Brehs why do you want a relationship
Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women
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its simple for me either its gonna happen or its not im not gonna way out my ways too just have one
a relationship will happen when its time if not i'll be single and be fine either or i'll always be fine
when u let it happen its more easier but when go searching and trying u end up with someone u wish u didnt cuz u couldnt wait
so i can say i at least let my happens and that way i have less headaches to deal with
i dont usually pull bytches like that..........but i learned a easy ass way to do it
just talk to a girl an make a good impression. soon they will b thirsty, then wait a bit an come back an all the work is already done
got a girl in my class on my d, havent talked to her in a while but imma find a time to
get that number an dem cheeks in the same week
white girls
just talk to a girl an make a good impression. soon they will b thirsty, then wait a bit an come back an all the work is already done
got a girl in my class on my d, havent talked to her in a while but imma find a time to
get that number an dem cheeks in the same week
white girls
Flay Mayweather
Superstar
What's 80/20 rule again?
Personally, i want to say that the concept itself is bogus and that Ja Rule > 80/20 Rule.
But when you start to analyze it and look at the world at large, the very society that exist before your eyes - you can
inherently gauge its accuracy to a tee.
80 percent of the world's money belongs to 20 percent of the most powerful people/groups.
80 percent of these chickens is getting plucked by 20 percent of the herders.
80 percent of the pizza gets consumed by dinner time and the remaining is left overs for breakfast.
80 percent of the shampoo bottle is utilzed before you either water it down or toss it out in favor of the new flavor.
80 percent of your car oil before it goes bad/depleted and you gotta flush out the bad 20 in lieu for new juice.
80 percent of your fellow cohorts act cordial cuz its out of dynamic and professionalism - but only 20 would actually
become tight with you and want to do stuff after work/weekends.
80 percent of the clothes you have, is just filler - you actually only adore/wear often aboot 20 percent of your gear.
8 of the applications you submit, 2 will manifest into interviews.
When your momma say she ain't want nothing for her birthday, she only 20 percent truthful... she aboot 80 percent certain
she want that Kindle and a thigh master so she can fit into them gouchos she been eyeing since spring time.
Trust me... this applies to almost every facet in life.
Hints are always there... it's up to you to decide which part of the equation is the 80, which is the 20 and tread accordingly.
Like I always say, not just women, but life in general...
"Treat 'em like they wanna be treated... you should treat 'em ACCORDINGLY!!!"
*combs faux non-nubian gumby fade, but only 80 percent of the time, the other 20 is to keep it looking somewhat organic and naturale*
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Flay Mayweather
Superstar
I just do pros vs cons
Example :
Her pros
Money
Job
Car
Her cons
shytty attitude
fukked up mindset
Her cons are too bad for me to deal with. *bushes*
Example :
Her pros
Money
Job
Car
Her cons
shytty attitude
fukked up mindset
Her cons are too bad for me to deal with. *bushes*
FLYINHAWAIIAN
Vegan For a Reason
So how do you do this with your woman without being bored? I want my woman to be more into me. I dont wan. to ignore her for week and be bored
I got a question for everyone that I havent seen addressed on here;
Ok everybody has a past, so how would you let your exes or jumpoffs now that you are now in a relationship. Do you wait for them to hit you up and then you tell them or do you call them or send them a text saying "hey im in a relationship now, we are going to need to fall back on our contact/communication. I would you expect your new gf to handle the dudes in her life
Ok everybody has a past, so how would you let your exes or jumpoffs now that you are now in a relationship. Do you wait for them to hit you up and then you tell them or do you call them or send them a text saying "hey im in a relationship now, we are going to need to fall back on our contact/communication. I would you expect your new gf to handle the dudes in her life
Alright brehs, my girl and I had an argument. My fault, but gotta vent.
Recently she said that I haven't been going out with her and her friends enough. She's on some, "everyone was there with their boyfriends/husbands" and she was feeling left out. Which has mebecause I went the time before last and was there for her friend's wedding not too long ago. So recently it was another of her girls' birthday and again I was asked to go.
