Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[Shameonyou]

let it out breh

nah b just found out a chick I was about to put my bid on went and got engaged out of no where...and aint let me know...now I cut her off for good....and if she wonders why we will never have another conversation again, she will have to figure that out on her own cuz I aint damn sure letting her get that conscience relieved. She know she dont want that nikka, but its all good.

 

[MikelArteta]

Alright brehs, I've been in a relationship with this girl going on 3 years.

Recently she said that I haven't been going out with her enough to hang out with her friends. Which has me

......................................... has you what

 

[Bomberman]

Alright brehs, my girl and I had an argument. My fault, but gotta vent.

Recently she said that I haven't been going out with her and her friends enough. She's on some, "everyone was there with their boyfriends/husbands" and she was feeling left out. Which has me because I went the time before last and was there for her friend's wedding not too long ago. So recently it was another of her girls' birthday and again I was asked to go.

The plan was to meet up at her place and head out since she wanted to go together. I was told the whole week it'd be at some bar/lounge so I brought clothes accordingly. She was the one who kept saying it was going to be casual. We find out not too long before we go that it's some real up-scale lounge and most likely my outfit wasn't gonna fly. I had clothes for the occasion back at my place, but since I just recently had an event where I used those clothes I didn't bother dry cleaning them immediately after. So she had to go hang out with her friends who all had their man with them. Now I'm getting heat because she felt all left out/alone at the lounge and is blaming me for that.

Am I really at fault for this? At the end it was her decision to ultimately go knowing what she was about to get into, which by the way was a good 2 hours drive away (driving to Los Angeles from San Diego). I'm not saying I'm not partially at fault, but I don't see why I should take the fall for this 100%. Part of me didn't really want to get dressed up, be on the road for 2 hours to kick it at some lounge with 40-50+ year olds, then drive back anyways. So I kinda dodged a bullet

And yes, her main friends all friends live in Los Angeles. So each time we go it's a 4-5 hour drive round trip and every time I went we'd end up leaving Los Angeles around 2:30am and had to drive back. She has a 2006 car with 170,000 miles on it already, due to her making multiple trips per month sometimes The whole time I been with her, not once have they made the trip down to see her either. Her girl who visit from fukking Japan was the only one who has since we've been together. I know those are her close friends though that she's been cool with for the last 10+ years, so I try not to go in on that situation itself because she's been through quite a lot with them.

 

[Astroslik]

dude you sound like a bytch no offense ^

 

[twan83]

Alright brehs, my girl and I had an argument. My fault, but gotta vent.

Recently she said that I haven't been going out with her and her friends enough. She's on some, "everyone was there with their boyfriends/husbands" and she was feeling left out. Which has me because I went the time before last and was there for her friend's wedding not too long ago. So recently it was another of her girls' birthday and again I was asked to go.

The plan was to meet up at her place and head out since she wanted to go together. I was told the whole week it'd be at some bar/lounge so I brought clothes accordingly. She was the one who kept saying it was going to be casual. We find out not too long before we go that it's some real up-scale lounge and most likely my outfit wasn't gonna fly. I had clothes for the occasion back at my place, but since I just recently had an event where I used those clothes I didn't bother dry cleaning them immediately after. So she had to go hang out with her friends who all had their man with them. Now I'm getting heat because she felt all left out/alone at the lounge and is blaming me for that.

