Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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Followed up with meeting with my ex today. Hadn't seen her in a year, hadn't spoke with her in a few months.

It was cool, she has a man, but it felt good to get over that immature bitterness that I think we both had.

She wondered if we'd remain in contact, see each other again, and if we'd loosely be in each others social groups. Told her no for all three, said let me get married first and then we can catch up, and you live up north so I don't think so, and since I don't have facebook, myspace, twitter, or instagram I doubt it.

Chilled for 3 hours, had little debates, at the end she got up, inquired if I was leaving I told her I'd leave in a minute. She lingered around for a few seconds by my side, I suppose she wanted a hug, I just sat there and shook her hand. Felt weird because as I let go of hers, she slid her fingers across my palms as if to get a sense of comfort from my touch. I didn't understand it, but oh well; got that out the way.

did her man know?
 

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I'm a Canadian citizen but I have been living in NY since i was about 6 or 7.......and have not been to Canada since 2003

would i still be able to travel to Cuba if i felt like it?

if you drive to canada and fly from there, or fly from mexico
 

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Followed up with meeting with my ex today. Hadn't seen her in a year, hadn't spoke with her in a few months.

It was cool, she has a man, but it felt good to get over that immature bitterness that I think we both had.

She wondered if we'd remain in contact, see each other again, and if we'd loosely be in each others social groups. Told her no for all three, said let me get married first and then we can catch up, and you live up north so I don't think so, and since I don't have facebook, myspace, twitter, or instagram I doubt it.

Chilled for 3 hours, had little debates, at the end she got up, inquired if I was leaving I told her I'd leave in a minute. She lingered around for a few seconds by my side, I suppose she wanted a hug, I just sat there and shook her hand. Felt weird because as I let go of hers, she slid her fingers across my palms as if to get a sense of comfort from my touch. I didn't understand it, but oh well; got that out the way.
she's trying to see if she could still "get you"
 

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cuffing season for females too

i went too store the other day with my daughter and i decided too let her walk around on her own not put her in stroller and i was like :damn: u walk slower at the store then at home

then i shyt u not the wolves came im like what are all these females coming over here for.
talking bout oh she is so cute, she so adorable

one was like i hope ur daddy is not busy tonite i was like :leon:
another was like he is with me :manny:

so im sitting her listening too this convo as i grab my little girl thinking too myself like damn i just wanted u too walk around too see if ur ready yet and get world war z :whew:

while they bickering and shyt i just left them in the aisle :yeshrug:

aint got time for that shyt
 

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Yeah, kinda weird how she'd refer to little inside jokes that we used to share when we still had a "thing". Weird girl
 

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cuffing season for females too

i went too store the other day with my daughter and i decided too let her walk around on her own not put her in stroller and i was like :damn: u walk slower at the store then at home

then i shyt u not the wolves came im like what are all these females coming over here for.
talking bout oh she is so cute, she so adorable

one was like i hope ur daddy is not busy tonite i was like :leon:
another was like he is with me :manny:

so im sitting her listening too this convo as i grab my little girl thinking too myself like damn i just wanted u too walk around too see if ur ready yet and get world war z :whew:

while they bickering and shyt i just left them in the aisle :yeshrug:

aint got time for that shyt

:russ: Are you fukkin serious
 

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How a girl responds to a neg is a direct indicator of how put together mentally she is

True, a girl's inability to take rejection well is a good way of telling how her mind is.




But at the same time, if she's emotionally invested in you, (i.e. crushing) then it'll show.
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Yeah, kinda weird how she'd refer to little inside jokes that we used to share when we still had a "thing". Weird girl

I wouldn't call it weird as much as I would call it a standard of girls. I'm not going to :deadhorse:but for the past thousand plus pages we already have come to a consensus that girls who are going through any issues in a new relationship will always come back under the guise of nostalgia when it MAY be regret or any number of "I was randomly thinking about you" reasons:yeshrug:. In either case, I'm pretty sure her current dude did not know about your rendezvous:shaq:.
 

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not sure if this wasnt nothing or was a damn hint cuz i was not all there at the time cuz i wasnt feeling the best

i had a doc appt for my illnesses and my female doc saw me squint cuz my back was hurting told me too lift my shirt up too see my back

and goes can i ask u a personel question i was like ya whats up

i see scratch marks on ur back have u had sex recently too where it was really good that u got that kind of scratch marks from a female i was like this with my facial expression :why:

i was like na but it does happen when i do have sex

then she was like interesting and then started too bite down on her pen and stare at me for 1 min and didnt say a word so i waved my hand at her and then she snapped back too reality saying sorry i was just thinking :manny:
 
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