat on the back brethren.

 

[MikelArteta]

+Pretty much the women want that 'nice guy' to support them. They are only really sorry for their actions because the weight of all of their actions is finally catching up to them. They've had their legions of yes men and simps supporting and affirming their nonsense until they've lost the one thing that kept the whole charade going--their beauty. Really no different than some rapper filled with a crew of yes men who say how down they are until that rapper loses all of his money. When these women run off that last decent dude they had because they thought they were so fly, cheated, etc., and she's stuck alone with 3 or 4 kids all by different guys and alone... and each time a dude DOES interact with her it's at the hotel room and he's gone in the wind, then she starts really changing her tune looking for a man to 'hold her' and that will just 'be there'. That is until she snags one and many get right back to that ol sneaky routine, dealing with the 'bad boys.'

Perfect time if you want to be the eternal bachelor... but if you want to be a man raising a strong family? You better do your research. This is why I see all the playa dudes settling down with women that don't have the looks you would expect.

Gospel

 

[winb83]

what are some instant deal breakers? i'm talking about things that once you see them or notice them or they happen you're either done with her or the limit to what she'll be is a jumpoff. this ain't some check her about it stuff either its instant on the spot when spotted.

if she smokes anything or does any drugs i'm done.
if she has a profile on a social network she's jumpoff status.
if she has a kid she's jumpoff status if that any more than one kid i'm done.
if she has male friends jump off status.
no job i'm done.
no car i'm done.
doesn't have a place of her own (room mate of the same sex permitted) i'm done.
if she ever goes to a club jumpoff status.
any bums or broke people in her immediate family she's jumpoff status.
if she ask me for money for anything i'm done.

 

[T-K-G]

what are some instant deal breakers? i'm talking about things that once you see them or notice them or they happen you're either done with her or the limit to what she'll be is a jumpoff. this ain't some check her about it stuff either its instant on the spot when spotted.

if she smokes anything or does any drugs i'm done.
if she has a profile on a social network she's jumpoff status.
if she has a kid she's jumpoff status if that any more than one kid i'm done.
if she has male friends jump off status.
no job i'm done.
no car i'm done.
doesn't have a place of her own (room mate of the same sex permitted) i'm done.
if she ever goes to a club jumpoff status.
any bums or broke people in her immediate family she's jumpoff status.
if she ask me for money for anything i'm done.

no personality she jumpoff status
she spend too much energy complaining about other people im smashin n dashin
if she likes being in a bad mood more than happy she a jumpoff mission
she aint bringing anything to the table to enhance my life (outside of sex) imma toot it n boot it
cant make me laugh imma hit then toss her in the bushes


those are just a few off the dome

 

[Captain Crunch]

No flak on anyone else, but let's get back to game, and less on throwing shots on women.

W/ that said, if anyone is down from having a lack of success(women, job, money, etc), get your aura up. Pick a hobby or two(learn how to salsa; get in shape, etc) and work on that consistently for a month or so, then your state on mind improves. Improving your situation, starts w/ you.

 

[winb83]

No flak on anyone else, but let's get back to game, and less on throwing shots on women.

W/ that said, if anyone is down from having a lack of success(women, job, money, etc), get your aura up. Pick a hobby or two(learn how to salsa; get in shape, etc) and work on that consistently for a month or so, then your state on mind improves. Improving your situation, starts w/ you.

So what you're saying is setting a set of standards that you won't tolerate no matter what is not game but is instead throwing shots at women. The list I developed came from life experience if I had that list at age 18 I wouldn't have dated any of the woman I actually have dated in life because they've all failed an item on that list. At times it was something glaring I noticed but decided maybe I'll give it a shot anyway and proved a waste of time to be a waste of time.

its not shytting on anybody to set up a list of things that you won't tolerate period and adhere to it. Take it from a man that simped to high hell on the name of bs like love because he became attached to a chick with a weed habit, no car, no job, and no place and spent a couple years trying to fix her life until he noticed that those things were choices she made and brought into her life because that was the life she chose.

 

[MikelArteta]

So what you're saying is setting a set of standards that you won't tolerate no matter what is not game but is instead throwing shots at women. The list I developed came from life experience if I had that list at age 18 I wouldn't have dated any of the woman I actually have dated in life because they've all failed an item on that list. At times it was something glaring I noticed but decided maybe I'll give it a shot anyway and proved a waste of time to be a waste of time.

its not shytting on anybody to set up a list of things that you won't tolerate period and adhere to it. Take it from a man that simped to high hell on the name of bs like love because he became attached to a chick with a weed habit, no car, no job, and no place and spent a couple years trying to fix her life until he noticed that those things were choices she made and brought into her life because that was the life she chose.

this is true, not throwing any shots at captain crunch, because he said some good things. But alot of men in this generation are so emasculated and caught up in the pc bs that if you say anything about a chick that is not heralding praise and admiration is considered .