Am I really at fault for this? At the end it was her decision to ultimately go knowing what she was about to get into, which by the way was a good 2 hours drive away (driving to Los Angeles from San Diego). I'm not saying I'm not partially at fault, but I don't see why I should take the fall for this 100%. Part of me didn't really want to get dressed up, be on the road for 2 hours to kick it at some lounge with 40-50+ year olds, then drive back anyways. So I kinda dodged a bullet

And yes, her main friends all friends live in Los Angeles. So each time we go it's a 4-5 hour drive round trip and every time I went we'd end up leaving Los Angeles around 2:30am and had to drive back. She has a 2006 car with 170,000 miles on it already, due to her making multiple trips per month sometimes The whole time I been with her, not once have they made the trip down to see her either. Her girl who visit from fukking Japan was the only one who has since we've been together. I know those are her close friends though that she's been cool with for the last 10+ years, so I try not to go in on that situation itself because she's been through quite a lot with them.

i just tell mines flat out no i aint going i'll going depending on what the situation is for. i aint gonna be going all the damn time just cuz they brought their man's and they are her friends keyword her HER FRIENDS.

i usually tell her have fun enjoy yourself and go bout my business

 

[Turbulent]

Alright brehs, my girl and I had an argument. My fault, but gotta vent.

Recently she said that I haven't been going out with her and her friends enough. She's on some, "everyone was there with their boyfriends/husbands" and she was feeling left out. Which has me because I went the time before last and was there for her friend's wedding not too long ago. So recently it was another of her girls' birthday and again I was asked to go.

The plan was to meet up at her place and head out since she wanted to go together. I was told the whole week it'd be at some bar/lounge so I brought clothes accordingly. She was the one who kept saying it was going to be casual. We find out not too long before we go that it's some real up-scale lounge and most likely my outfit wasn't gonna fly. I had clothes for the occasion back at my place, but since I just recently had an event where I used those clothes I didn't bother dry cleaning them immediately after. So she had to go hang out with her friends who all had their man with them. Now I'm getting heat because she felt all left out/alone at the lounge and is blaming me for that.

Am I really at fault for this? At the end it was her decision to ultimately go knowing what she was about to get into, which by the way was a good 2 hours drive away (driving to Los Angeles from San Diego). I'm not saying I'm not partially at fault, but I don't see why I should take the fall for this 100%. Part of me didn't really want to get dressed up, be on the road for 2 hours to kick it at some lounge with 40-50+ year olds, then drive back anyways. So I kinda dodged a bullet

And yes, her main friends all friends live in Los Angeles. So each time we go it's a 4-5 hour drive round trip and every time I went we'd end up leaving Los Angeles around 2:30am and had to drive back. She has a 2006 car with 170,000 miles on it already, due to her making multiple trips per month sometimes The whole time I been with her, not once have they made the trip down to see her either. Her girl who visit from fukking Japan was the only one who has since we've been together. I know those are her close friends though that she's been cool with for the last 10+ years, so I try not to go in on that situation itself because she's been through quite a lot with them.

ttell her you anytime you go with her is because you feel like doing it for her, not because you are obligated to. tell her you didn't have clothes to go and quite frankly didn't feel like going anyway. then tell her the fact that she was feeling left out is her own fault and to quit making it your responsibility. You have to teach her another way to look at life breh.

 

[Bomberman]

dude you sound like a bytch no offense ^

None taken. Just been worn out with out with this for minute, which is dumb as shyt.

i just tell mines flat out no i aint going i'll going depending on what the situation is for. i aint gonna be going all the damn time just cuz they brought their man's and they are her friends keyword her HER FRIENDS.

i usually tell her have fun enjoy yourself and go bout my business

That's what I'm saying. I could care less what everyone thinks about it, but she takes it like it's an attack on them.

ttell her you anytime you go with her is because you feel like doing it for her, not because you are obligated to. tell her you didn't have clothes to go and quite frankly didn't feel like going anyway. then tell her the fact that she was feeling left out is her own fault and to quit making it your responsibility. You have to teach her another way to look at life breh.

Appreciate the advice brehs. Trying to make her see the bolded.

 

[twan83]

That's what I'm saying. I could care less what everyone thinks about it, but she takes it like it's an attack on them.

if she did fukk her feelings no offense. i be like look if u dont like being alone with them dont go or if u wanna go stop complaining bout it. i'll go whenever i can or want too simple ass that and if u dont like it sorry too bad. respect my what im saying too u and my space and understand i aint going out way over there just cuz u feel left out all the time. i wouldnt do that too u so dont do it too me

( goes back too playing gta 5 )

 

[FLYINHAWAIIAN]

never give these bytches closure

explain..