The plan was to meet up at her place and head out since she wanted to go together. I was told the whole week it'd be at some bar/lounge so I brought clothes accordingly. She was the one who kept saying it was going to be casual. We find out not too long before we go that it's some real up-scale lounge and most likely my outfit wasn't gonna fly. I had clothes for the occasion back at my place, but since I just recently had an event where I used those clothes I didn't bother dry cleaning them immediately after. So she had to go hang out with her friends who all had their man with them. Now I'm getting heat because she felt all left out/alone at the lounge and is blaming me for that.
Am I really at fault for this? At the end it was her decision to ultimately go knowing what she was about to get into, which by the way was a good 2 hours drive away (driving to Los Angeles from San Diego). I'm not saying I'm not partially at fault, but I don't see why I should take the fall for this 100%. Part of me didn't really want to get dressed up, be on the road for 2 hours to kick it at some lounge with 40-50+ year olds, then drive back anyways. So I kinda dodged a bullet
And yes, her main friends all friends live in Los Angeles. So each time we go it's a 4-5 hour drive round trip and every time I went we'd end up leaving Los Angeles around 2:30am and had to drive back. She has a 2006 car with 170,000 miles on it already, due to her making multiple trips per month sometimesThe whole time I been with her, not once have they made the trip down to see her either. Her girl who visit from fukking Japan was the only one who has since we've been together. I know those are her close friends though that she's been cool with for the last 10+ years, so I try not to go in on that situation itself because she's been through quite a lot with them.
Gawt damn, y'all be on some fulgazy ass relationships.
Makes me realize that i'm with practically a gawt damn saint!
But i bet the sex is incredible - that's the one thing about sassy/crazy bytches. All that emotional turmoil they put you through,
you be retaliating the only way you can legally or with out any discrepancies/potential backlash - is by pounding the hell out of
some squishy ass pusseighliyah!!!
Back to the sitchayshun at hand... you got a abnormal chick who's really bored with her life, those frivolous journey's 4-5 hours
away on some twice a month steeze is some bullshiit (speaking of which, i just had to drive 2 hours away for a little getaway and
i'm too stubborn to do that for my sweetheart - your post put my shiit in perspective and i WILL do that for her).
I dunno, i used to date a woman (as fitting as it is to incorporate this term, i won't say it -ratchet-), who wasn't exactly my cup of tea,
and she kept me on my toes like a motha (the constant tests were
) but something aboot her allowed me to put up with herbehaviors for almost a year (the secks was amazing, i won't ever rule that out). By the end of the day, it wasn't worth the headaches.
The problem with that last chick is that it fukked up my psyche, now that i'm with a sane, normal, acceptable, goal driven, got her own
shiit together - it essentially bores the fukk outta me
I don't live with her - but i still need that spark that i achieve with new women. Truth be told, I stepped out of my relationship boundaries a couple weeks
ago when i went on a date with this sassified young thing (she's 24, i'm 31) and wow... had so much fun. Nothing happened but i had to dead that in fear
of committing infidelity (oops, too late. but at least there was no lip locking/penetraciones). Naw, real talk, i tried to secure a second date but she wasn't
up for it - oh well, maybe it was the karma wheel making its turns and telling cause and effect to take its effect before something shiitty happens in my
life and i'll regret it forever. Better safe than unsafe with a whole lot of sorrow and sorry.
Relationships breigh...
Like college --- they aint' for errbody.
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CrossBones
Louder than words
I wouldnt bother with any of that. you dont care what your exes think about what youre doing. if they hit you up and you want to even reply, then let em know whats good with you. otherwise let them be. its not important what they think at this point
Mr Hate Coffee
Veteran
explain..
I get what @Shameonyou is saying but in my opinion it's a characteristic of someone who is hurt. What if the chick that is engaged never wonders why you never talk again or even thinks twice about it. Then what?