Great generals plan ahead, knowing their enemies weakness and plotting escape routes and not afraid to admit defeat and pull out when necessary, that wisdom is hard to obtain as a youth while you are still indoctrinated it takes time.

 

[Tres Leches]

damn brehs everytime I come in here its like

 

[Doin2Much Williams]

10 star thread. This just may be the GOATest of the GOATs.

Give yourselves a pat on the back brethren.

Were just simply here to help one another out.

In this day and age, women have such a big leg up in dating (make that arm, abdomen, torso... All without sacrificing the heart)...

Threads like this are fundamental, necessary and progressive.

You can say a lot of the foulisms that women commit are subconsciously manifested.

Well, then as men, our duty is to act with dictation and command things are executed effectively... Consciously.

That power we harness. Pleezbaleeve.


And thats what separates the men from the mice. The pits from the poodles...


The frosted --- from the flakes.


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[MikelArteta]

Were just simply here to help one another out.

In this day and age, women have such a big leg up in dating (make that arm, abdomen, torso... All without sacrificing the heart)...

Threads like this are fundamental, necessary and progressive.

You can say a lot of the foulisms that women commit are subconsciously manifested.

Well, then as men, our duty is to act with dictation and command things are executed effectively... Consciously.

That power we harness. Pleezbaleeve.


And thats what separates the men from the mice. The pits from the poodles...


The frosted --- from the flakes.


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daps and cosign i honestly think the internet is the great equalizer nowadays, back in the day you were fukked, i never had the internet when i was a young lad in hs minus at school, so i thought the whole candy, flowers, thing was the way to go

the more you interact with women the more you realize that most are the same its amazing quite honestly, that last chick i went out with i mentioned earlier in this thread, one day i was adorable and such a sweet guy getting hugs and kisses as she left, now being ignored for more than a week

 

[MikelArteta]

From my observations I would not get serious with a female on dating sites for the most part except maybe the serious ones like match or eharmony or religious ones.

Not only are most of these women damaged, have extreme baggage, or just out of relationships, they love the attention so much and won't give it up.

Scenarios most likely to happen if you dare start to date or wife up one of these women

- you delete or hide her profile, yet she keeps hers up, still logging in for "forums" or for "friends"

- you will fall into the infatuation trap (omg she is so amazing im so lucky), then still see her log in knowing shes reading notes from other prospects

- when the infatuation dies down and she gets bored or whatever she will log back in even on hidden where she can';t be found and chat with numerous guys

- the day you fight break up or anything, she will be back on that site like 2 minutes after


out of all the good women i have known in my life NONE were met on dating sites, most quality women after getting 60 msgs with guys asking for sex or demeaning their pictures etc. will delete their account right away

i've used pof and okcupid and its the same girls who talk to say all black guys or guys in your area they have been ran through by everyone and keep deleting and creating their profiles, the other day when i was trolling pof with other folks on here i came across like 4 profiles of girls i slept with girls who gave it up on the first or second date, a girl who even gave me a treatable std

don't wife them, don't even date them, their mind is clouded by the entitlement and attention they receive,

 

[mamba]

From my observations I would not get serious with a female on dating sites for the most part except maybe the serious ones like match or eharmony or religious ones.

Not only are most of these women damaged, have extreme baggage, or just out of relationships, they love the attention so much and won't give it up.

Scenarios most likely to happen if you dare start to date or wife up one of these women

- you delete or hide her profile, yet she keeps hers up, still logging in for "forums" or for "friends"

- you will fall into the infatuation trap (omg she is so amazing im so lucky), then still see her log in knowing shes reading notes from other prospects

- when the infatuation dies down and she gets bored or whatever she will log back in even on hidden where she can';t be found and chat with numerous guys

- the day you fight break up or anything, she will be back on that site like 2 minutes after


out of all the good women i have known in my life NONE were met on dating sites, most quality women after getting 60 msgs with guys asking for sex or demeaning their pictures etc. will delete their account right away

i've used pof and okcupid and its the same girls who talk to say all black guys or guys in your area they have been ran through by everyone and keep deleting and creating their profiles, the other day when i was trolling pof with other folks on here i came across like 4 profiles of girls i slept with girls who gave it up on the first or second date, a girl who even gave me a treatable std

don't wife them, don't even date them, their mind is clouded by the entitlement and attention they receive,

But, I agree. Don't wife up online chicks.