 

[Poh SIti Dawn]

Lol she over there screaming "MY FRIENDS BROUGHT THEIR ACCESSORIES, I DIDNT HAVE MINE SO I LOOKED LIKE A FOOL" tell her you're not a damn bag, and that you're not there to be showed off, this ain't show & tell.

 

[Medio]

explain..

i think he means keep them guessing ... if they're is closure, they're bored and they gonna be done with you.

 

[Mr Hate Coffee]

I have to keep reminding myself of the 80/20 rule. My new chick is amazing.. beautiful, easy to get along with, cooks, etc. But she's kinda boring and we don't have the same sense of humor. Since whoever I get with these days could potentially be wifey I find myself overanalyzing all their faults.

The 80/20 Rule is simple. In a healthy relationship, you get about 80 per cent of what you need/want from your partner. They are caring, respectful and share a lot of the same interests as you, but then you meet someone who catches your attention for an unknown reason. It may well be because they fulfill the missing 20 per cent in your relationship – namely the sexual component. Because that 20 per cent has been missing for so long, you quickly conclude, “Hey, this person has everything I am looking for in a partner.” This can be a relationship killer. Since you jump genitals-first for this new interest, you may have given up your 80 per cent loving partner for a 20 per cent fling. The regret automatically sets in.

But I gotta remember 80/20 because every time I break up with a chick I regret it.

 

[Shameonyou]

explain..

women are about curiosity...the best way to end curiosity is finality. Finality brings peace and acceptance...I don't want her to have any of that shyt for the way she pulled this Houdini act on me. While i live my life without having to deal with a flaky woman, she is gonna have to wonder why I was so into her one moment, and completely disregard her the next minute. Women love that shyt for some odd reason...its like putting them on psychological jail-time to think about the dum shyt they do.

 

[iBrowse]

Naw, I'm gonna guess that he did. She told me she told him about me ( ) I just thought it was weird as fukk how she kinda lingered on my side expecting to get up and give her a hug and she talking about she in a "serious relationship". I crossed her ass like I was Jordan in the playoffs and hit her ass with a handshake. Told my friend this and she was like "yeah that shyt probably hurt her feelings".

Good move on your part, (literally and figuratively). Nonetheless, you saw through that bullysh*t and approached it appropriately,

 

[iBrowse]

I remember when I was 22, I was messing with this 42 year old cape verdean chick and I was over at her place for the first time ready to bust a fat nut. She starts telling me her husband got killed , her 25 year old son was fresh outta the pen, her 23 year old son just got arrested the week before , and her 16 year old son was upstairs in his bedroom. I'm fresh outta college, just started my first job, and was like "oh god, please don't let any of these gangsta nikkas come thru while I'm here."

Anyways, she starts sucking me off like a vacuum. Never felt suction like that before. I was finna bust in 30 seconds and had to tell her to slow down, let's go upstairs. Her bedroom was right next to her 16 year old son's. And I felt kinda weird like damn, i'm about to beat the brake's offa dis lil nikka's mom's p*ssy while he's in the next room. He's probably gonna hear it and start crying (his mom said he had low self-esteem and would slit his wrists). But when she got naked, I was just like, oh well, everyone gotta go through some shyt in life. Listening to ya mama get pounded will be your shyt.

Anyways, the funny thing was, when we were fukkin, she was like "fukk me cape verdean style." I'm like "what?" She's like "fukk me up my ass" . .................but I took a look at the 42 year old brown, balloon knot, and was like who knows what kind of creatures have accumulated in that thing over these years. Had to pass. Banged out the p*ssy tho. Condom broke tho. I was scared as shyt for weeks. Thought I was about to have a baby by a 40 year old.