I mean you don't have to fukk with her no more but walking around mad thinking, "I'm gonna show this bytch by not talking to her again." is counterproductive. That's that passive aggressive bullshyt. If she does call just let that chick know you don't fukk with her no more because of what she did. You don't have to explain all your feelings, keep it simple. Trust me she's not gonna be on the other end smiling like "I got this nikka." She will know how you feel tho. But once again, different strokes for different folks. I already know Reincar is gonna disagree. I'm just at a place in my life now where I realize being passive aggressive is a waste of time and does more damage to yourself than another person.
you are correct, and I will tell you why.
The best thing as a man you can do any case where you have been rejected is to hold your dignity and say nothing. This is the not the movie where getting it off your chest makes the girl say aww and come back, this is real life. Women think totally different than men, she made her choice let her live with it, value your time and your words to people who appreciate it not those who string you along and spit you out.
And she won't wonder about him unless she's being cheated on, played, abused or once the feelings for her fiance fade, then seh will think of that guy who was interested in her and treated her great.
And no one is talking about walking around angry saying I'ma show her, what you should be doing is realizing you deserve better. I'm at a place where I don't let women affect me like they once did, there will always be another broad if you want, if a woman doesn't value me as a person then to bad I ain't sticking around for friendship, I'm not holding any anger, animosity, nope i'm severing all ties. And sadly yes alot of women do think like that, they think they have you like a dragonball and can use you when needed. A women who has not chosen you, strung you along does not CARE how you feel
Rocket Scientist
Superstar
Its been a min but im back. Fellas I must say this.A woman's relationship with God,her father and her brothers will determine how she treats you.Let me break it down.If she doesnt go to church or believe in God,well she wont believe in you,tradionational roles (Man as the leader etc).A woman who doesnt believe in God is equivalent to building a house with no foundation.As for her father if she talks bad about him then she will talk bad about you! Some may say they dont want a daddys girl.But you rather a daddy girl then a woman who hates her father.As for her brothers watch how she gets along with them.This will be how she gets along with you. Brothers protect their sister,if she doesnt see a little of a protector in you watch out!
brehs here is a true story i just found out
there is this dude at my church married has 3 kids, he and his wife just bought a townhouse last month, and had a bbq last week and I went. I may rail against marriage but this seemed like one of those
marriages. Dude was laid off last year and has been looking hard for a job etc., anyways after church yesterday my brother in law gets a call from this dudes wife how she needs to talk. My brother in law is the pastor at the church we all attend. Anyways he goes over and comes back home and tells us that she wants a divorce from this dude and already has the papers. This dude no homo could have mostly any girl he wanted , and now got them thangs dropped on him, he doesn't know yet which is the messed up part.
and this goes to every single guy out there who "wishes" he had a relationship or in a relationship or married etc., sometimes you look at couples and your like damn they have it all, there happy, healthy kids, loving relationship then the cloak comes off and they living a lie.
there is this dude at my church married has 3 kids, he and his wife just bought a townhouse last month, and had a bbq last week and I went. I may rail against marriage but this seemed like one of those
marriages. Dude was laid off last year and has been looking hard for a job etc., anyways after church yesterday my brother in law gets a call from this dudes wife how she needs to talk. My brother in law is the pastor at the church we all attend. Anyways he goes over and comes back home and tells us that she wants a divorce from this dude and already has the papers. This dude no homo could have mostly any girl he wanted , and now got them thangs dropped on him, he doesn't know yet which is the messed up part. and this goes to every single guy out there who "wishes" he had a relationship or in a relationship or married etc., sometimes you look at couples and your like damn they have it all, there happy, healthy kids, loving relationship then the cloak comes off and they living a lie.
Son Of God
Pro
I read this and was like
yesbrehs here is a true story i just found out
there is this dude at my church married has 3 kids, he and his wife just bought a townhouse last month, and had a bbq last week and I went. I may rail against marriage but this seemed like one of those
and this goes to every single guy out there who "wishes" he had a relationship or in a relationship or married etc., sometimes you look at couples and your like damn they have it all, there happy, healthy kids, loving relationship then the cloak comes off and they living a lie.
Then I read this and I was like oh lawd no
Edit: @C.Holla couldn't come back at a better time breh. I was just debating in my head whether I should look for a woman that serves the Lord or not, and you just clarified something in my head.So thank you.
